I've only had one boyfriend, and our relationship lasted 3 years, so i'm not really sure how to read guys with the whole dating process since i don't have much dating experience. i've been hanging out with this guy for a few months, and he finally asked to take me out to dinner (we're going in a few hours). All his friends tell me that he likes me, but he keeps telling everyone that he doesn't want a girlfriend. If he doesn't want a girlfriend, then why is he taking me out to dinner?Advice for a college girl.?
Just because he doesn't want a girlfriend doesn't mean he doesn't like girls. Boys like girls. Obviously, haha...Once you're in college, having a boyfriend/girlfriend is alot more serious than a high school relationship. He might want to date you, but not make the commitment of being your boyfriend yet. From what you've said it seems as though he really does like you and wants to get to know you more. If you guys continue to hang out and enjoy each other's company, and he starts to like you on a deeper level, this may be what changes his mind about wanting a girlfriend. He likes you, but doesn't want to jump into a commitment yet. :)Advice for a college girl.?
i'm 22 outta school for about 3 months now so i'll tell ya its 1 of 2 things.
Either he's lying about not wanting a gf
or
he would like to lay some groundwork and increase his chances of hooking up with you. He DOESN'T want 1 gf, he'd like to have you as 1 of a few options to call on a friday/saturday night.
If you want to find out i guess go to dinner and note how often he asks you about your plans for the weekend, if you drink, party, etc. That might tip you off on where his heads at.
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I really like this girl, and need some advice?
theres a girl in my math class that i like. Ive been into her for a month or so and a few days ago i saw her in the library and decided to chat with her. I talked about the upcoming math test, and how her halloween was, and all seems good. I see her the next day in math class and i notice she is more comfortable around me. Im not just the dude who sits next her she dont know. so we take the test and this takes up most of the class, after the test we chat about it a bit,then we just chat about various things for a while and i suddenly start getting nervous. i hope it wasnt too obvious but i think it may have been. i start havin trouble making eye contact, so i back down a bit. after i screw my head back on, we begin talking again. we get on the topic of driving after she compliments my car, and she tells me about the one time she drove and what a disaster it was. i laugh and she says it was her boyfriends car. i was almost positive shes single. maybe she is just trying to slow me down?I really like this girl, and need some advice?
yea sound like you started thinking to much while you was talking. let me guess you started thinking is she watching you , am i laughing at her jokes when i should be. Some times its get that way if you talk to a person who really responds well to you but is expecting a response from you , unlike a girl who would just talk and just keep talking. Its all in your head but since you like this person so much you dont want to say anything that might mess it up. Just relax, and find things to do with her so the conversation wont get to personal too early. once you get to know her better your flaws, would be easily accepted , have a good oneI really like this girl, and need some advice?
thank you , hell two best answers so far lol, my second day on the job lol, just call me the love doctor
Ask if she has a boyfriend or not. If she does, there is nothing wrong with being just her friend.
you have to let the girl how you ffeel, i mean you will never know if tehy liked you unless you do something, and you will never know if there could of been something, so do what your heart tells you, but i think you shood let her know how you feel. Good Luck hope everything works out
Instince babes instice if it feel dodgy in some way there a good percentage it is. I always follow my gut instinct never failed me yet!
Good Luck hun
Claire x
Forget it, she definitely has a boyfriend, has happened to me a billion times. Be her platonic friend and spend a few years waiting it out.
and don't try to outcompete her bf, you'll lose.
srry man, the facts of life
You sound very nervous! Just keep your calm and keep doing what you are doing. It sounds like you are on the right path. Good Luck!
yes she is so ask her is she presently dating any 1 since u 2 r having such casual conversation. if she asks y let her know that she was not dating any 1 that u r interested n dating her on occassion if she is interested.
might be an old boyfriend
press on laddie, what's the worst that can happen.
ask her about her bf.
Is ZoomZoom on Billy WhizWhiz? - stay off the crack man
ask the girl if she'd like to go out and see what she says!
Just friendship she wants
Listen here man, stop being such a sissy, women hate men who cannot hold there ground! women are like sharks... once they smell blood they attack
look at the kids at school... do the kids who are ******* get hott girls? NO! you have to be a man... stand your ground women love men who have some control on them... women love hearing the word ';NO'; so stop being such a pussy and go ******* mack on that girl seriously... its better then what you are doing now? face it... she doesnt even know your name... pussy is better then your right hand .... god gave you a dick so use it.... sissy *** homo
If she has a boyfriend...how comes that she went into ur car? try to analize this things coz...she might not be a honest girl after all. Some girls just for vanity likes to have kids after them...they give hope to everyone and play with everyone.
Be carefull and asker straightforward wether she has a bf or not..good luck!
