She likes me too...At least thats what i think.We spend a lot of time together..and she told me she likes that...But the ';problem'; is that she never had a relationship before...And I was the one who kissed her for the first time (well..it was something like a kiss..). And she is very confused about what she should do about all...I asked her to give me a chanse but she just can`t be sure that she is ';made'; for a relationship (thats what she told me, that she feels very uncomfortable in that posture)..And what we have now is some kind of a relationship except the common things that a couple do (kissing, holding hands...nothing official) even though many people think that we`re together...but we`re not really...so....what should i do? i really like this girl and i can`t give up on her...Any advice?I like this girl...a lot! (Need Advice)?
There are parts of your post that I don't really understand. ';she feels very uncomfortable in that posture'; for example... perhaps you could clarify that.
It sounds to me like she is very hesitant about getting into any relationship. It may be because she feels too young, not mature enough, or because she does not know what the expectations are for a dating relationship. Perhaps she is afraid that if she starts dating, that will lead to a deeper, more physical or emotional relationship than she is ready for at this point in her life.
Give her time, be a good friend, and don't pressure her to kiss you/hug you/hold your hand. She needs to be comfortable with these actions, or they are only going to cause her more anxiety. Let her know that you are there for her, and if you are willing to be patient, chances are, she will come around.
Good luck!I like this girl...a lot! (Need Advice)?
Well thats a hard answer to give. You could be patient and wait but, then you run the risk of her never being ready. I she doesn't want to be in a relationship then I guess the question is do you want to wait or find somebody new?
She sounds like a big dick tease. Forget about her, unless you want to get blue balls.
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Well, this might sound lame in your ears, but you should take her to your mother and let your mother have a WOMEN TALK with her, your mother always knows what to do.
You could also try and talk to her yourself, but since your not a women.......I would still say...mother or maybe even a best friend.
I think she does not want to do these things, because she is just afraid of doing it wrong, so you should just tell her, she won't and that you would never laugh at her, or make a fool out of her!
Good luck.
U know guys..i guess u two are old enough to know abt relationship is..and if both of u like each other then i see no problem at all..but as u say, its her first time to go into relationship..talk to her again and let her understand that ur intentions are good...u know nothing can be good but to communicate well...
Goodluck to you!
dude, quit while you're ahead. it sounds like she's blowing you off, but being genuinely nice about it and doesn't want to hurt your feelings. whatever you do don't hassle her about turning what you have into a relationship, it may p*** her off. keep at the 'friends' stuff. subtly romanticize her and you never know what'll happen.
if she does like you. . . she'll appreciate it. patience is a virtue
Just go for it...
How old are you guys?
love is patient.
I really dont want to sound cruel but it sounds like she's not sure of her feelings for you. If she was sure she wouldnt feel so conflicted. If you think she's worth holding onto, talk to her about what she wants out of your relationship: Companion, eventual relationship, h*ll, FWB?? Who knows.
just give her time to get use to you being around and just let her know that you'll wait for her and won't rush her.
go slow she's scared . to much pressure and she'll run, not enough pressure she'll move on . you need to do what your doing and take your time. if its meant to be she'll come around.if its not then the world will not end.there is other fish out ther ebut allways try to remain friends .
Tuesday, November 22, 2011
Alright I am 18 yrs old male and i would like some advice about this girl.?
I am 18 yrs old and i have recently started hangin back out with a old group of friends and one of those old friends happens to be my ex gf from a while back. She looks better than ever and i haven't made any moves on her because she had a boyfriend up till a week ago when they broke up. I am not sure if she is interested but i cant stop thinking about her. I have asked a few friends and family about what i should do. Do you guys think i should just go for it and ask her out or should i first build theFriendd relationship back with her first and see what happens? Its a little hard now because were just starting to hang out with everyone again but i can see we still got a little of the old friendship going.Alright I am 18 yrs old male and i would like some advice about this girl.?
i think you should be her friend for a bit longer before you try and ask her out. since its been a while sine you last went out with her. im sure you and her have both evolved and grown up some, so she has probably changed in some aspects. that might be good, or bad. but never-the-less you should get to know the ';new'; her before jumping into something
hope this helps :)Alright I am 18 yrs old male and i would like some advice about this girl.?
