Hey everyone i could really use some advice for this girl....?

alright there's this girl I've had the biggest crush on her since like the 7th grade. when ever I'm around her i get a shy and my face gets all red and when ever i see her unexpectedly i get butterfly's in my stomach but it was like love at first sight... the first time i seen her it was at a high school football game and i was walking up the bleachers and she was walking down and the sun was behind her and i thought she looked like an angle.then in the 8th grade i made it real clear that i liked her but she didn't like me back.so then i just stated saying i didn't like her anymore but i really did... and all though out high school i tried not liking her...like i took her cousin to home coming this year i honestly tried liking her but at the same time i was hopping it would make the girl jealous and i also tried liking other girls to but i can't seem to like any one else but the girl... i kept all of my thoughts to myself until just last week of my senior year in high school when her mom said we would look good together and we should go to prom together i didn't really say anything at the time but latter that week one of my best friends noticed something was up so after like 4years of not telling no one i had feelings about her i told him and then her mom started messaging me on myspace saying we should date and go to prom together then i told her how i felt about her daughter then her mom was like that's awesome and i thought that was to... so then i told this girl every thing above and how when ever i see her kissing other boys and flirting with them it makes me so angry but all through out high school i kept that to myself.she's one of those girls that likes going for the fags that are jerks and that are going no where in life idk she confuses the hell out of me...so we talked in a series of texts she responds by saying ';I'm sorry but were way to good of friends.your like a brother to me.but thanks for telling me.and I'm really not that special';then i was like ';i had a feeling you would say something like that'; then she said ';well stop being so shy you will make some girl happy one day.just be more outgoing and confident.'; then i was like ';yea someday when i get over you...i've been trying for like 5 years'; her ';you will its okay! just wait for collage.many many hotties'; me '; i wish i could just stop likeing feeling the way i feel about u and just move on i try so hard it's useless i hope i can get over you before collage... every thing happens for a reason right? but i don't see the reason for this...'; her ';yes every thing does happen for a reason so us just being friends is obviously a reason. something better come i promise.'; and that's about it please i need advice???





it would be nice if i could still get with her but i don't really see that happening so i guess i'll settle for getting her out of my head so i can finally move on...





if any one could give advice for getting with her or getting her out of my head would be great?Hey everyone i could really use some advice for this girl....?
I'm sorry, but ';getting with'; her is out of the question.


However to get over you her, you do need to take her advice.


Be more outgoing, and be who you really are!


Do not be afraid to say something to someone. If your afraid of being judged, than just this of this idea:


people will think you are even weirder if you NEVER talk as opposed to saying something silly.





Just go out with some of your guy friends to, oh, I don't know, a mall? and go ';scouting'; for girls to flirt with and just become friends with.





And she is right, at college you will meet a ton of girls, but you will never become friends with them if you are too shy to talk to them. You can be whoever you want to be at college, a whole new chapter in your life where the dumb high school stereotypes won't even matter. Just become friends with a ton of girls, and eventually you will find the right one for you. Because the right one will love you just as much as you love her.





One more thing, don't ever settle for something that doesn't bring you complete happiness.





Good Luck!Hey everyone i could really use some advice for this girl....?
Ally your advice was helpful also... i kinda am in the same situation as the girl i like, with this other girl i don't like but likes me (kinda confusing)...but it's funny u said quoted Marilyn Munroe because the girl i like kinda idolizes her.

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You freak of nature. Get a life and a girlfriend.
Well, she sounds like a heck of a girl but if she's into other guys that your nothin like, it sounds like bad news.


To get a girl out your head, start talkin to other girls, start datin other girls and spend more time with the chicks, who knows maybe u'll fall for one?





Good luck.
tricky.


but i can see where you are coming from becuase i loved a guy for years and all my firends thought he liked me too. then he went and got a girlfriend and i was crushed. sometimes you have to think about it from their point of view, imagine some girl liking you so much and you dont feel that way about her too. Try and get her off your mind by thinking about it that way. you cant make her feel something she doesnt. everything happens for a reason and she cme along so that you could learn to love again. marilyn munroe once said,





';I believe everything happens for a reason. People change so you can learn to let go, things go wrong so that you can appreciate them when they're right. You believe lies so that you will eventually learn to trust no one but yourself. And sometimes, good things fall apart, so better things can fall together';
Same thing happened to me. Trust me I know. If she says you act like her bro, then act like her bro. that way you can spend time with her when she's down and sometime she'll notice that you are always there for her and someday you'll go out. All you have to do is give it some time and patients.
I feel for you i really do but u dont know what to say besides i dont think its gonna happen and it sounds like you really love her but someone eles will come i promise you and you sound like a great guy and i would soo go out with you!!! :) im really sorry but ur Q is soo long i dont think ur going to get a lot of answers, i am really sorry but i hope your gett over her and find someone grreat!!! %26lt;3
well so its noticeable she dont like you....


shes right when i was in highschool something similar happened to me .... you will eventually get over her but it takes time maybe even a yr or 2... i met my boyfriend at a ranch because we both love horses and he came very unexpectedly... b4 him i was tired of lookiing for love and then out of the nowhere he came along. so dont look for love thats why its called ';falling in love'; because u dont expect it.


and maybe u shouldnt tell her how you feel. when a guy is obssesed over a girl its kind of a turn off...


anyways my advice is hang in there like she says i promise you will get over her
she is right! everything does happen for a reason and ther is a reason that you guys are just freinds. it may be hard to accept but you guys arent ment for each other... just be glad you guys are really good freinds ok. trust me God has someone really special for you!=]]]