Yup...... But there is a possiblity that after spending time with u, she might be attracted 2 u...... Give her some time. If u really like her wait for her 2 be single again. If u just ask her out now, ur chances won't be 2 good cos she has a bf. GOOD LUCK!
yea sound like you started thinking to much while you was talking. let me guess you started thinking is she watching you , am i laughing at her jokes when i should be. Some times its get that way if you talk to a person who really responds well to you but is expecting a response from you , unlike a girl who would just talk and just keep talking. Its all in your head but since you like this person so much you dont want to say anything that might mess it up. Just relax, and find things to do with her so the conversation wont get to personal too early. once you get to know her better your flaws, would be easily accepted , have a good oneI really like this girl, and need some advice?
thank you , hell two best answers so far lol, my second day on the job lol, just call me the love doctor
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Ask if she has a boyfriend or not. If she does, there is nothing wrong with being just her friend.
you have to let the girl how you ffeel, i mean you will never know if tehy liked you unless you do something, and you will never know if there could of been something, so do what your heart tells you, but i think you shood let her know how you feel. Good Luck hope everything works out
Instince babes instice if it feel dodgy in some way there a good percentage it is. I always follow my gut instinct never failed me yet!
Good Luck hun
Claire x
Forget it, she definitely has a boyfriend, has happened to me a billion times. Be her platonic friend and spend a few years waiting it out.
and don't try to outcompete her bf, you'll lose.
srry man, the facts of life
You sound very nervous! Just keep your calm and keep doing what you are doing. It sounds like you are on the right path. Good Luck!
yes she is so ask her is she presently dating any 1 since u 2 r having such casual conversation. if she asks y let her know that she was not dating any 1 that u r interested n dating her on occassion if she is interested.
might be an old boyfriend
press on laddie, what's the worst that can happen.
ask her about her bf.
Is ZoomZoom on Billy WhizWhiz? - stay off the crack man
ask the girl if she'd like to go out and see what she says!
Just friendship she wants
Listen here man, stop being such a sissy, women hate men who cannot hold there ground! women are like sharks... once they smell blood they attack
look at the kids at school... do the kids who are ******* get hott girls? NO! you have to be a man... stand your ground women love men who have some control on them... women love hearing the word ';NO'; so stop being such a pussy and go ******* mack on that girl seriously... its better then what you are doing now? face it... she doesnt even know your name... pussy is better then your right hand .... god gave you a dick so use it.... sissy *** homo
If she has a boyfriend...how comes that she went into ur car? try to analize this things coz...she might not be a honest girl after all. Some girls just for vanity likes to have kids after them...they give hope to everyone and play with everyone.
Be carefull and asker straightforward wether she has a bf or not..good luck!
Yup...... But there is a possiblity that after spending time with u, she might be attracted 2 u...... Give her some time. If u really like her wait for her 2 be single again. If u just ask her out now, ur chances won't be 2 good cos she has a bf. GOOD LUCK!
I have girl trouble?! need quick advice?
ok, i have a girlfriend and i kinda like her (she's my first girlfriend) but i really like this girl whose like my best friend, i've thought about breakign up with my current girlfriend and asking by girl best friend but i'm afraid that that would ruin our friendship and i would hate to lose her freindship but then again i don;t want to hurt my first girlfiend because she's so nice and sweet i need advice!?I have girl trouble?! need quick advice?
as a girl, I know what it feels like to have a guy dump you for your friend. tell your girlfriend that it isnt working out the way you hoped it would and that youd still want to be friends. then wait for her to get over you before you make your move on her friendI have girl trouble?! need quick advice?
i had exactly the same problem . and i broke up with my gf and went out with the best friend. when we broke up it ruined our relationship so i would say keep it kool. and stay with ur current one things are better that way. maybe just talk to your best friend about it. but no further than that is my advise.
good luck .
if u really like her u should stay with her a little bit longer
but dont show that u like ur friend
are you a lesbian
if ur current girlfrnd is nice as a girlfrnd then trust me shez really nice n u never know what if this best frnd becomes a pain in the as* when she gets the girlfrnd status (thay always do). atleast right now u get the best of both ends n theres nothin wrong in casual flirtin.
see if this best frnd responds positively , if she does then think of breakin up with ur currrent .
they always say 'patience is a virtue my girlfrnd, ..... oh i mean frnd ...... too much of the girlfrnd word .... made me sick already'
with the whole not wanting to ruin the friendship thing....i completely understand that...my last bf and i were friends first, and my current bf and i were really great friends first...but think about it this way...you've already changed ur friendship with her if your thinking of her as more than a friend...and whether it hurts ur gf or not u need to do whats right otherwise ur only gonna hurt both of u....