cheer her up or invite her to theme park and have fun
don't just jump in and ask her out again until you know how she feels about you and has a chance to get over the recent break up. Most girls appreciate if you take the time to be their friend first anyway. Try talking to her and don't be afraid to open up to her. If she still likes you, it will probably be quite obvious if you know her mannerisms anyway. Good luck!
friend first, but aks her soon, in a friendly way, if she would ever be interested in a relaationship. But hurry so you dont miss out
i think you should be her friend for a bit longer before you try and ask her out. since its been a while sine you last went out with her. im sure you and her have both evolved and grown up some, so she has probably changed in some aspects. that might be good, or bad. but never-the-less you should get to know the ';new'; her before jumping into something
hope this helps :)Alright I am 18 yrs old male and i would like some advice about this girl.?
cheer her up or invite her to theme park and have fun
don't just jump in and ask her out again until you know how she feels about you and has a chance to get over the recent break up. Most girls appreciate if you take the time to be their friend first anyway. Try talking to her and don't be afraid to open up to her. If she still likes you, it will probably be quite obvious if you know her mannerisms anyway. Good luck!
friend first, but aks her soon, in a friendly way, if she would ever be interested in a relaationship. But hurry so you dont miss out
Ok...i need girl help [or guy advice]?
ok...my boyfriend and i broke up b/c he didn't like the way that he was treating me. [he flirts A LOT] and well..he said that he was gunna work on it but he didn't want to hurt me in the process. well...after we broke up he called me a couple of hours later and we talked till 5:something this morning. he kept telling me all this stuff he realized about the girls he flirted with about how he really didn't know why he flirted with them and how he hated to do all that crap to me. and he talked about how he missed me and he regreted everything he had done wrong. i really miss going out with him..but my sister told me that i should make him wait and prove that he's worthy of being my boyfriend. well...my question is...how long should i make him wait and how will i know if he is proven?Ok...i need girl help [or guy advice]?
I say to just go back out with him and see if he keeps doing it. Is he does, then end it immediately. Flirting leads to other things... and you don't want to get your heart broken. Keep your shin up, there's plenty more fish in the sea.Ok...i need girl help [or guy advice]?
BANG BANG BANG. now you're pregnant.
I am a flirt, my fiance hates it. But he knows that is how I am. I would never cheat on him, ever, and he knows that. Some people just flirt because that is how they know to communicate with the oppisite sex. If you want to be with him, then be with him. If you make him wait, he may not be there anymore, and that is something you would have to risk.
I say to just go back out with him and see if he keeps doing it. Is he does, then end it immediately. Flirting leads to other things... and you don't want to get your heart broken. Keep your shin up, there's plenty more fish in the sea.Ok...i need girl help [or guy advice]?
BANG BANG BANG. now you're pregnant.
I am a flirt, my fiance hates it. But he knows that is how I am. I would never cheat on him, ever, and he knows that. Some people just flirt because that is how they know to communicate with the oppisite sex. If you want to be with him, then be with him. If you make him wait, he may not be there anymore, and that is something you would have to risk.
Girl help, i need advice!?
ok, i am 14 and i have a job at the town market, and downstairs is a girl in a food shop (homemade sandwiches, bread ect.) that i went to primary school with, but went to a different secondary school. I really like her, she is also 14. I have started eating the sandwiches there to try and show my affection for her. The only problem is an adult she works for knows my mum really well. There isn't any time i could ask her any love related questions without being overheard by the wrong ears, and this being passed on to my parents. We are both Christian ( i know this because she wears a Cross on a lecklace every week. What should i do?Girl help, i need advice!?
umm just risk it.. try talking to the girl good luck... Girl help, i need advice!?
Try to befriend her and as time progresses you will learn personal things about her that will help you in knowing her better. Don't mind those adults that will overhear your conversation with her as long as you have a good intention that is enough. For sure, if your parents will know about your good intention to her, perhaps they will help you in finding ways to get closer with her in a Christian way.
wow,that's cool...anyway, I suggest that you secretly show your feelings towards that girl like maybe sending notes and stuff that your mum's friend won't get a clue. And whenever your mums asks about the girl, relax and don't panic, deny it calmly and act like nothing is going on...good luck! xoxoxo
well do u guys go to the same church or sumtin maybe if u do u can talk to each other or sumtin and how 'bout school? u can talk to her there too or ask for her email or even write her a note and give it to her ... u got so many options sweets
talk to her as friends first and maybe you can meet somewhere else down the road were you can talk better and remember you are only 14 take it slow kc
wow... quite a toughie.. Since you guys are both Christians, why don't go to church together?
talk to her
umm just risk it.. try talking to the girl good luck... Girl help, i need advice!?
