A girl needs some BOY advice here.....?

how can i get a boyfriend?...i know people are gonna say that us girls are too young to be thinking about these things..but, i wanna know what to do and how to do it for when i am old enough to have one[im 13 and my mother says i can have one until im 47..in my mother's language,,,that is 18 or19]...i had a bad experiance tho, i was asked by a boy to be their girlfriend when i was 11 and it turned out to be a really mean joke, and i made a mistake by telling my mother. b-cuz she went to go tell that boy ';his rights';[if that makes anysense]...since then she told me that i can't have a boyfriend until i am successful..in other words she just wants me to stop thinking about boys and to start thinking in school and that future...and the more she tells me not to think in boys..the more i think in my crush!....my aunt tried to convince her to let me have a boyfriend and experience it...so she said i could once i hwas in 8th grade...so now is the time...how can i get a boyfriend?...A girl needs some BOY advice here.....?
Flirt when guys flirt. When the girl is too forward it usaully scares the boys away at your age.A girl needs some BOY advice here.....?
About your comment your mother read the boy ';his rights,'; which you seem to not understand. (';If that makes any sense.';) Reading his rights, means she is acting as a policeman !!!!! (The rights are Miranda rights, to remain silent, etc.) its a foolish reaction, but you betta watch out.

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Nobody really knows how to answer a question like yours. But if you see someone you like, telling him is a good start, I think.

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Find a boy you really like, your Mr. Perfect. Get to know him well, spend a lot of time. Here's the key, don't ask him out, let him ask you out. See if he really likes you, he will ask you out, and there should be no complications because he is doing the asking, not you.
Confidence... that's the most attractive thing in a girl. Also, make sure that you are very clean, take care of your eyberows, nails, teeth, etc. make sure you have some nice, but not over powering perfume. make sure you have a good reputation, and not a girl that will do anything for a boy. make them chase you, don't chase them! good luck!
why do you feel like you have to have a boyfriend?
always listen to your mother's word she is only telling you this because she really cares about you but i think you can get one around 16 so just be patient and try to stay out of the drama as much as possible because it can feel good when you are with your boyfriend but what will you be thinking when you break up and don't be mad at me because i say that you and your future boyfriend can break up because these things do happen.
im goin to turn 14 in a few days so i think i can give a good answer to ur question :)





first of all, hii!! so u wanna get a boyfriend..DON'T take one from your class, boys are still imature when they're 13. look for the ones which are 1 or 2 classes bigger than you. they look hotter and have good eyes for girls like you. get to know a few of them. maybe you're once on the hallway and see a boy and go ohhh nice shirt you've got there! or hey thats some good perfume you're wearing :). ohh yea and don'r forget to SMILE!!! smiling gives them joy to and makes their day. and also be confident of yourself. that's one of the best things boys like. if you keep doing this, they may come and ask you to go for a talk at the canteen or somewhere in the school. after this either you or them will ask you out. you wont make an official date, you'll say something like: hey there's this new movie comnig out on saturday...wanna come and watch it with me?





golden rule: have fun, laugh, smile :):):)





at the end maybe you'll walk around and he may turn around and kiss you..look deeply into his eyes and give a little smile...i dare you to bite your lip and hell kiss you right away ;)





and from there you might me going somewheeeere :D:D:D





take care and have fuuun :*:*:*:*:*
I am13 i turn 14 in december, I am 5'6'' and i am very athletic.I have 2brothers and 2 sisters I love hanging with friends and playing sports especially basketball and soccer. I also love hanging out on the computer and chatting. I.m or e-mail me
Relax first of all. These feeling about boys if you think about them come from your girlfriends, T V, and hormones. It is normal but your mom is right.


You have 18 years maybe 22 if your lucky before you are the one paying the bills and making your way in the world.


LEARN everything you can from your teacher and let the boy thing happen at it;s own speed naturally.


Remember the fivoced rate is nearly 60% so even adult are having a hard time figuring out the male female thing.


What is important is that you'll be able to afford a descent standard of living while your trying to find that right boy.
well look for guys you like and talk to them. I'm13 too, but i think i got more experience in this thing we call ';dating'; jk with the dating crap but the other stuff is true. Hope you get a bf!
i think u should not think about that a lot it will be SO hard if u thought about it a lot love comes with in his own way be attention to Ur school and let it go and u will find love
You HAVE to be YOURSELF! Otherwise, the boy will like who you pretend to be, not who you actually are! You have to be patient and just know that the right guy will come along at the right time! Good luck!!!
ummmm...first put alot of thought into what your boyfriend will be like...personality etc.





secondly, define what your relationship will consist of before you go on the prowl..





thirdly, find someone you are interested in and find a way to tell him that you are interested...





beware though, boys at your age are very immature and generally have no social skills whatsoever!





don't date anyone more than like 18 months older than you...(it 13 yr. old language, it goes back to my first and second pieces of advice)...good luck chickpie!
A boyfriend is not something you 'get', like at the shop when you buy milk and bread (dont I wish that wasnt true!) You need to be doing things/activities/interests that the boys do and there you will meet potentials.... and this will give you the opportunity and time to get to know them and hopefully by being yourself (and not trying too hard!!!!), they will get to know the real you and will be intrigued by you as a person and then through talking, either of you can suggest going for a tea/coffee/milkshake/insert drink here..... and that is how a real relationship starts......





I too was the butt of the joke thing at school and it scarred me for a long time..... I was so naive!!!! Very dangerous when suddenly you are assuming you are in a relationship with someone and they havent said more than 10 words to you....





So, get to know the 'potentials' first, a little bit a flirting second and then perhaps ask him to join you for a drink.... he will say yes if interested or no if not! Do not get upset with a rejection at this point!!!!!!!!.... just move onto the next 'potential' (victim!!) GOOD LUCK AND HAVE FUN!