whatever you do, honesty is key. don't do anything rash, or something you might regret later. weigh the options in your head of who you care about more, who you'd rather be with and who you could live without. but again, i plead, don't sneak around. express your true feelings to your girlfriend if you decide not to be with her. however, you must realize there is no way around someone getting hurt in this situation.
as a girl, I know what it feels like to have a guy dump you for your friend. tell your girlfriend that it isnt working out the way you hoped it would and that youd still want to be friends. then wait for her to get over you before you make your move on her friendI have girl trouble?! need quick advice?
i had exactly the same problem . and i broke up with my gf and went out with the best friend. when we broke up it ruined our relationship so i would say keep it kool. and stay with ur current one things are better that way. maybe just talk to your best friend about it. but no further than that is my advise.
good luck .
if u really like her u should stay with her a little bit longer
but dont show that u like ur friend
are you a lesbian
if ur current girlfrnd is nice as a girlfrnd then trust me shez really nice n u never know what if this best frnd becomes a pain in the as* when she gets the girlfrnd status (thay always do). atleast right now u get the best of both ends n theres nothin wrong in casual flirtin.
see if this best frnd responds positively , if she does then think of breakin up with ur currrent .
they always say 'patience is a virtue my girlfrnd, ..... oh i mean frnd ...... too much of the girlfrnd word .... made me sick already'
with the whole not wanting to ruin the friendship thing....i completely understand that...my last bf and i were friends first, and my current bf and i were really great friends first...but think about it this way...you've already changed ur friendship with her if your thinking of her as more than a friend...and whether it hurts ur gf or not u need to do whats right otherwise ur only gonna hurt both of u....
whatever you do, honesty is key. don't do anything rash, or something you might regret later. weigh the options in your head of who you care about more, who you'd rather be with and who you could live without. but again, i plead, don't sneak around. express your true feelings to your girlfriend if you decide not to be with her. however, you must realize there is no way around someone getting hurt in this situation.
Advice for a single girl?
I've been single for 2 years. i'm a goodlooking girl, go out most weekends, but i hardly ever get chatted up. Girls any advice for me, lads any advice on how to approach you's.Advice for a single girl?
It's obvious that no one worth your time has come up to you yet. Don't be discouraged and don't settle just because someone shows you some attention. Don't over sell yourself, it looks like you're desperate. Present yourself confident yet approachable.Advice for a single girl?
Have fun! Single is better then being in a relationship. You just have to learn to flirt with guys!!
just do it, keep me informed
Ask yourself a few quick questions. Are you piling on the pounds? When was the last time you gave O to completion, when was the last time you did it outdoors, or in front of a movie, or in the car, when was the last time you let him have anal, or did something daring in public, or let him spank you, or use toys or make a movie!!.... You had better start to pleasure him whenever, wherever, however he wants, or face a long lonely miserable life without him, re living this experience with man after man till you lose your youth and figure and end up fat twisted bitter and religious hag, posting bile and shite on here about morals and all men a bastards.....good luck!
my email is gysgtmdawg@yahoo.com
email me someday.
maybe i'll get a B/J......
Pick a guy out then play hard to get. That will usually get a man's motor runnin'. He'll then think he has to go out of his way to prove something to you.
mm don't talk to much and be yourself, don't keep looking for guys they will look for you.
repeat these exact words to a guy ';Hey (insert guys name here)'; and if you get a little red thats ok it shows you like us
email me and see whats up baby.....
If you see a good looking guy, don't be afraid to go over and make the first move. I'm single, and I would Love if a girl made the first move, it shows you are interested.
Be more outgoing in front of guys. Dont be shy.makeup video
It's obvious that no one worth your time has come up to you yet. Don't be discouraged and don't settle just because someone shows you some attention. Don't over sell yourself, it looks like you're desperate. Present yourself confident yet approachable.Advice for a single girl?
Have fun! Single is better then being in a relationship. You just have to learn to flirt with guys!!
just do it, keep me informed
Ask yourself a few quick questions. Are you piling on the pounds? When was the last time you gave O to completion, when was the last time you did it outdoors, or in front of a movie, or in the car, when was the last time you let him have anal, or did something daring in public, or let him spank you, or use toys or make a movie!!.... You had better start to pleasure him whenever, wherever, however he wants, or face a long lonely miserable life without him, re living this experience with man after man till you lose your youth and figure and end up fat twisted bitter and religious hag, posting bile and shite on here about morals and all men a bastards.....good luck!
my email is gysgtmdawg@yahoo.com
email me someday.
maybe i'll get a B/J......