Try to befriend her and as time progresses you will learn personal things about her that will help you in knowing her better. Don't mind those adults that will overhear your conversation with her as long as you have a good intention that is enough. For sure, if your parents will know about your good intention to her, perhaps they will help you in finding ways to get closer with her in a Christian way.
wow,that's cool...anyway, I suggest that you secretly show your feelings towards that girl like maybe sending notes and stuff that your mum's friend won't get a clue. And whenever your mums asks about the girl, relax and don't panic, deny it calmly and act like nothing is going on...good luck! xoxoxo
well do u guys go to the same church or sumtin maybe if u do u can talk to each other or sumtin and how 'bout school? u can talk to her there too or ask for her email or even write her a note and give it to her ... u got so many options sweets
talk to her as friends first and maybe you can meet somewhere else down the road were you can talk better and remember you are only 14 take it slow kc
wow... quite a toughie.. Since you guys are both Christians, why don't go to church together?
talk to her
Girl Problems!! Any Ladies Advice/Opinion?
ok i asked this b4 but more answer wouldnt hurt. Me and my Gf been goin out for about 2 month now, and we rarely get to see each other. all we do is txt and lately txting been gettin dull, she doesnt even txt me anymore she wait til i txt her first then reply immedately. when i txt her she woudl talk happily like she really want t0o talk but if i dont txt her she doesnt even bother to txt me.
when i ask to call her she say she cant talk bcuz her parents are up( i think shes telling the truth she go to a catholic all girl school and parents is strict about dating)
So wassup? Do u Ladies do this often? do u prefer the guy to txt u first? what do u think about the phone situation?Girl Problems!! Any Ladies Advice/Opinion?
you never can tell im always heard that catholic gurls are very bad.........And yes I would like 4 my bf 2 txt 1st.........And the way you should she really is tryin 2 stay away..........Girl Problems!! Any Ladies Advice/Opinion?
relationship isnt going anywhere.
just dump her cuz a text relationship dosent get you anywhere
just about every girl in america waits for the guy to make the move. it actually gets tiring having to wait for guys to text. dont worry yourself. just make time for each other. thats the whole point of relationships...to be with one another. so make the move and make plans to spend time with her. good luck:)
when i ask to call her she say she cant talk bcuz her parents are up( i think shes telling the truth she go to a catholic all girl school and parents is strict about dating)
So wassup? Do u Ladies do this often? do u prefer the guy to txt u first? what do u think about the phone situation?Girl Problems!! Any Ladies Advice/Opinion?
you never can tell im always heard that catholic gurls are very bad.........And yes I would like 4 my bf 2 txt 1st.........And the way you should she really is tryin 2 stay away..........Girl Problems!! Any Ladies Advice/Opinion?
relationship isnt going anywhere.
just dump her cuz a text relationship dosent get you anywhere
just about every girl in america waits for the guy to make the move. it actually gets tiring having to wait for guys to text. dont worry yourself. just make time for each other. thats the whole point of relationships...to be with one another. so make the move and make plans to spend time with her. good luck:)
Girl problem need FEMALE advice.?
Long story short, I liked this girl, i eventually told her this, she wanted to be only friends because she had a boyfriend and i guess just didnt see me like that, a lot of time passed, i was hurt, i moved on and got a girlfriend, we started talking again, and I still like her.
Now one thing I noticed before and ALOT now is that she always acts weird whenever another girl is mentioned by me, and she tries so hard to make it look like she wasn't acting affected and then she just drops the conversation and never responds, through email, aim, text, etc.
I have a GF, and I really like her, but this girl I have way too many feelings for. I know if something is possible, I will have to break up with my girlfriend. Honestly if I knew 100% this girl was also into me, I will definitely break it off with my girl, because its only been 2 months and I dont want to string her along, it would be very wrong. The girl I like, SERIOUSLY i was sprung over her for a very long time and although the feelings had calmed, they never went away.
