but now... she ended up getting back together with her ex-boyfriend.. that was last monday. Ive been hanging out with her bestfriend and she has been helping me through it... This past weekend they ditched me on friday... cause they had prior plans... so why make plans with me right? then On saturday i helped her move... and then we got ready to go to the club at their new apartment. All night her bestfriend was kind of being mean to me and the girl i liked was being nice... then they were both nice to me.. i got really drunk and they both danced with me and even got a lap dance from the girl i liked... but i didnt really feel them as much as i used to just cause i was kinda upset... neways we were ready to go and usually i stay the night at their house... but i guess the girl i liked's boyfriend and his friends are gonna go to their house also... i was already drunk and they told me that im just dropping them off.. her best friend drove home and when we got to their house.. her best friend gave me a kiss on the cheek and the girl i liked gave me a long hug... then they LET me drive back to the club to get my buddy while I was obviously heavily intoxicated... this kinda hurt my feelings... so me and my buddy went back home to orange county that night... (i drive down to see them almost everyday from orange county to san diego).... neways sunday mornign i was really worried about it... so i asked her bestfriend if we could talk about it.. (previously the night before she texted me telling me that she hopes that im doing ok) so that kinda shows that she kidna cares... but....sorry to get off track ...i asked her to meet me sometime during the day...she said ok ill call you when were done at the airshow. so i went home took a nap at 2 and didnt wake up ill 8pm... no call.. i texted her ';ok so i guess ill jsut go to bed now..'; she texted me back saying ';sorry i was at dinner with my parents'; then she told me good night ... this morning she called and said do you want to talk now... well iw as getting ready for work so i couldnt really...
on my way to work i texted her ...';its just weird now...';
she said ';how so';
and then i said '; well ever since he (the ex boyfriend of her best friend) came back into the picture its like were done with landon, compare this weekend to the other weekends... i mean i expected this from her but not You';
she siad ';ouch. we had prior plans this weekend i couldnt help that... i did really try to make time to hang out with you..i did alot on your behalf you dont know about...';
so i asked her what she did and she said ';**** (thats her bestfriends name and the girl i liked) doesnt want to have MUCH to do with you and im making the effort to keep hanging out with you cuz its rude to just use someone like that'; ....
i asked her if we could talk about it in person later tonight...
my question is... what the hell do i say to her...
my feelings are hurt and id still love to hang out with her and the girl i liked too ... mostly her now since the girl i liked really hurt me...
what the hell do i do? my other friends tell me to just drop them... but im the kind of person that when i start to care about someone... ill do my best to make it work..so thats what im gonna do with the best friend is to keep friends with her...
but what do i tell her... what should i do.Ok so I previously asked for advice about this girl...?
Personally, its a situation that you really need to get out of. Your getting yourself into a psudo-friendship with someone out of pitty, and that never ends well. Walk away from the situation while you can with your head held high...you have done all you can.
Saturday, July 31, 2010
I need advice on how to get the girl i like who is not single but comes off that way to me?
ok there is this girl at school who iv known for over 3 months who i have become friends with but i want more than her friendhship. every time i see her and talk with her i like her that much more. she is so beautiful but its not her looks that attract me. she has one the best personalities i ever came across. i feel like i know her forever and can tell her anything. i always flirt with her and she is flirtacious with me back. i recently actually saved her from failing a class by helping her out with missed class work. anyway we were talking the other day for about an hour just conversating about everything, and i found myself becoming more and more attracted to her.we are talking and laughing and just enjoying each others company after our class ended. so anyway we are about toleave school and i asked her so what are you doing next week and she said i am going on vacation with my boyfriend. but she said it in a way kind of low as if she didnt want to tell me. how can i make her mine.I need advice on how to get the girl i like who is not single but comes off that way to me?
If she has a boyfriend.. then you should respect that and just be her friend. If they break up then you date her, but other than that you are only asking for trouble.I need advice on how to get the girl i like who is not single but comes off that way to me?
IF YOU LOVE A PERSON,SET THAT PERSON FREE.....IF HE COMES BACK TO YOU,THEN YOU WERE MEANT TO BE....
very hard i wud say , but not impossible, well did she never said anythin bou her bf before.her bf is not giving her time so she is just killing time. but yeah make no mistake she loves her bf. u like some one if she didnt had a bf . u cud be her first choice. So my suggestion wud be dont hurt ur self by fallin in love w her. she is taken. try her best friend if she is available. one way wud be flirting with other girls in front of her. talk to her bou her bf. if she complains bou him then u have chance otherwise no. but just remember when ever she talks bad bot her .YOU MAKE SURE u never say anything bad bout him. just tell her sumthin nice bou him.
OMG how could you even think about ';making'; her your girlfriend. Obviously she likes her boyfriend, thats probably why he's her BOYFRIEND. Maybe you can wait it out, or find someone new. There's a lot of people out there.
Dude wtf is your problem? number one thing about love, is YOU CAN'T ever FORCE love. And if she is flirtacious with you..that's pretty much considered cheating. And you're retarded man, you want her to cheat on her boyfriend to be with you? which she doesn't want to.
i dunno man?
well theres nothing you can really do just wait till her and her boyfriend have a fight and then you can comfort her maybe she will she that you really care .good luck
dude first of all only go after her if her bf doesnt treat her right and you know shes unhappy with him
if she really is lucky you have to move on or wait for her
but if you still go after her dont get to close you'll end up being her brother instead of someone shes attracted to
and it hurts when that happens its all about timing man to fast and you scare her off to slow and you lose her to someone else
Put a gun to a her head. If that won't ';make'; her yours, maybe you could put the gun to your head. Only this time, pull the trigger.
ok kid look just keep the close friend up and help her out so wen she breaks up with her bf u can help her out but dont come on too strong or early and just wait for a bit but dont get to strong like around her more then u do normaly help with hard times.
you just gotta wait till they break up
person she has a boyfriend no matter wat not to be harsh but if she really liked u she would break up with him!!!
If she has a boyfriend.. then you should respect that and just be her friend. If they break up then you date her, but other than that you are only asking for trouble.I need advice on how to get the girl i like who is not single but comes off that way to me?
IF YOU LOVE A PERSON,SET THAT PERSON FREE.....IF HE COMES BACK TO YOU,THEN YOU WERE MEANT TO BE....
very hard i wud say , but not impossible, well did she never said anythin bou her bf before.her bf is not giving her time so she is just killing time. but yeah make no mistake she loves her bf. u like some one if she didnt had a bf . u cud be her first choice. So my suggestion wud be dont hurt ur self by fallin in love w her. she is taken. try her best friend if she is available. one way wud be flirting with other girls in front of her. talk to her bou her bf. if she complains bou him then u have chance otherwise no. but just remember when ever she talks bad bot her .YOU MAKE SURE u never say anything bad bout him. just tell her sumthin nice bou him.
OMG how could you even think about ';making'; her your girlfriend. Obviously she likes her boyfriend, thats probably why he's her BOYFRIEND. Maybe you can wait it out, or find someone new. There's a lot of people out there.
