Monday, August 23, 2010

Girl Trouble! plz need advice!?

Ok i really like this girl and she likes me but i lose words when im around her (common). And im not trying to fake her or nething and i know i do it. How do i get rid of it. I really wanna shake it. Also she seems kinda shy and not very open how do i get her to open up to me lol never had this bad of girl truble before plz help.Girl Trouble! plz need advice!?
Have a funny face contest... When it's your turn, pretend you're having a seizure. Roll your eyes back into your head. When she stops laughing and seriously asks, ';are you okay?'; continue, and add a little more drama. Fall to the floor. When she bends down to check on you and touches your face, grab her. Smile and tell her it was just bad gas. Promise her you'll never have a double bean burrito again for lunch.





All should be fine after that. Good luck and remember to floss daily.Girl Trouble! plz need advice!?
hey there!


that's awesome that she likes you! congrats! :D you've conquered one of the harder problems!


i guess when you talk to her, think about what you're gonna say before you open your mouth, and take it slow. just talk slower (i dunno. i tend to talk really quickly when i'm nervous.)


if you want her to open up... ask her things about herself. talk about her favourite things... television shows, movies, sports... whatever she's interested in. she'll have something to contribute to the conversation, and then she'll eventually ask you things about yourself. and theeen... LET THE CONVERSATION FLOOW! XD





hope this helps xx





PS: once the conversation gets going, possibly about movies, just slip in a 'hey, i really wanna see that movie! it comes out next week, right? wanna go see it?' :D all the best
Well for one thing, you can't make her just ';open up';, you have to let her do that in her time. I've already had that problem! As for the other, man just try and play cool, I know its hard but you have to be relaxed. If your tense, she'll be tense. Just remember, IF YOUR TENSE SHE'S TENSE!!!
start talking to her about common stuff like the homework for a class (assumming your in school) or a television show that had recently came on and the more you talk to her about simple things the more comfortable you feel talking about feelings and such.
OK, you need to take a deep breath, meet on neutral territory and just try not to concentrate on how nervous you are as that will make things seem worse, show that you have a general interest in her without apprearing like a ';stalker'; (as that is NOT attractive) and let nature take its course, if its meant to be then it will work! and do NOT pressure her, keep things light and relaxed. :-) goodluck!
some of the stuff these other ppl are saying is tru... but really find out more abt her tho from like friends... if you kno stuff that she does too shes more likly to open up to you also
Well don't be shy go for it maybe ask her out on a date if you don't take risks you ain't living so say i can do this and take her out on a nice date
Have you tried laying off the caffeine?
only one thing for it... tell her!


I would think it kinda sweet if a guy told me he really liked me and got nervous and couldnt talk well around me because of it.


what have you got to lose? she may blow you off but then again she may not.


And as for her being stand off-ish...maybe she is having the same problem.
OK just be your self .she is shy because she has no experience


meeting boy , you lost your ability to make action this time ,try next time .
If you are sure she likes you. Invite her to your house to watch a movie or something. Don't make any moves the whole time she is there. But sit really close, maybe put your arm around her. When she leaves, walk her out. It's more comfortable when no one else is around during this. Open her car door for her. Before she gets in, ask something along the lines of ';Would it freak you out if I gave you a kiss?'; or ';I really want to kiss you right now.'; Say these things as if you are half joking, it won't be as embarassing if you get shot down. Good luck man.
U just need to relax. U get nervous because u feel anxious and that will mess u up big time. When u see her b4 u say anything take a breath and calm ur nerves. If it helps just take things slow until ur words come out right. Then once u open up to her it will be easier and maybe she will return the favor

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