So anyway I just dont know how to deal with this, its stops anything from ever getting any further between us because we would be having a lot of fun and stuff talking and I would just say a casual thing like ';yeah I went there with my girl once'; and she would be like ';oh yeah, you guys are soo cute'; and then boom she won't respond to any other messages till a few days later when I have to start a new conversation. I have even asked her about it or if its something I said and she would be like ';nothings wrong';.
Does she like me? Do I have a chance or am I just reading things wrong and she actually doesn't like talking to me at all?
I dont know if she said that ';i just wanna be friends'; thing JUST because of her BF or she really meant it...but she did halfway admit she didnt want to hang out with me even as friends because of her boyfriend back then. Btw she is single now.
So ladies, some advice?Girl problem need FEMALE advice.?
I know that you asked for ladies advice, but let me tell you something brother..... All men have gone through this. The problem is, since you never had this girl, you want her bad. It's the chase that you are more attracted to. It's what all us guys like. If you weigh the pro's and con's. You'll see that this girl isn't worth your time....
If she really felt the same towards you, she would've dumped her boyfriend for you, just like how you are willing to dump your girlfriend for her. Get it? Don't waste your time with her. Your girlfriend gave you the time of day, and this girl is just a tease. If she really wanted to get with you, she would've along time ago. No questions asked.
FYI, once a girl has an opinion on you, it sticks with them forever. So basically, you are in the friendzone. There is no way out.Girl problem need FEMALE advice.?
The only way to know for sure is to talk to her. Ask her if she has feelings for you, but don't let your current gf get in the way of anything. If you like this other girl so much, then maybe you shouldn't be with the girl you're with.
Good luck!!
:)
now that she's single....y don't u confront her in a few dayz...thers no bf to hold her back anymore...her answer will help you make your decision...
She doesn't like you buddy. You got the wuss label the moment you professed your feelings.
Listen, the only reason she might get angry is because she thinks she owns you. She doesn't. Move on man, she will never like you.
The truth hurts, but it will help in the long run. Take care buddy.
EDIT: and if you're even thinking of leaving your GF for this other girl, what does it say about your relationship?
Have you asked her if she wants to go out with you? If not, then do so. Also, it's pretty clear, she doesn't want to hear about your girlfriend. Maybe she likes you now, but doesn't think it will work, just try to understand her, and hope for the best. Good luck.
The fact that you love someone else is a big sign that maybe you should break up with you present girlfriend anyway. No woman wants to be with someone who would dump her so quickly for someone else. Do her a favor and let her move on.
Your friend may like you, it's a real possibility. She could be ready to have a relationship with you now but there's no sense in thinking you should keep your girlfriend until such time as you can switch straight over to your crush. That's just not right and moving straight onto someone else would only hurt your present girlfriend's feelings. Be honest with her but don't go telling her about the other woman -that would make it worse.
Then after you're single, wait a while and see how your other love interest reacts to the news of your break-up. She may open up and tell you what you are hoping to hear. :)oil companies
Now one thing I noticed before and ALOT now is that she always acts weird whenever another girl is mentioned by me, and she tries so hard to make it look like she wasn't acting affected and then she just drops the conversation and never responds, through email, aim, text, etc.
I have a GF, and I really like her, but this girl I have way too many feelings for. I know if something is possible, I will have to break up with my girlfriend. Honestly if I knew 100% this girl was also into me, I will definitely break it off with my girl, because its only been 2 months and I dont want to string her along, it would be very wrong. The girl I like, SERIOUSLY i was sprung over her for a very long time and although the feelings had calmed, they never went away.
So anyway I just dont know how to deal with this, its stops anything from ever getting any further between us because we would be having a lot of fun and stuff talking and I would just say a casual thing like ';yeah I went there with my girl once'; and she would be like ';oh yeah, you guys are soo cute'; and then boom she won't respond to any other messages till a few days later when I have to start a new conversation. I have even asked her about it or if its something I said and she would be like ';nothings wrong';.
Does she like me? Do I have a chance or am I just reading things wrong and she actually doesn't like talking to me at all?