Pick a guy out then play hard to get. That will usually get a man's motor runnin'. He'll then think he has to go out of his way to prove something to you.
mm don't talk to much and be yourself, don't keep looking for guys they will look for you.
repeat these exact words to a guy ';Hey (insert guys name here)'; and if you get a little red thats ok it shows you like us
email me and see whats up baby.....
If you see a good looking guy, don't be afraid to go over and make the first move. I'm single, and I would Love if a girl made the first move, it shows you are interested.
Be more outgoing in front of guys. Dont be shy.
Girl Problems gimme some advice?
Okey here it goes,
im trying to get with this one girl i like ive liked her for a little over a year but have kept silent (but i know for a fact that she always knew i liked her). beacuse she has been with her bf now ex boyfriend but he keeps on talking to her wanting to get back together and she doesnt but at times thinks about giving him a 3rd chance (yes 3rd not 2nd) but me and her have been talking pretty much everyday for a little over a month and her friends say '; give him(me) a chance he is right for you'; but she says she doesnt want to or is afraid to because it would start tension between me her and her ex but at the same time she says she likes me so what should i do to ease her mind? beat his ***?? because i really want to be with her!!! im thinkin i should just go and ask her anyway when i feel the time is right the worst that can happen is being told no.
please no bullshit answersGirl Problems gimme some advice?
u r about to do the right thing.u shouldn't trust any middle person in this matter.u've to deal by urself.jus do it dude!! ALL THE BEST!!Girl Problems gimme some advice?
My best advice as a guy is to just be patient. She just got out of that bad relationship and probably isn't quite ready for another one so soon. Moving in too soon will push her away. Just be supportive of her, listen to her and be her friend... after awhile, she'll realize how good you are for her. Trying to intimidate this other guy will only make you look desperate to her. Let her figure out what to do about him on her own. Be nice to her friends, too... they'll be in your corner, then. Good luck! :o)
give no intrest, try to act like u dont need her . i have been in that situaltion b4.
girls hate it when guys r dying for them, they just want to tell the guy, ';GET A LIFE';
but she is ur friend, she would never say such a thing.
act cool with her, and dont show alot of intrest. when she has problems help her out, even if its her ex bf, talk to her, help her get back with him. then she is going to realize even though u love her u r helping her get back with her ex. comfort her.
that way i am sure it will work and if it didnt then she is not the right girl for u.
plus she does not know what she wants. if she wanted u she would have told u. believe me girls cant keep secrets for long.
she knows u like her then dont go telling her again.
let her first get over the other relationship then u enter in
good luck, hope i helped
i think if she really liked you then she wouldnt care about what anyone else thought about her feeling for you, if she really likes you she would just go for it! just ask her, what have you got to lose?
Give the girl some time to figure out what she wants to do. And don't pressure her to rush into something. You might come off as a bully.
The whole tension excuse is just that, an excuse. A girl needs time between relationships.
I say ask her out. If she says no well then pick your head up and go find someone else to like. ya I know it's not that easy. But you are only young once and having the courage now even if you get turned down will help you out when your older. Girls like guys with tons of confidence and nows the time to work on that. Just don't stutter or show you're nervous. Good Luck!
is her ex your buddy? if he is, this makes the situation trickier. in this case, make sure you give some time for her ex to cool off, and ask him if you could date her, or he might think you're ruining his relationship. if not, i think you ought to also give her some time to really re-think her priorities; sometimes couples break up over the most minor things and not having one another would make them realise how much they miss and need each other, and then get back together. by giving her time, it is also beneficial for you, as a girl is at her most vulnerable when she just got out of a relationship, and she may not be at her most rational- meaning, she may jump into another relationship to get over her grief without thinking truly if she wants to commit. with time, she could be sure about what she wants, and this would ensure that she isn't 'using' you to get over her grief. hope this helps, and all the best! :)
and please don't use force in such a situation, use it only when your girl (or any girl) is being bullied, picked on, or taken liberty on (like being extorted for money by bullies or being erm, molested. sorry i know this sounds crude) cos in such situation, you're protecting her.
you're right, the worst she could do is say no, but, and i'm not saying this to mean, but rather to be honest, that she may have already said no by giving you reasons why it won't work. she may not want to hurt your feelings or she may be really hung up on her ex and not want to admit that she wants someone she knows is bad for even though she has a better alternative. having said that, go for it, just don't let her use you whlie she figures stuff out. girls tend to that without even realizing it.
I know you really like this girl but please don't get into any fights with the ex because then you would look just as bad as him....and this might sound stupid but then if she doesn't want to cause any tension between you and her ex maybe the both of you should go out in secret and see how it works out
Get some balls and go for it! You never will know unless you try. And if she says no at least you will have planted that seed in her mind and it will be out in the open. Don't look desperate, go on and keep your eyes open. If she sees that you are interested and want to go out with her but are still trying to date it makes you more desireable. Women like the thrill of the hunt as much as a man does. Good luck and remember you never will know until you ask!