Dude wtf is your problem? number one thing about love, is YOU CAN'T ever FORCE love. And if she is flirtacious with you..that's pretty much considered cheating. And you're retarded man, you want her to cheat on her boyfriend to be with you? which she doesn't want to.
i dunno man?
well theres nothing you can really do just wait till her and her boyfriend have a fight and then you can comfort her maybe she will she that you really care .good luck
dude first of all only go after her if her bf doesnt treat her right and you know shes unhappy with him
if she really is lucky you have to move on or wait for her
but if you still go after her dont get to close you'll end up being her brother instead of someone shes attracted to
and it hurts when that happens its all about timing man to fast and you scare her off to slow and you lose her to someone else
Put a gun to a her head. If that won't ';make'; her yours, maybe you could put the gun to your head. Only this time, pull the trigger.
ok kid look just keep the close friend up and help her out so wen she breaks up with her bf u can help her out but dont come on too strong or early and just wait for a bit but dont get to strong like around her more then u do normaly help with hard times.
you just gotta wait till they break up
person she has a boyfriend no matter wat not to be harsh but if she really liked u she would break up with him!!!
Advice on how to get a girl ?
I need some advice .. Well there's this girl at my skl who is very gd looking I really fancy her but she is also very popular I am not as popular as her but I'm nt a geek . I talk to her all the time on msn and facebook I want to ask her out but I think she would say no because of her rep. And I want her to notice me . I really want her as my gf would should I do thank you.. :)Advice on how to get a girl ?
First of popularity has nothing to do anything. Just because she has a rep doesn't mean anything. My advice is just to ask her out. I know your thinking all she can say is no well thats all she can say lol. Unless shes one of those girls who goes and tells her friends and stuff.Advice on how to get a girl ?
Try and spend some time with her either alone or in a group of friends, if you only communicate via the internet the relationship won't work very well in my opinion.
If she's truly a nice person then she won't refuse you because of her reputation, so I wouldn't worry about that part.
Good luck mate
When you ask her out say something like ';I am going to the miniture golfing friday. Do you want to come along?'; Your asking her out but you are also playing it cool because you are telling her you are going whether she goes or not. You will have fun whether she goes or not. If she is into you at all she'll want to go.
sounds bad guy move to someplace that all the people look bad and maybe you well have an change or you could become an preist
Just ask her out. If shes says no, then I'm sorry, a girl like that isn't worth your time
become a balla
First of popularity has nothing to do anything. Just because she has a rep doesn't mean anything. My advice is just to ask her out. I know your thinking all she can say is no well thats all she can say lol. Unless shes one of those girls who goes and tells her friends and stuff.Advice on how to get a girl ?
Try and spend some time with her either alone or in a group of friends, if you only communicate via the internet the relationship won't work very well in my opinion.
If she's truly a nice person then she won't refuse you because of her reputation, so I wouldn't worry about that part.
Good luck mate
When you ask her out say something like ';I am going to the miniture golfing friday. Do you want to come along?'; Your asking her out but you are also playing it cool because you are telling her you are going whether she goes or not. You will have fun whether she goes or not. If she is into you at all she'll want to go.
sounds bad guy move to someplace that all the people look bad and maybe you well have an change or you could become an preist
Just ask her out. If shes says no, then I'm sorry, a girl like that isn't worth your time
become a balla
Ladies, could I please get your advice (concerning a girl spending the weekend with me)?
I know this is the Wedding section, but the advice here is much more helpful. So my situation is this… This girl (we’ll call her Amy) is coming from upstate NY to visit me in Massachusetts for a few days. We were great friends in college until she transferred to a school closer to home in Albany. I’m from Boston. I haven’t seen her since last November when she came to visit an old college roommate of hers (a friend of mine as well.. we have a lot of mutual friends). That night in November, I can remember driving home and getting into bed, asking myself why I missed this girl so much. We exchanged texts at around 3am saying that we missed each other and I believe that I even said I loved her. And I do.
Fast-forward almost 9 months later. Here we are in late August. Amy and I have talked everyday since her visit last in November. A lot of times she will wake me up with a good morning text and be the last person I talk to before going to sleep. In between all of this, we text each other every few hours having short little convos. It’s a nice feeling. I remember in March telling her about my feelings and she had just wanted to stay friends. Then two months later, she tells me that I am the only guy for her. I was driving at the time and actually had to pull over because I couldn’t believe what I was hearing. After she told me this, it was almost like she tried to protect herself because all I could get out of her was “idk” and “idk what I want or what I’m doing”. Having helped her get over her last relationship, I told her that I wasn’t going to pressure her. That I know she had been hurt a lot in the past and to remember that she can always talk to me. (I’m sorry for the novel. I just wanted to give you a good idea of what our friendship was like.)
We’ve said a lot of cute things to each other. Things that ordinary friends wouldn’t say to each other. About a month ago, she was called in to jury duty and had to attend from like 7am-10pm Monday thru Thursday, and toward the end of the week, she got sick. I did a little Google searching, found the closest (and nicest) florist, and had flowers delivered to her with the card reading, “Just wanted to brighten your day. Hope you feel better.” And it was of course signed by me. She loved them and started giving me more attention. Plenty of texts throughout the day that just had a smiley face in them. I was really, really happy that this was going somewhere, and I felt like I had finally gotten myself out of the friend zone if I was ever in it. I consider this girl one of my best friends and even though we’re 4 hours apart, I feel incredibly close to her. Now, I don’t know if this is with all girls, but she’s a little hard to read sometimes. The extra attention she has been giving me stopped the last week and a half. Probably because of her new job. She was out for her friends 21st birthday the other day and I woke up to a text from her at like 3:30 AM. It might be a little weird to you guys, but she does this once in a while. It makes me feel good because I know that she is thinking about me. So anyway.. the text read, “Getting pizza… I miss you.” Haha. She was probably drunk.
So she is coming to visit me on Friday. I’m picking her up at the train station and we’re going to hang out the rest of the day, all of Saturday, and a little of Sunday. I’m sure we’ll sleep in the same bed together. We’ve made little comments before such as, “wish you were here layin’ next to me.” So I think it’s a safe bet to assume that we’ll be sleeping together. As far as sex goes, I don’t think it will happen. I’m not upset about it really. If it happens, it happens. I’ll be prepared. But I just care about being close to her and spending time together. If you’ve read this far, I’m sure you can tell that I really care a lot about this girl. I hope to make her my girlfriend this weekend. Here’s my question:
Do I have a “relationship talk” with her? When do I do this? When we’re cuddling at night watching TV? I know that she’ll bring up the distance issue.. we’re only 4 hours apart. If it does get brought up, I’m going to say that I’ll visit her as much as I can. 2 weekends a month. Thatll be hard to do considering I go to college full time and I’m going into my senior year next Monday. Basically, what I want to know is, do I talk to her about a relationship? If so, what’s a good way to ask her without sounding high school-ish (i.e. “Will you go out with me?”) When should I tell her (when I’m driving her back to the train station on Sunday? In bed cuddling?)
I want to say a HUGE ‘thank you’ to anyone who took the time to read this. This weekend is going to be the most important weekend of my life and has been almost 10 months in the making for me. Haha. Thanks again.Ladies, could I please get your advice (concerning a girl spending the weekend with me)?