I dont know if she said that ';i just wanna be friends'; thing JUST because of her BF or she really meant it...but she did halfway admit she didnt want to hang out with me even as friends because of her boyfriend back then. Btw she is single now.
So ladies, some advice?Girl problem need FEMALE advice.?
I know that you asked for ladies advice, but let me tell you something brother..... All men have gone through this. The problem is, since you never had this girl, you want her bad. It's the chase that you are more attracted to. It's what all us guys like. If you weigh the pro's and con's. You'll see that this girl isn't worth your time....
If she really felt the same towards you, she would've dumped her boyfriend for you, just like how you are willing to dump your girlfriend for her. Get it? Don't waste your time with her. Your girlfriend gave you the time of day, and this girl is just a tease. If she really wanted to get with you, she would've along time ago. No questions asked.
FYI, once a girl has an opinion on you, it sticks with them forever. So basically, you are in the friendzone. There is no way out.Girl problem need FEMALE advice.?
The only way to know for sure is to talk to her. Ask her if she has feelings for you, but don't let your current gf get in the way of anything. If you like this other girl so much, then maybe you shouldn't be with the girl you're with.
Good luck!!
:)
now that she's single....y don't u confront her in a few dayz...thers no bf to hold her back anymore...her answer will help you make your decision...
She doesn't like you buddy. You got the wuss label the moment you professed your feelings.
Listen, the only reason she might get angry is because she thinks she owns you. She doesn't. Move on man, she will never like you.
The truth hurts, but it will help in the long run. Take care buddy.
EDIT: and if you're even thinking of leaving your GF for this other girl, what does it say about your relationship?
Have you asked her if she wants to go out with you? If not, then do so. Also, it's pretty clear, she doesn't want to hear about your girlfriend. Maybe she likes you now, but doesn't think it will work, just try to understand her, and hope for the best. Good luck.
The fact that you love someone else is a big sign that maybe you should break up with you present girlfriend anyway. No woman wants to be with someone who would dump her so quickly for someone else. Do her a favor and let her move on.
Your friend may like you, it's a real possibility. She could be ready to have a relationship with you now but there's no sense in thinking you should keep your girlfriend until such time as you can switch straight over to your crush. That's just not right and moving straight onto someone else would only hurt your present girlfriend's feelings. Be honest with her but don't go telling her about the other woman -that would make it worse.
Then after you're single, wait a while and see how your other love interest reacts to the news of your break-up. She may open up and tell you what you are hoping to hear. :)
Rejected by a girl. Confused and need advice.?
This girl and I have been friends for about a year. She showed signs that she was interested in me and when I asked her friends, they told me that she has a crush on me. I like her too, but when I finally asked her out, she said no and that she does not have the time to date right now. Now it is really weird between us. When we meet each other, she would give me stares or she would sometimes freeze up and can鈥檛 even fully say the word hi. It鈥檚 been two weeks since I asked her out. What happened and what should I do?Rejected by a girl. Confused and need advice.?
Hmmm see now this I can relate to. When she says she doesn't have time for a boyfriend then that probably means either she's not interested, doesn't want to deal with that kind of mess, or just doesn't have the time right now. Talk it out with her, that's what I advise you to do. I suppose if you're feeling brave you could try kissing her and see what she does. It all depends on what your heart tells you is the right thing to do.Rejected by a girl. Confused and need advice.?
Keep trying until you hear the words ';we need to talk';. Maybe she is enjoying being persued. If you just give up after one denial she isn't going to think you're very serious about her.
shes probably shy
maybe she really cant date
and she acts wierd because shes embarrased she rejected you
well, one of my guesses who be, is she probably - can't guarantee it- likes you. us girls, some of us, tend to freeze up, get nervous when we know a guy likes us, and we like him back. as long as she isn't giving you any bad signs, (disappointed looks, cruel beahavoir....), becuase she probably is still into you. just keep trying to go for her. you will know if she doesn't like you if she completly rejects you. have fun! :)
ahh dude that sux... I had that happen to me before... Now we're just friends, I haven't really tried again, we were really good friends, but now we hardly ever talk... Not sure of any way to get back together...
Well, the only thing I can say is don't listen to her friends. Maybe they are telling the truth, maybe not. The honest thing I can tell you is if I put it in the girl's point of view. Maybe she's busy. Maybe she just does want to date right now. The most helpful advice I can give you is don't rush things. Or she'll never come back. Just take things slowly and easily and let things fall into place.