Ask her for one, single date. If she says yes, take her out for the most romantic, amazing, fun, interesting and fantastic night of her life. If she says no, move on.
best fing u could do is get a close friend who knows that u like her to approach her n ask if she would eva go out wiv u?
few days later when the tension settles ask some 1 else to ask her out 4 u to c wot she says
if its a no dnt give up hope just wait a while and ask her personally when she knows u like her and want to b wiv her!
trust me it works!!
well i had the same problem a couple months ago her boyfriend left her and was begging her to give him another chance after he came back but what i did to make that change was i told her that he aint right for u, u deserve someone better who will make u happy and wont hurt you, after i told her that i asked her look i would really love it if u give me 1 chance to be with u and show u and she did and its been great ever since, just be honest with her and tell her what u feel and to give u a chance thats all hope this realy helps.
Beating his *** won't get you anywhere. In fact it would proly push her further away from you. Be her friend and be supportive when you can. Ask her out! Like you said the worse that can happen is she would say no.
Good luck!
U really seem very desperate. She likes you thats the biggest point, ask her out go out together, send sweet sms talk with her on the phone, share your sad stories. Try to look cute and smart dont try to act like high school gangs. Smile all the time. At first say her that you love her but if she says NO then say her we cud be friends. Dont just turn back. Smile all the time, when u talk always look at her eyes. Discuss about her interest, give her some candys every time u see her in such a manner that you bought candys for urself which ur now sharing. Now if these tips works say thanks.
Beating the crap out of him is going to make matters WORSE so don't do it.
Just ask her out and take her somewhere great, where you both can have fun and unwind and get to know each other. If she has a good time, then great. but if for whatever reason it doesn't work out, then do what someone else here has mentioned, and move on. Plenty of fish in the sea darl! good luck!
im trying to get with this one girl i like ive liked her for a little over a year but have kept silent (but i know for a fact that she always knew i liked her). beacuse she has been with her bf now ex boyfriend but he keeps on talking to her wanting to get back together and she doesnt but at times thinks about giving him a 3rd chance (yes 3rd not 2nd) but me and her have been talking pretty much everyday for a little over a month and her friends say '; give him(me) a chance he is right for you'; but she says she doesnt want to or is afraid to because it would start tension between me her and her ex but at the same time she says she likes me so what should i do to ease her mind? beat his ***?? because i really want to be with her!!! im thinkin i should just go and ask her anyway when i feel the time is right the worst that can happen is being told no.
please no bullshit answersGirl Problems gimme some advice?
u r about to do the right thing.u shouldn't trust any middle person in this matter.u've to deal by urself.jus do it dude!! ALL THE BEST!!Girl Problems gimme some advice?
My best advice as a guy is to just be patient. She just got out of that bad relationship and probably isn't quite ready for another one so soon. Moving in too soon will push her away. Just be supportive of her, listen to her and be her friend... after awhile, she'll realize how good you are for her. Trying to intimidate this other guy will only make you look desperate to her. Let her figure out what to do about him on her own. Be nice to her friends, too... they'll be in your corner, then. Good luck! :o)
give no intrest, try to act like u dont need her . i have been in that situaltion b4.
girls hate it when guys r dying for them, they just want to tell the guy, ';GET A LIFE';
but she is ur friend, she would never say such a thing.
act cool with her, and dont show alot of intrest. when she has problems help her out, even if its her ex bf, talk to her, help her get back with him. then she is going to realize even though u love her u r helping her get back with her ex. comfort her.
that way i am sure it will work and if it didnt then she is not the right girl for u.
plus she does not know what she wants. if she wanted u she would have told u. believe me girls cant keep secrets for long.
she knows u like her then dont go telling her again.
let her first get over the other relationship then u enter in
good luck, hope i helped
i think if she really liked you then she wouldnt care about what anyone else thought about her feeling for you, if she really likes you she would just go for it! just ask her, what have you got to lose?
Give the girl some time to figure out what she wants to do. And don't pressure her to rush into something. You might come off as a bully.
The whole tension excuse is just that, an excuse. A girl needs time between relationships.