Okay, so I'm going to be totally honest with you. The longer you avoid ';having the conversation';, the longer you are going to feel dissatisfied with the situation. In other words, if my guess is correct, you've had some pretty rough times wondering where you stand with this girl. Why does she only text, but not call or visit more often? Why is she coming to visit, but not being totally open with you? Maybe she feels confused about or burned by prior relationships. Maybe she really does view you as a valuable friend and is afraid that being in a relationship will ruin it. It happens.
But for you, you have to know. You'll know when the right moment is. The important thing to remember is to be confident and be sure of yourself. Let her know how much she means to you, but that you can't stand the ambiguity. Everyone deserves to be with someone who is crazy about them. I know. I've been married to my guy for eight years and every day I marvel at the fact that he is my husband and I get to be his wife.
Good luck, though, I know it'll be tough. But you can do it.Ladies, could I please get your advice (concerning a girl spending the weekend with me)?
Wow. You just made my day, now that I know that guys think about this too. I'm at a similar point... wondering if I should ask the same question even though there's some distance between the two of us.
Bring it up, but don't do it on the way to the station. I'd say do it either post-nookie (or w/e you're doing in bed) or when you're out during the day. Just make sure it comes up in a natural flow of conversation and doesn't seem to stiff/planned out.
Good luck!
Holy crap! Having just finished reading War and Peace II, and still awake, here's some advice. You say you don't want to sound high-schoolish, so stop acting like a kid and step up. You don't need a formal talk with her, just open your mouth and start the first time you are alone with her. Just say that you like her and would like to start dating her seriously. Ask her if she is on board with that. If she says yes, then you can work out all the details later. Just do it and stop worrying about it. If she's as nice and sweet as you say she is, she'll probably be glad you finally opened the subject.
omg you are the cutest :$
m preety sure she likes you too...but she has stuff going on in her life..and when she is free from all the hectic stuuf that she has been doing ..she thinks about you..its like end of the day..you are the one she wants to talk to ..
long distance relationships can be hard sometimes ..dont pressure her into anything..just try figuring out how she feels about you..
oh..nd dont forget to welcome her wiith flowers..oor ccook her dinner and be the sweetest :D..not that you are not already
and GOOD LUCK ! :)
Yes! You MUST have the ';relationship talk'; with her.
What's the point of being in a relationship if you're not relating?!
You should start minimizing the texting and do more phone conversations since you live far away from each other. Texting is the worst way to communicate something like this.
Communications is:
7% written
38% Verbal ( tone, inflection of voice, intonation )
55% Non verbal ( body language )
By texting you're missing a whopping 93% of the data!!!!
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You can ask her what do you think about me ?
Do you think we can be bf or gf ?
Ask yourself what do you want in relationship then ask her if she has the same goal. You will feel if there is any chemistry between you two while cuddling or kissing. As far as sex, if you don't think it's the time yet, you can wait.
Fast-forward almost 9 months later. Here we are in late August. Amy and I have talked everyday since her visit last in November. A lot of times she will wake me up with a good morning text and be the last person I talk to before going to sleep. In between all of this, we text each other every few hours having short little convos. It’s a nice feeling. I remember in March telling her about my feelings and she had just wanted to stay friends. Then two months later, she tells me that I am the only guy for her. I was driving at the time and actually had to pull over because I couldn’t believe what I was hearing. After she told me this, it was almost like she tried to protect herself because all I could get out of her was “idk” and “idk what I want or what I’m doing”. Having helped her get over her last relationship, I told her that I wasn’t going to pressure her. That I know she had been hurt a lot in the past and to remember that she can always talk to me. (I’m sorry for the novel. I just wanted to give you a good idea of what our friendship was like.)
We’ve said a lot of cute things to each other. Things that ordinary friends wouldn’t say to each other. About a month ago, she was called in to jury duty and had to attend from like 7am-10pm Monday thru Thursday, and toward the end of the week, she got sick. I did a little Google searching, found the closest (and nicest) florist, and had flowers delivered to her with the card reading, “Just wanted to brighten your day. Hope you feel better.” And it was of course signed by me. She loved them and started giving me more attention. Plenty of texts throughout the day that just had a smiley face in them. I was really, really happy that this was going somewhere, and I felt like I had finally gotten myself out of the friend zone if I was ever in it. I consider this girl one of my best friends and even though we’re 4 hours apart, I feel incredibly close to her. Now, I don’t know if this is with all girls, but she’s a little hard to read sometimes. The extra attention she has been giving me stopped the last week and a half. Probably because of her new job. She was out for her friends 21st birthday the other day and I woke up to a text from her at like 3:30 AM. It might be a little weird to you guys, but she does this once in a while. It makes me feel good because I know that she is thinking about me. So anyway.. the text read, “Getting pizza… I miss you.” Haha. She was probably drunk.
So she is coming to visit me on Friday. I’m picking her up at the train station and we’re going to hang out the rest of the day, all of Saturday, and a little of Sunday. I’m sure we’ll sleep in the same bed together. We’ve made little comments before such as, “wish you were here layin’ next to me.” So I think it’s a safe bet to assume that we’ll be sleeping together. As far as sex goes, I don’t think it will happen. I’m not upset about it really. If it happens, it happens. I’ll be prepared. But I just care about being close to her and spending time together. If you’ve read this far, I’m sure you can tell that I really care a lot about this girl. I hope to make her my girlfriend this weekend. Here’s my question:
Do I have a “relationship talk” with her? When do I do this? When we’re cuddling at night watching TV? I know that she’ll bring up the distance issue.. we’re only 4 hours apart. If it does get brought up, I’m going to say that I’ll visit her as much as I can. 2 weekends a month. Thatll be hard to do considering I go to college full time and I’m going into my senior year next Monday. Basically, what I want to know is, do I talk to her about a relationship? If so, what’s a good way to ask her without sounding high school-ish (i.e. “Will you go out with me?”) When should I tell her (when I’m driving her back to the train station on Sunday? In bed cuddling?)
I want to say a HUGE ‘thank you’ to anyone who took the time to read this. This weekend is going to be the most important weekend of my life and has been almost 10 months in the making for me. Haha. Thanks again.Ladies, could I please get your advice (concerning a girl spending the weekend with me)?
Okay, so I'm going to be totally honest with you. The longer you avoid ';having the conversation';, the longer you are going to feel dissatisfied with the situation. In other words, if my guess is correct, you've had some pretty rough times wondering where you stand with this girl. Why does she only text, but not call or visit more often? Why is she coming to visit, but not being totally open with you? Maybe she feels confused about or burned by prior relationships. Maybe she really does view you as a valuable friend and is afraid that being in a relationship will ruin it. It happens.
But for you, you have to know. You'll know when the right moment is. The important thing to remember is to be confident and be sure of yourself. Let her know how much she means to you, but that you can't stand the ambiguity. Everyone deserves to be with someone who is crazy about them. I know. I've been married to my guy for eight years and every day I marvel at the fact that he is my husband and I get to be his wife.
Good luck, though, I know it'll be tough. But you can do it.Ladies, could I please get your advice (concerning a girl spending the weekend with me)?
Wow. You just made my day, now that I know that guys think about this too. I'm at a similar point... wondering if I should ask the same question even though there's some distance between the two of us.
Bring it up, but don't do it on the way to the station. I'd say do it either post-nookie (or w/e you're doing in bed) or when you're out during the day. Just make sure it comes up in a natural flow of conversation and doesn't seem to stiff/planned out.