God bless and good luck.
REMEMBER!! : DO NOT rush things. Girls hate it when guys rush them.
I think that you should talk aobut it w/ her. Figure out what her deal is. It will hopefully get better after the initail awkwardness
Talk to her about it. Ask her whats up and why is she acting so differantly. It sounds like she just very very nervous and thats normal. Just let her know that your not there to pressure her. Best of luck.
jessay
I feel so sorry for you... That just happened to my friend- hey, are you? jkjk
Time cures all- wait. Wait for conditions to improve. Everythings gonna be okay, and she's gonna forget about all that happend- well, at least, she won't care about what happened, after a few months.
You just wait, and soon you guys will be back to normal. Hopefully. Good luck!
Forget her name, forget you even know her, and act accordingly. Find another girl that is interested, and if there isn't one, do something to become interesting. The more you ignore stuck up women, the more they become interested in you. When and if you decide to get with them, treat them poorly, don't PAY for anything and they'll hang on you like a bad habit. It works every time. It's important that you get a BAD reputation amoung the girls in your life. That TOTALLY makes you irresistible. EVERY CHICK loves the BAD BOY.
Looks like the girl too is confused.
Better give more details on the age of self and the girl.
maybe she dosen't want to admit that she really likes you and that she just wants to be friends right now , just give it some time and see how things go from there.
Hmmm see now this I can relate to. When she says she doesn't have time for a boyfriend then that probably means either she's not interested, doesn't want to deal with that kind of mess, or just doesn't have the time right now. Talk it out with her, that's what I advise you to do. I suppose if you're feeling brave you could try kissing her and see what she does. It all depends on what your heart tells you is the right thing to do.Rejected by a girl. Confused and need advice.?
Keep trying until you hear the words ';we need to talk';. Maybe she is enjoying being persued. If you just give up after one denial she isn't going to think you're very serious about her.
shes probably shy
maybe she really cant date
and she acts wierd because shes embarrased she rejected you
well, one of my guesses who be, is she probably - can't guarantee it- likes you. us girls, some of us, tend to freeze up, get nervous when we know a guy likes us, and we like him back. as long as she isn't giving you any bad signs, (disappointed looks, cruel beahavoir....), becuase she probably is still into you. just keep trying to go for her. you will know if she doesn't like you if she completly rejects you. have fun! :)
ahh dude that sux... I had that happen to me before... Now we're just friends, I haven't really tried again, we were really good friends, but now we hardly ever talk... Not sure of any way to get back together...
Well, the only thing I can say is don't listen to her friends. Maybe they are telling the truth, maybe not. The honest thing I can tell you is if I put it in the girl's point of view. Maybe she's busy. Maybe she just does want to date right now. The most helpful advice I can give you is don't rush things. Or she'll never come back. Just take things slowly and easily and let things fall into place.
God bless and good luck.
REMEMBER!! : DO NOT rush things. Girls hate it when guys rush them.
I think that you should talk aobut it w/ her. Figure out what her deal is. It will hopefully get better after the initail awkwardness
Talk to her about it. Ask her whats up and why is she acting so differantly. It sounds like she just very very nervous and thats normal. Just let her know that your not there to pressure her. Best of luck.
jessay
I feel so sorry for you... That just happened to my friend- hey, are you? jkjk
Time cures all- wait. Wait for conditions to improve. Everythings gonna be okay, and she's gonna forget about all that happend- well, at least, she won't care about what happened, after a few months.
You just wait, and soon you guys will be back to normal. Hopefully. Good luck!
Forget her name, forget you even know her, and act accordingly. Find another girl that is interested, and if there isn't one, do something to become interesting. The more you ignore stuck up women, the more they become interested in you. When and if you decide to get with them, treat them poorly, don't PAY for anything and they'll hang on you like a bad habit. It works every time. It's important that you get a BAD reputation amoung the girls in your life. That TOTALLY makes you irresistible. EVERY CHICK loves the BAD BOY.
Looks like the girl too is confused.
Better give more details on the age of self and the girl.
maybe she dosen't want to admit that she really likes you and that she just wants to be friends right now , just give it some time and see how things go from there.
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