I say ask her out. If she says no well then pick your head up and go find someone else to like. ya I know it's not that easy. But you are only young once and having the courage now even if you get turned down will help you out when your older. Girls like guys with tons of confidence and nows the time to work on that. Just don't stutter or show you're nervous. Good Luck!
is her ex your buddy? if he is, this makes the situation trickier. in this case, make sure you give some time for her ex to cool off, and ask him if you could date her, or he might think you're ruining his relationship. if not, i think you ought to also give her some time to really re-think her priorities; sometimes couples break up over the most minor things and not having one another would make them realise how much they miss and need each other, and then get back together. by giving her time, it is also beneficial for you, as a girl is at her most vulnerable when she just got out of a relationship, and she may not be at her most rational- meaning, she may jump into another relationship to get over her grief without thinking truly if she wants to commit. with time, she could be sure about what she wants, and this would ensure that she isn't 'using' you to get over her grief. hope this helps, and all the best! :)
and please don't use force in such a situation, use it only when your girl (or any girl) is being bullied, picked on, or taken liberty on (like being extorted for money by bullies or being erm, molested. sorry i know this sounds crude) cos in such situation, you're protecting her.
you're right, the worst she could do is say no, but, and i'm not saying this to mean, but rather to be honest, that she may have already said no by giving you reasons why it won't work. she may not want to hurt your feelings or she may be really hung up on her ex and not want to admit that she wants someone she knows is bad for even though she has a better alternative. having said that, go for it, just don't let her use you whlie she figures stuff out. girls tend to that without even realizing it.
I know you really like this girl but please don't get into any fights with the ex because then you would look just as bad as him....and this might sound stupid but then if she doesn't want to cause any tension between you and her ex maybe the both of you should go out in secret and see how it works out
Get some balls and go for it! You never will know unless you try. And if she says no at least you will have planted that seed in her mind and it will be out in the open. Don't look desperate, go on and keep your eyes open. If she sees that you are interested and want to go out with her but are still trying to date it makes you more desireable. Women like the thrill of the hunt as much as a man does. Good luck and remember you never will know until you ask!
Ask her for one, single date. If she says yes, take her out for the most romantic, amazing, fun, interesting and fantastic night of her life. If she says no, move on.
best fing u could do is get a close friend who knows that u like her to approach her n ask if she would eva go out wiv u?
few days later when the tension settles ask some 1 else to ask her out 4 u to c wot she says
if its a no dnt give up hope just wait a while and ask her personally when she knows u like her and want to b wiv her!
trust me it works!!
well i had the same problem a couple months ago her boyfriend left her and was begging her to give him another chance after he came back but what i did to make that change was i told her that he aint right for u, u deserve someone better who will make u happy and wont hurt you, after i told her that i asked her look i would really love it if u give me 1 chance to be with u and show u and she did and its been great ever since, just be honest with her and tell her what u feel and to give u a chance thats all hope this realy helps.
Beating his *** won't get you anywhere. In fact it would proly push her further away from you. Be her friend and be supportive when you can. Ask her out! Like you said the worse that can happen is she would say no.
Good luck!
U really seem very desperate. She likes you thats the biggest point, ask her out go out together, send sweet sms talk with her on the phone, share your sad stories. Try to look cute and smart dont try to act like high school gangs. Smile all the time. At first say her that you love her but if she says NO then say her we cud be friends. Dont just turn back. Smile all the time, when u talk always look at her eyes. Discuss about her interest, give her some candys every time u see her in such a manner that you bought candys for urself which ur now sharing. Now if these tips works say thanks.
Beating the crap out of him is going to make matters WORSE so don't do it.
Just ask her out and take her somewhere great, where you both can have fun and unwind and get to know each other. If she has a good time, then great. but if for whatever reason it doesn't work out, then do what someone else here has mentioned, and move on. Plenty of fish in the sea darl! good luck!
A teenage girl in need of fashion advice...?
I really need a style makeover but the thing is i have no idea what style suits me best.
I have rather fat arms kinda like Hilary duff's arms when she was still chubby. I don't consider myself fat nor thin..its just that frigging arms that makes me look wide and big.
Neway, i do hope you can give me some fashion tips on what to wear and not to wear.
Pictures would be much appreciated to give me a clear idea on what fashion suits me best.
Thanks!!A teenage girl in need of fashion advice...?
websites like forever 21, and wet seal, and gap are good to start to find styles you like. Remember, don't go trashy, just pretty, to enhance your looks not sell yourself! Feel good in what you decide to try - skirts are in, Old Navy is a favorite for many girls - and they are helpful too! Try that store!A teenage girl in need of fashion advice...?
Wearing dark blue jeans give you a skinnier image. Pair it with pointy toed heels.