Good luck!
Holy crap! Having just finished reading War and Peace II, and still awake, here's some advice. You say you don't want to sound high-schoolish, so stop acting like a kid and step up. You don't need a formal talk with her, just open your mouth and start the first time you are alone with her. Just say that you like her and would like to start dating her seriously. Ask her if she is on board with that. If she says yes, then you can work out all the details later. Just do it and stop worrying about it. If she's as nice and sweet as you say she is, she'll probably be glad you finally opened the subject.
omg you are the cutest :$
m preety sure she likes you too...but she has stuff going on in her life..and when she is free from all the hectic stuuf that she has been doing ..she thinks about you..its like end of the day..you are the one she wants to talk to ..
long distance relationships can be hard sometimes ..dont pressure her into anything..just try figuring out how she feels about you..
oh..nd dont forget to welcome her wiith flowers..oor ccook her dinner and be the sweetest :D..not that you are not already
and GOOD LUCK ! :)
Yes! You MUST have the ';relationship talk'; with her.
What's the point of being in a relationship if you're not relating?!
You should start minimizing the texting and do more phone conversations since you live far away from each other. Texting is the worst way to communicate something like this.
Communications is:
7% written
38% Verbal ( tone, inflection of voice, intonation )
55% Non verbal ( body language )
By texting you're missing a whopping 93% of the data!!!!
*
*
*
You can ask her what do you think about me ?
Do you think we can be bf or gf ?
Ask yourself what do you want in relationship then ask her if she has the same goal. You will feel if there is any chemistry between you two while cuddling or kissing. As far as sex, if you don't think it's the time yet, you can wait.
I need advice on how to get the girl i like who is not single but comes off that way to me?
ok there is this girl at school who iv known for over 3 months who i have become friends with but i want more than her friendhship. every time i see her and talk with her i like her that much more. she is so beautiful but its not her looks that attract me. she has one the best personalities i ever came across. i feel like i know her forever and can tell her anything. i always flirt with her and she is flirtacious with me back. i recently actually saved her from failing a class by helping her out with missed class work. anyway we were talking the other day for about an hour just conversating about everything, and i found myself becoming more and more attracted to her.we are talking and laughing and just enjoying each others company after our class ended. so anyway we are about toleave school and i asked her so what are you doing next week and she said i am going on vacation with my boyfriend. but she said it in a way kind of low as if she didnt want to tell me. how can i make her mine.I need advice on how to get the girl i like who is not single but comes off that way to me?
If she has a boyfriend.. then you should respect that and just be her friend. If they break up then you date her, but other than that you are only asking for trouble.I need advice on how to get the girl i like who is not single but comes off that way to me?
IF YOU LOVE A PERSON,SET THAT PERSON FREE.....IF HE COMES BACK TO YOU,THEN YOU WERE MEANT TO BE....
very hard i wud say , but not impossible, well did she never said anythin bou her bf before.her bf is not giving her time so she is just killing time. but yeah make no mistake she loves her bf. u like some one if she didnt had a bf . u cud be her first choice. So my suggestion wud be dont hurt ur self by fallin in love w her. she is taken. try her best friend if she is available. one way wud be flirting with other girls in front of her. talk to her bou her bf. if she complains bou him then u have chance otherwise no. but just remember when ever she talks bad bot her .YOU MAKE SURE u never say anything bad bout him. just tell her sumthin nice bou him.
OMG how could you even think about ';making'; her your girlfriend. Obviously she likes her boyfriend, thats probably why he's her BOYFRIEND. Maybe you can wait it out, or find someone new. There's a lot of people out there.
Dude wtf is your problem? number one thing about love, is YOU CAN'T ever FORCE love. And if she is flirtacious with you..that's pretty much considered cheating. And you're retarded man, you want her to cheat on her boyfriend to be with you? which she doesn't want to.
i dunno man?
well theres nothing you can really do just wait till her and her boyfriend have a fight and then you can comfort her maybe she will she that you really care .good luck
dude first of all only go after her if her bf doesnt treat her right and you know shes unhappy with him
if she really is lucky you have to move on or wait for her
but if you still go after her dont get to close you'll end up being her brother instead of someone shes attracted to
and it hurts when that happens its all about timing man to fast and you scare her off to slow and you lose her to someone else
Put a gun to a her head. If that won't ';make'; her yours, maybe you could put the gun to your head. Only this time, pull the trigger.
ok kid look just keep the close friend up and help her out so wen she breaks up with her bf u can help her out but dont come on too strong or early and just wait for a bit but dont get to strong like around her more then u do normaly help with hard times.
you just gotta wait till they break up
person she has a boyfriend no matter wat not to be harsh but if she really liked u she would break up with him!!!lip gloss
If she has a boyfriend.. then you should respect that and just be her friend. If they break up then you date her, but other than that you are only asking for trouble.I need advice on how to get the girl i like who is not single but comes off that way to me?
IF YOU LOVE A PERSON,SET THAT PERSON FREE.....IF HE COMES BACK TO YOU,THEN YOU WERE MEANT TO BE....
very hard i wud say , but not impossible, well did she never said anythin bou her bf before.her bf is not giving her time so she is just killing time. but yeah make no mistake she loves her bf. u like some one if she didnt had a bf . u cud be her first choice. So my suggestion wud be dont hurt ur self by fallin in love w her. she is taken. try her best friend if she is available. one way wud be flirting with other girls in front of her. talk to her bou her bf. if she complains bou him then u have chance otherwise no. but just remember when ever she talks bad bot her .YOU MAKE SURE u never say anything bad bout him. just tell her sumthin nice bou him.
OMG how could you even think about ';making'; her your girlfriend. Obviously she likes her boyfriend, thats probably why he's her BOYFRIEND. Maybe you can wait it out, or find someone new. There's a lot of people out there.
Dude wtf is your problem? number one thing about love, is YOU CAN'T ever FORCE love. And if she is flirtacious with you..that's pretty much considered cheating. And you're retarded man, you want her to cheat on her boyfriend to be with you? which she doesn't want to.
i dunno man?
well theres nothing you can really do just wait till her and her boyfriend have a fight and then you can comfort her maybe she will she that you really care .good luck
dude first of all only go after her if her bf doesnt treat her right and you know shes unhappy with him
if she really is lucky you have to move on or wait for her
but if you still go after her dont get to close you'll end up being her brother instead of someone shes attracted to
and it hurts when that happens its all about timing man to fast and you scare her off to slow and you lose her to someone else
Put a gun to a her head. If that won't ';make'; her yours, maybe you could put the gun to your head. Only this time, pull the trigger.
ok kid look just keep the close friend up and help her out so wen she breaks up with her bf u can help her out but dont come on too strong or early and just wait for a bit but dont get to strong like around her more then u do normaly help with hard times.
you just gotta wait till they break up
person she has a boyfriend no matter wat not to be harsh but if she really liked u she would break up with him!!!
Advice on how to get a girl ?
I need some advice .. Well there's this girl at my skl who is very gd looking I really fancy her but she is also very popular I am not as popular as her but I'm nt a geek . I talk to her all the time on msn and facebook I want to ask her out but I think she would say no because of her rep. And I want her to notice me . I really want her as my gf would should I do thank you.. :)Advice on how to get a girl ?
First of popularity has nothing to do anything. Just because she has a rep doesn't mean anything. My advice is just to ask her out. I know your thinking all she can say is no well thats all she can say lol. Unless shes one of those girls who goes and tells her friends and stuff.Advice on how to get a girl ?
sounds bad guy move to someplace that all the people look bad and maybe you well have an change or you could become an preist
Just ask her out. If shes says no, then I'm sorry, a girl like that isn't worth your time
become a balla
Try and spend some time with her either alone or in a group of friends, if you only communicate via the internet the relationship won't work very well in my opinion.
If she's truly a nice person then she won't refuse you because of her reputation, so I wouldn't worry about that part.
Good luck mate
When you ask her out say something like ';I am going to the miniture golfing friday. Do you want to come along?'; Your asking her out but you are also playing it cool because you are telling her you are going whether she goes or not. You will have fun whether she goes or not. If she is into you at all she'll want to go.
First of popularity has nothing to do anything. Just because she has a rep doesn't mean anything. My advice is just to ask her out. I know your thinking all she can say is no well thats all she can say lol. Unless shes one of those girls who goes and tells her friends and stuff.Advice on how to get a girl ?
sounds bad guy move to someplace that all the people look bad and maybe you well have an change or you could become an preist
Just ask her out. If shes says no, then I'm sorry, a girl like that isn't worth your time
become a balla
Try and spend some time with her either alone or in a group of friends, if you only communicate via the internet the relationship won't work very well in my opinion.
If she's truly a nice person then she won't refuse you because of her reputation, so I wouldn't worry about that part.
Good luck mate
When you ask her out say something like ';I am going to the miniture golfing friday. Do you want to come along?'; Your asking her out but you are also playing it cool because you are telling her you are going whether she goes or not. You will have fun whether she goes or not. If she is into you at all she'll want to go.
Can anyone give me advice to find a girl friend?
can anyone tell me how to find a girl friend. i mean true one. how to get closer to her anything like that. no crap pls.. thanks..Can anyone give me advice to find a girl friend?
well first of all you need to find someone who may be interested in you and if the feeling is mutual than start slow ask her out for a walk at first that will give you th e time to talk to one another find out each others likes and dislikes than move on slowly from there. a hint maybe a friend of youres who is a girl just may be interested but to shy to say anything.Can anyone give me advice to find a girl friend?
im glad youre going ot try my advice please keepme posted id like to know if i helped anyhting else you need to ask just email me or post on here. lotsa luck in love dee
be friendly, open, clean, and they will find you
You'll meet the best ones while doing things you really enjoy doing. So spend more time having fun and they'll notice your inner glow. From there, it's just a matter of being polite and friendly, really.
Take 50 dollars and go to the city and look for some of the nice women who are cranking off a pipe in the alley! They will be your girlfriend for sure. Don't let them put their finger in your bum though! It might be dirty.
you looking? how can you tell how you can have a girlfriend with all the 3 billion people? it is hard for me too, but who needs one after all the ugly ones? I like hots, I prefer the hottest than the ugly ones. do you think i'm just using them for looks?
First of all i think to find a girlfriend you have to real with yourself. What sort of girl are you looking for? How are you approaching women? What are your expectations once you find someone? Are looks more important than her personality? These are some of the questions you have to ask yourself. You have to be what you want. Meaning that you attract whatever vibe you put out there. Take your time and date until you find the right one. Don't rush into anything.
well first of all you need to find someone who may be interested in you and if the feeling is mutual than start slow ask her out for a walk at first that will give you th e time to talk to one another find out each others likes and dislikes than move on slowly from there. a hint maybe a friend of youres who is a girl just may be interested but to shy to say anything.Can anyone give me advice to find a girl friend?
im glad youre going ot try my advice please keepme posted id like to know if i helped anyhting else you need to ask just email me or post on here. lotsa luck in love dee
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be friendly, open, clean, and they will find you
You'll meet the best ones while doing things you really enjoy doing. So spend more time having fun and they'll notice your inner glow. From there, it's just a matter of being polite and friendly, really.
Take 50 dollars and go to the city and look for some of the nice women who are cranking off a pipe in the alley! They will be your girlfriend for sure. Don't let them put their finger in your bum though! It might be dirty.
you looking? how can you tell how you can have a girlfriend with all the 3 billion people? it is hard for me too, but who needs one after all the ugly ones? I like hots, I prefer the hottest than the ugly ones. do you think i'm just using them for looks?
First of all i think to find a girlfriend you have to real with yourself. What sort of girl are you looking for? How are you approaching women? What are your expectations once you find someone? Are looks more important than her personality? These are some of the questions you have to ask yourself. You have to be what you want. Meaning that you attract whatever vibe you put out there. Take your time and date until you find the right one. Don't rush into anything.
I really like this girl in one of my classes but she doesnt know i exist. does anyone have any advice?
Maybe try and do something noticeable? Do something funny in class, or just something that will grab people's attention.
Girls love guys with confidence (but not ones who are over-confident). If you're a confident person, just go up and start talking to her. If you're not so confident, take small steps and just say hi to her in passing, she'll gradually start to notice you. T
hat sort of thing happened to me with a guy I liked. I didn't think he knew who I was, but I still said hi and smiled at him every day. After a couple of weeks we had an actual conversation.
But anyway, it's about you, not me.
Be brave, good luck!! xoI really like this girl in one of my classes but she doesnt know i exist. does anyone have any advice?
Let her see you talking to other girls, any girl or woman at all at least, to show her that it is possible a girl can want to talk to you and you are not completely creepy.I really like this girl in one of my classes but she doesnt know i exist. does anyone have any advice?
Introduce yourself... be bold. Try something like asking her to lunch or something casual to get better acquainted.
Oh do you know that you don't exist?
make her notice you.
Girls love guys with confidence (but not ones who are over-confident). If you're a confident person, just go up and start talking to her. If you're not so confident, take small steps and just say hi to her in passing, she'll gradually start to notice you. T
hat sort of thing happened to me with a guy I liked. I didn't think he knew who I was, but I still said hi and smiled at him every day. After a couple of weeks we had an actual conversation.
But anyway, it's about you, not me.
Be brave, good luck!! xoI really like this girl in one of my classes but she doesnt know i exist. does anyone have any advice?
Let her see you talking to other girls, any girl or woman at all at least, to show her that it is possible a girl can want to talk to you and you are not completely creepy.I really like this girl in one of my classes but she doesnt know i exist. does anyone have any advice?
Introduce yourself... be bold. Try something like asking her to lunch or something casual to get better acquainted.
Oh do you know that you don't exist?
make her notice you.
What should I do?!?! I need advice with this one girl?