I love a simple jeans and teeshirt syle only with a bit more feminity and style. Stores like Old Navy is a good store. Dress up some jeans with some cute flats and shirts.
as for your arms, kimono sleeved shirs would hide any chubbyness :]
heres some examples of kimono sleeved shirts:
http://www.oldnavy.com/browse/product.do鈥?/a>
http://www.oldnavy.com/browse/product.do鈥?/a>
some cute shoes:
http://www.kohls.com/products/product_pa鈥?/a>
http://www.ae.com/web/browse/product.jsp鈥?/a>
if ur a little on the plus size, then i suggest wearing black outfits to make u look thinner..black clothes can never let u down..it makes most people look good
i don't suggest wearing baggy tings cause it will make u look a little bigger..try wearing tight clothes, maybe the parts that are big will look a little thinner cause the tight clothes is squeezing it....i don't suggest putting short sleeves on if ur arms are fat other wise it will be noticable..n if u have nice legs try putting on a short skirt...if u don't then put on a long skirt..if u don't like long skirts then try putting on a short skirt with extremely bright colors so people could lose the focus on ur legs and look at ur skirt
if u want to look really sexy put on a push up bra if u need it..it will make ur boobs look perky and bigger so ur stomach won't look at that big if it is big already
and for pants..put on jeans or pants that are long and open in the bottom..so the pants won't reveal how big ur legs are if it is big...
if ur short try putting on some shoes that have a little heel to make u look tall and noticeble..but make sure the shoes are good looking...if u have nive toes, put on open sandals..but if u don't there still nice shoes that aren't open...make sure the shoes fit..it won't look good if its tight
if ur a tomboy, there are plenty of nice clothes to wear..like girl jerseys..and name brand sneakers like nike, jordans, ecko..i don't kno if ecko is world wide like nike or jordans but the sneakers look real good..ts so cute
so i hope this help u a little bit
Well, this is what I used to do, I usually shop at Target, Meryns, Old Navy, Forever 21 and Pacsun. These styles usually suit many teenagers. do not do for Hollister is they just sell clothes that say hollister and a picture of a bird. Or depending on your age up to 18 limited too has cute fashions. I take my nices there all the time
hey you are a fashion yourself naturaly pretty he was very pretty too not that fat.
i'd try stores like wet seal, forever 21, old navy, and stuff.
DON'T:
wear short sleeved shirts to show ur arms
instead wear long sleeves of 3/4 shirts
DO:
wear black
forget abt arms and show off ur legs by wearing skirts
don't know if it helps..but hope it does!!
I have rather fat arms kinda like Hilary duff's arms when she was still chubby. I don't consider myself fat nor thin..its just that frigging arms that makes me look wide and big.
Neway, i do hope you can give me some fashion tips on what to wear and not to wear.
Pictures would be much appreciated to give me a clear idea on what fashion suits me best.
Thanks!!A teenage girl in need of fashion advice...?
websites like forever 21, and wet seal, and gap are good to start to find styles you like. Remember, don't go trashy, just pretty, to enhance your looks not sell yourself! Feel good in what you decide to try - skirts are in, Old Navy is a favorite for many girls - and they are helpful too! Try that store!A teenage girl in need of fashion advice...?
Wearing dark blue jeans give you a skinnier image. Pair it with pointy toed heels.
I love a simple jeans and teeshirt syle only with a bit more feminity and style. Stores like Old Navy is a good store. Dress up some jeans with some cute flats and shirts.
as for your arms, kimono sleeved shirs would hide any chubbyness :]
heres some examples of kimono sleeved shirts:
http://www.oldnavy.com/browse/product.do鈥?/a>
http://www.oldnavy.com/browse/product.do鈥?/a>
some cute shoes:
http://www.kohls.com/products/product_pa鈥?/a>
http://www.ae.com/web/browse/product.jsp鈥?/a>
if ur a little on the plus size, then i suggest wearing black outfits to make u look thinner..black clothes can never let u down..it makes most people look good
i don't suggest wearing baggy tings cause it will make u look a little bigger..try wearing tight clothes, maybe the parts that are big will look a little thinner cause the tight clothes is squeezing it....i don't suggest putting short sleeves on if ur arms are fat other wise it will be noticable..n if u have nice legs try putting on a short skirt...if u don't then put on a long skirt..if u don't like long skirts then try putting on a short skirt with extremely bright colors so people could lose the focus on ur legs and look at ur skirt
if u want to look really sexy put on a push up bra if u need it..it will make ur boobs look perky and bigger so ur stomach won't look at that big if it is big already
and for pants..put on jeans or pants that are long and open in the bottom..so the pants won't reveal how big ur legs are if it is big...
if ur short try putting on some shoes that have a little heel to make u look tall and noticeble..but make sure the shoes are good looking...if u have nive toes, put on open sandals..but if u don't there still nice shoes that aren't open...make sure the shoes fit..it won't look good if its tight
if ur a tomboy, there are plenty of nice clothes to wear..like girl jerseys..and name brand sneakers like nike, jordans, ecko..i don't kno if ecko is world wide like nike or jordans but the sneakers look real good..ts so cute
so i hope this help u a little bit
Well, this is what I used to do, I usually shop at Target, Meryns, Old Navy, Forever 21 and Pacsun. These styles usually suit many teenagers. do not do for Hollister is they just sell clothes that say hollister and a picture of a bird. Or depending on your age up to 18 limited too has cute fashions. I take my nices there all the time
hey you are a fashion yourself naturaly pretty he was very pretty too not that fat.
i'd try stores like wet seal, forever 21, old navy, and stuff.