So, there is this girl. She is my best friend, and I have this huge crush on her, but she doesn't know. She told me that she likes me too. The only problem is, she doesn't want a boyfriend.....ever. She's too afraid of getting hurt so she doesn't want a boyfriend or anything. Other guys asked her out and she said no, and some of these guys she liked too. I like her so much, but I don't think I can do anything about it. If you know any ways, what should I do?What should I do?!?! I need advice with this one girl?
but seeing your her best friend she knows you wont deliberatly hurt her
yes she is saying no to all these guys but who said shes going to say no to you, you wont know til you ask
and if she says no to you it sounds like she is missing out on a great guy who cares so much about her, she shouldnt let her fear of gettin hurt push away any chance of happiness
no one can promise a heart wont get broken with a relationship but the love from that relationship can overcome that
good luck
ask her !!What should I do?!?! I need advice with this one girl?
tell her how much you care about her and tell her you will never hurt her
Maybe she's secretly hinting that she wants you? Tell her that you can make it work out, that you two will be happy I mean. Even if you do break up, that's part of life, and she'll still have those happy memories about you. You two will still be friends IF you break up. You need to reassure her though, somehow.
try to somehow tell her how you feel...somehow just try...its hard but its the only way to find out
but seeing your her best friend she knows you wont deliberatly hurt her
yes she is saying no to all these guys but who said shes going to say no to you, you wont know til you ask
and if she says no to you it sounds like she is missing out on a great guy who cares so much about her, she shouldnt let her fear of gettin hurt push away any chance of happiness
no one can promise a heart wont get broken with a relationship but the love from that relationship can overcome that
good luck
ask her !!What should I do?!?! I need advice with this one girl?
tell her how much you care about her and tell her you will never hurt her
Maybe she's secretly hinting that she wants you? Tell her that you can make it work out, that you two will be happy I mean. Even if you do break up, that's part of life, and she'll still have those happy memories about you. You two will still be friends IF you break up. You need to reassure her though, somehow.
try to somehow tell her how you feel...somehow just try...its hard but its the only way to find out
I need a helpful advice related with my girl...please help?
ok me and my girl been on and off for 6 months and now during the past 2 days she been acting a little strange which she had been acting before, anyway she stopped talking to me, which i knew it would happen since it happened before. Now i wonder since she stopped talking to me, should i act like i don't care even though i really do care about her or should i just give her time or what? I need a helpful advice related with my girl...please help?
Do not act like you don't care.. Then you guys will just start playing relationship games and that will ';jack'; with both of your emotions. You need to be upfront and honest, tell her how you feel and continue trying to contact/reach her!
And once you get the chance to talk to her, If you truly care about her and want the relationship to work.. You need to let her know that communication is crucial and that she cannot keep shutting you out of her life like that!!
Hopefully the two of you can open up and be honest, from that point on I believe your relationship would be MUCH more enjoyable!! Good Luck friend, and remember not to back down. As the man you need to take charge and steer your relationship in a healthy direction!
Do not act like you don't care.. Then you guys will just start playing relationship games and that will ';jack'; with both of your emotions. You need to be upfront and honest, tell her how you feel and continue trying to contact/reach her!
And once you get the chance to talk to her, If you truly care about her and want the relationship to work.. You need to let her know that communication is crucial and that she cannot keep shutting you out of her life like that!!
Hopefully the two of you can open up and be honest, from that point on I believe your relationship would be MUCH more enjoyable!! Good Luck friend, and remember not to back down. As the man you need to take charge and steer your relationship in a healthy direction!
Advice on HP Laptop for Girl?
Hey! my sis is about to grad from junior college, she's 19 yrs old and well im planning on buying her a HP laptop...do u think the HP Pavilion dv3-1075US would work for a girly girl like her?? or which is better dv4-1220US / DV3-1075US...plz help! :DAdvice on HP Laptop for Girl?
Does she like to/ would want to bring a laptop everywhere she goes? if so, choose the smaller and lighter DV3-1075US.
Both laptops' specs are very similar.
If your sister like something more colourful (which most girl do. Since it is quite common to see girls using colourful light notebooks in the llibrary), you can choose dell studio 14.Advice on HP Laptop for Girl?
def. the dv4-1220US it's awesomelip gloss
Does she like to/ would want to bring a laptop everywhere she goes? if so, choose the smaller and lighter DV3-1075US.
Both laptops' specs are very similar.
If your sister like something more colourful (which most girl do. Since it is quite common to see girls using colourful light notebooks in the llibrary), you can choose dell studio 14.Advice on HP Laptop for Girl?
def. the dv4-1220US it's awesome
Looking for advice on how to ask a girl to be my girlfriend?
I'm 27 (and obviously ';relationship-challenged';) and she's 22.
Anyway, I got up the courage to ask her to dinner a few weeks ago, and she agreed to let me take her. I had a great time, and she appeared to have had a good time also. We've hung out every weekend since, (for a total of about 4 dates) but they've all been completely innocent (saw a movie, went for a walk in the park, got ice cream, etc). We have not kissed or hugged each other or held hands even or anything like that yet.
Anyway, I really really like this girl and I want her and I to be a couple. How do you suggest I go about asking her? I'm not very good at these type of things. How should I approach the subject of going from friends to boyfriend / girlfriend?
I'm particularly interested in opinions of girls as to how you would like to be asked this question and from guys as to how you did ask this question in the past with success.
Thanks all.Looking for advice on how to ask a girl to be my girlfriend?
dude...she obviously is giving you the green light...go for it and when the moment is right throw your tongue down her throat....women love it when a guy moves slowly but she is probably worried that you might be gay or not interested if you haven't even held hands yet...you are 27, she is 22, you don't need to ask her to go steadyLooking for advice on how to ask a girl to be my girlfriend?
Thats very sweet and she's into you because she would have avoided all those dates if she didn't!
Do something romantic....
Hire out some 'romantic-comedy' chick flicks.. they got a lot of 'every girl's dream' asking out proposal type thing : ]
And girls love roses and chocolates and teddies
and make sure its a nice location and setting and that she is in THE RIGHT MOOD... if she is angry or something save it or her response won't be so optimistic.... and she'll wonder why you picked such bad timing!
HOPE YOU LUCK
but seriously... don't worry she will say yes : ]
just go up to her and say ';so, we goin out or what?'; lol
I think that she will be pretty much expecting the general progression of things anyway, even though it might be unspoken there is always an understanding of where things are going. So it's probably not as necessary to build it up into a big event unless you really want to. I asked my now-boyfriend out, mostly by hinting and general conversational pointers towards being a couple, which he reciprocated. In the end I couldn't stand it any more and sent him a text saying, 'I'm dying to ask you out! It's driving me mad.' and when we saw each other next it was just like, we were a couple. A few boyfriends in the past have asked me out by asking to kiss me or referring to me as their girlfriend, which was fine but I guess it all depends on you two as individuals. Each situation is totally unique. Maybe it might feel more natural to kiss first or maybe better to ask her out officially first. I guess for me the best way is always the easiest and most natural feeling. Hope it all works out.
cave man stile. hit her on head with club then take her to ur love nest oohgaaboogaa.lol
ask her to go to dinner with you, just have a nice friendly time. during the course of the meal just tell her how you feel and that you would like to step up the relationship a bit. tell her you want the both of you to be exclusive to each other, you want her to date only you and that you don't want anyone else but her. don't be overly sappy..don't do some elaborate scheme you see on those movies.. just be real.. chicks dig ';real';
i think you should discuss with that girl. Tell her how you feel at her. It may work and don't forget to bring flowers.
Anyway, I got up the courage to ask her to dinner a few weeks ago, and she agreed to let me take her. I had a great time, and she appeared to have had a good time also. We've hung out every weekend since, (for a total of about 4 dates) but they've all been completely innocent (saw a movie, went for a walk in the park, got ice cream, etc). We have not kissed or hugged each other or held hands even or anything like that yet.
Anyway, I really really like this girl and I want her and I to be a couple. How do you suggest I go about asking her? I'm not very good at these type of things. How should I approach the subject of going from friends to boyfriend / girlfriend?
I'm particularly interested in opinions of girls as to how you would like to be asked this question and from guys as to how you did ask this question in the past with success.
Thanks all.Looking for advice on how to ask a girl to be my girlfriend?
dude...she obviously is giving you the green light...go for it and when the moment is right throw your tongue down her throat....women love it when a guy moves slowly but she is probably worried that you might be gay or not interested if you haven't even held hands yet...you are 27, she is 22, you don't need to ask her to go steadyLooking for advice on how to ask a girl to be my girlfriend?
Thats very sweet and she's into you because she would have avoided all those dates if she didn't!
Do something romantic....
Hire out some 'romantic-comedy' chick flicks.. they got a lot of 'every girl's dream' asking out proposal type thing : ]
And girls love roses and chocolates and teddies
and make sure its a nice location and setting and that she is in THE RIGHT MOOD... if she is angry or something save it or her response won't be so optimistic.... and she'll wonder why you picked such bad timing!
HOPE YOU LUCK
but seriously... don't worry she will say yes : ]
just go up to her and say ';so, we goin out or what?'; lol
I think that she will be pretty much expecting the general progression of things anyway, even though it might be unspoken there is always an understanding of where things are going. So it's probably not as necessary to build it up into a big event unless you really want to. I asked my now-boyfriend out, mostly by hinting and general conversational pointers towards being a couple, which he reciprocated. In the end I couldn't stand it any more and sent him a text saying, 'I'm dying to ask you out! It's driving me mad.' and when we saw each other next it was just like, we were a couple. A few boyfriends in the past have asked me out by asking to kiss me or referring to me as their girlfriend, which was fine but I guess it all depends on you two as individuals. Each situation is totally unique. Maybe it might feel more natural to kiss first or maybe better to ask her out officially first. I guess for me the best way is always the easiest and most natural feeling. Hope it all works out.
cave man stile. hit her on head with club then take her to ur love nest oohgaaboogaa.lol
ask her to go to dinner with you, just have a nice friendly time. during the course of the meal just tell her how you feel and that you would like to step up the relationship a bit. tell her you want the both of you to be exclusive to each other, you want her to date only you and that you don't want anyone else but her. don't be overly sappy..don't do some elaborate scheme you see on those movies.. just be real.. chicks dig ';real';
i think you should discuss with that girl. Tell her how you feel at her. It may work and don't forget to bring flowers.
Has any girls got any advice for me and my friend?
Me and my friend are worrying about starting our periods...
No immature answers please!Has any girls got any advice for me and my friend?
don't be sad, be happy!! Your bodies are ready to make babies (but DON'T start now! just wait until you're older) but you'll officially be women! Womanhood is amazing and beautiful. Its really not a setback, its just five-seven days out of the year when you're bleeding and then you're finnnne. you'll get so used to it by the 3rd month you won't even care anymore. you may want to use pads at first and then maybe switch to tampons, which do not hurt at all. you can't even feel them.Has any girls got any advice for me and my friend?
I started my period when i was 11 it was kinda scary but after the first few months you'll do fine. Just wear pads as long as possible before using tampons. If possible don't use them.
I cant sit hurr n tell u, ull b fine bcuz each female experience it n different wayz...me myself have irregular periodz n i dont bleed very heavy...i kno tmi, lmao but itz nothin 2 worry bout. You shood only start worryin when u r 18 n havent started yet =)
Well, when ya'll start your periods, you'll need to buy tampons or pads, whatever fancies you. But make sure you don't wear tampons any longer than 8 hours, and if they are full, make sure to change them as well. And wear pads at night, but make sure to wear underwear during the time of your period that you don't care if it gets stains on it. And make sure to use a calendar to keep track of your periods, so you'll know generally when your next one starts, and in case you go to the doctor, they'll ask you when was your last period.
Don't worry about it. It sounds way more scary than it really is. Make sure you have some pads on hand, just in case you start your period. For example keep one in your backpack at school and have a box in the bathroom at home.
Also, don't use tampons for a while, because that can be uncomfortable if you're just starting your period.
Don't worry about it though, while it gets annoying after a while, its just something we girls have to deal with.
Hope I was helpful!
periods suck but they are a normal part of life. I was 10 in fifth grade when I got mine. They don't hurt. Just uncomtable. My advice to you is keep a pad with you in your purse or backpack. Don't wear white pants when your on your period, and if you try tampons always go with the smallest size because of tss.
It's natural to be worried about your period coming...I was. It could come at any time any day any where so just be prepared and then theres nothing to worry about. Remember to help each other through this cos' it might not be easy. Also, if you have any questions you can just ask your mum remember she's been through her first period so she'll no you'll be bursting with questions when it happens. But, there really is nothing to worry about once you get used to it...and good luck for you when you first start it's really light so you can control it.
So, stop worrying and be happy!
Good Luck Sweeties...x
you'll be fine sweethearts, i'd use pads to start with as tampons may be painful for the first few times you start your period x
always carry a pad around with you incase it starts. get your mum to buy you one or if your super shy there are cheap at any store. Other than that don't worry its really light when you first start anyway.
oh don't worry i'm 17 now and had it for four years you'll be fine never go with tampns first i'd go with pads
Its nothing to worry about, may be a little painful from time to time but you get used to it. It seems like a massive build up and worry before you start but it honestly is nothing to bother about!
I don't know which part you're worried about most, so let's just go over some basics:
If you're worried about starting when you're at school or something and not being prepared, start carrying some light to regular strength pads in your purse or bookbag. You can bring tampons if you'd prefer to use those, but they can be uncomfortable the first time you use them.
When it first starts, it might be more brownish than red, and can vary from heavy to light, spotty or steady. That's completely normal; it varies for every woman. Cramps suck!! If you get crampy, take some painkillers (advil, aleve, etc) as soon as they start, and just try to relax. For me, cramps sort of feel like a constant dull pain on my lower back--again, the severity of the cramps and their location, etc., varies. Hot water packs, painkillers, back rubs, are all good for cramps. You might also being very tired, and possibly irritable or very emotional sensitive (I'm that one--a week before, anything can make me cry :-p) You might crave salty food, chocolate, or carbs just before or during your period.
Being active a week or so before your period will help tone down your cramps and your feelings of fatigue. Good luck! Every other woman goes through this, you'll be absolutely fine. :-)
look out for symptons, and ask your moms. ';some'; [not all] strangers on the internet will be giving you the wrong answers. oh and start out with a pad.
i started mine when i was in 4 th grade dont worry ur not going to die it just a change from a girl to woman
No immature answers please!Has any girls got any advice for me and my friend?
don't be sad, be happy!! Your bodies are ready to make babies (but DON'T start now! just wait until you're older) but you'll officially be women! Womanhood is amazing and beautiful. Its really not a setback, its just five-seven days out of the year when you're bleeding and then you're finnnne. you'll get so used to it by the 3rd month you won't even care anymore. you may want to use pads at first and then maybe switch to tampons, which do not hurt at all. you can't even feel them.Has any girls got any advice for me and my friend?