DON'T:
wear short sleeved shirts to show ur arms
instead wear long sleeves of 3/4 shirts
DO:
wear black
forget abt arms and show off ur legs by wearing skirts
don't know if it helps..but hope it does!!
I really want to go out with this girl. Can you give me some advice?
She is really beautiful
she is smart
funny
i am smart
funny
i lack confidence to just ask her out
help
what could i do to get her to think i am funnyI really want to go out with this girl. Can you give me some advice?
Take my advice and don't bother.I really want to go out with this girl. Can you give me some advice?
ask her opinion on something or comment on something she is doing, etc. if she responds well back, then tell a story, if she responds well back again then you two are in conversation. after a coulple minutes, tell her you have to go and get her number. talk on phone for 30 minutes. then ask her to meet you some where for coffee.
this will only work if she is attracted to you and if the two of you can keep a conversation going.
be yourself us girls hate fake dudes or guys that try to hard to be funny and make a fool out of themselves. you should get her alone and ask her if shes busy this week and plan a day of arcade games movies and a dinner at a restauraunt like Fire and Ice to get to know her more. That way you have tons of things to discuss and joke about
Gain some self-confidence. And just be yourself. Sorry to say, but if she doesn't think you're already funny you might not have a chance. It's such a turn-off when guys try too hard to be funny. Most gals just want a guy who can laugh about anything and who has a similar sense of humor. Seek out someone who laughs when you laugh...
hope that makes sense
Good luck in your search.
P.S. If you're still determined to get this chick, then you need to build up a repertoire of some really good jokes. Search online and don't forget the punchlines. Happy trails to you ;)
Take her to one of those stupid parody movies(Meet the Spartans, Date Movie, Disaster Movie, etc.) then she'll have to think you're funny. Good luck!
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just tell her you are interested in taking her out. Once you start a conversation i am sure that she will find out that you are funny.
Well, Dick P.. hahaha just be yourself. That is the only key :) Either she likes you or not. Keep hanging with her a bunch too.
be funny...
Just go for it!!
you麓ll see everything will be just fine
good luck ; )
You shouldn't have to try. Just be yourself, and if she doesn't like the real you, then she's not worth it.
so your not cute... just asking cuz u didnt say that?
she is smart
funny
i am smart
funny
i lack confidence to just ask her out
help
what could i do to get her to think i am funnyI really want to go out with this girl. Can you give me some advice?
Take my advice and don't bother.I really want to go out with this girl. Can you give me some advice?
ask her opinion on something or comment on something she is doing, etc. if she responds well back, then tell a story, if she responds well back again then you two are in conversation. after a coulple minutes, tell her you have to go and get her number. talk on phone for 30 minutes. then ask her to meet you some where for coffee.
this will only work if she is attracted to you and if the two of you can keep a conversation going.
be yourself us girls hate fake dudes or guys that try to hard to be funny and make a fool out of themselves. you should get her alone and ask her if shes busy this week and plan a day of arcade games movies and a dinner at a restauraunt like Fire and Ice to get to know her more. That way you have tons of things to discuss and joke about
Gain some self-confidence. And just be yourself. Sorry to say, but if she doesn't think you're already funny you might not have a chance. It's such a turn-off when guys try too hard to be funny. Most gals just want a guy who can laugh about anything and who has a similar sense of humor. Seek out someone who laughs when you laugh...
hope that makes sense
Good luck in your search.
P.S. If you're still determined to get this chick, then you need to build up a repertoire of some really good jokes. Search online and don't forget the punchlines. Happy trails to you ;)
Take her to one of those stupid parody movies(Meet the Spartans, Date Movie, Disaster Movie, etc.) then she'll have to think you're funny. Good luck!
(=
just tell her you are interested in taking her out. Once you start a conversation i am sure that she will find out that you are funny.
Well, Dick P.. hahaha just be yourself. That is the only key :) Either she likes you or not. Keep hanging with her a bunch too.
be funny...
Just go for it!!
you麓ll see everything will be just fine
good luck ; )
You shouldn't have to try. Just be yourself, and if she doesn't like the real you, then she's not worth it.
so your not cute... just asking cuz u didnt say that?
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