I started my period when i was 11 it was kinda scary but after the first few months you'll do fine. Just wear pads as long as possible before using tampons. If possible don't use them.
I cant sit hurr n tell u, ull b fine bcuz each female experience it n different wayz...me myself have irregular periodz n i dont bleed very heavy...i kno tmi, lmao but itz nothin 2 worry bout. You shood only start worryin when u r 18 n havent started yet =)
Well, when ya'll start your periods, you'll need to buy tampons or pads, whatever fancies you. But make sure you don't wear tampons any longer than 8 hours, and if they are full, make sure to change them as well. And wear pads at night, but make sure to wear underwear during the time of your period that you don't care if it gets stains on it. And make sure to use a calendar to keep track of your periods, so you'll know generally when your next one starts, and in case you go to the doctor, they'll ask you when was your last period.
Don't worry about it. It sounds way more scary than it really is. Make sure you have some pads on hand, just in case you start your period. For example keep one in your backpack at school and have a box in the bathroom at home.
Also, don't use tampons for a while, because that can be uncomfortable if you're just starting your period.
Don't worry about it though, while it gets annoying after a while, its just something we girls have to deal with.
Hope I was helpful!
periods suck but they are a normal part of life. I was 10 in fifth grade when I got mine. They don't hurt. Just uncomtable. My advice to you is keep a pad with you in your purse or backpack. Don't wear white pants when your on your period, and if you try tampons always go with the smallest size because of tss.
It's natural to be worried about your period coming...I was. It could come at any time any day any where so just be prepared and then theres nothing to worry about. Remember to help each other through this cos' it might not be easy. Also, if you have any questions you can just ask your mum remember she's been through her first period so she'll no you'll be bursting with questions when it happens. But, there really is nothing to worry about once you get used to it...and good luck for you when you first start it's really light so you can control it.
So, stop worrying and be happy!
Good Luck Sweeties...x
you'll be fine sweethearts, i'd use pads to start with as tampons may be painful for the first few times you start your period x
always carry a pad around with you incase it starts. get your mum to buy you one or if your super shy there are cheap at any store. Other than that don't worry its really light when you first start anyway.
oh don't worry i'm 17 now and had it for four years you'll be fine never go with tampns first i'd go with pads
Its nothing to worry about, may be a little painful from time to time but you get used to it. It seems like a massive build up and worry before you start but it honestly is nothing to bother about!
I don't know which part you're worried about most, so let's just go over some basics:
If you're worried about starting when you're at school or something and not being prepared, start carrying some light to regular strength pads in your purse or bookbag. You can bring tampons if you'd prefer to use those, but they can be uncomfortable the first time you use them.
When it first starts, it might be more brownish than red, and can vary from heavy to light, spotty or steady. That's completely normal; it varies for every woman. Cramps suck!! If you get crampy, take some painkillers (advil, aleve, etc) as soon as they start, and just try to relax. For me, cramps sort of feel like a constant dull pain on my lower back--again, the severity of the cramps and their location, etc., varies. Hot water packs, painkillers, back rubs, are all good for cramps. You might also being very tired, and possibly irritable or very emotional sensitive (I'm that one--a week before, anything can make me cry :-p) You might crave salty food, chocolate, or carbs just before or during your period.
Being active a week or so before your period will help tone down your cramps and your feelings of fatigue. Good luck! Every other woman goes through this, you'll be absolutely fine. :-)
look out for symptons, and ask your moms. ';some'; [not all] strangers on the internet will be giving you the wrong answers. oh and start out with a pad.
i started mine when i was in 4 th grade dont worry ur not going to die it just a change from a girl to woman
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My GF and I have been together for almost 15 months. We broke up for 1 month after I became clingy/possessive. I have since corrected almost all of that but sometimes still let it get the best of me. Things have been up in down. We were so in love and now it seems like it depends on the day of how she feels. I am trying to not be clingy and give her space and when she says she just wants go out w/ friends, say ';okay';. She has never been unfaithful and is not that type. Here is the dilemma. I snooped ( I know it was wrong) and found a journal saying how she has been thinking about her ex (this was like 2 years ago they broke) and how she has mixed feelings for me. It hurt me to read that her ex has been popping into her head b/c we were great before all this. I have a feeling these thoughts are behind her up and down actions. I dont know what to do, I just want to give it my all and dont know how to have her just thinking about me like she was before and get our relationship great againPlease READ I would Love your Advice on my GIRL?
My advice to you is stop being such a fruitcake and man up. Women hate the clingy, desperate type. Try giving her the cold shoulder once in awhile and maybe she won't think about her ex! I bet her ex was an asshole right! You have to think that if she's thinking about someone else, and not you then ';love'; is not in the equation. You better act soon because it sounds like your faithful little darling is scheming!
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First, stop snooping. It's dishonest and it'll only hurt you more.
Look, I am 34 years old and happily married. I think about my exes sometimes too! And my husband thinks about his!
Everyone has a past. Thinking about it isn't bad. She might be just trying to figure out her OWN life by looking at the present and the past. I am imagining you are both still very young. And if she is pushing you away because you are clingy - snooping is moving in the wrong direction. Let her have her own private thoughts. You don't need to go there, it's not your place. Instead of obsessing about what's going on in her head, figure out what's going on in yours. And while she takes a night to go out with the girls - why don't YOU start spending time ith your friends, instead of snooping where you don't belong. Start building your own outside interests, and you'll BE less clingy.
Well you snooped, so your gonna have to deal with it yourself.
Sounds harsh, but true. You cant talk to her about it unless you want her to get upset. You shouldn't have done it.
My gf still thinks about her ex too, she always used to talk about him and talk to him but said she didn't like him anymore, I've just accepted that if it happens then it happens and I've just had to trust her, its worked fine so far so just be a bit more relaxed about it.
Don't ever read a woman's journal first of all, maybe she just hasn't gotten over the clinging and possessiveness sometimes its hard to get past that
You definitely still have some ';clingy'; issues.
Relax. Enjoy time with her and find ways to be more self confident.
trust in yourself!
My advice to you is stop being such a fruitcake and man up. Women hate the clingy, desperate type. Try giving her the cold shoulder once in awhile and maybe she won't think about her ex! I bet her ex was an asshole right! You have to think that if she's thinking about someone else, and not you then ';love'; is not in the equation. You better act soon because it sounds like your faithful little darling is scheming!
Good luck!Please READ I would Love your Advice on my GIRL?
First, stop snooping. It's dishonest and it'll only hurt you more.
Look, I am 34 years old and happily married. I think about my exes sometimes too! And my husband thinks about his!
Everyone has a past. Thinking about it isn't bad. She might be just trying to figure out her OWN life by looking at the present and the past. I am imagining you are both still very young. And if she is pushing you away because you are clingy - snooping is moving in the wrong direction. Let her have her own private thoughts. You don't need to go there, it's not your place. Instead of obsessing about what's going on in her head, figure out what's going on in yours. And while she takes a night to go out with the girls - why don't YOU start spending time ith your friends, instead of snooping where you don't belong. Start building your own outside interests, and you'll BE less clingy.
Well you snooped, so your gonna have to deal with it yourself.
Sounds harsh, but true. You cant talk to her about it unless you want her to get upset. You shouldn't have done it.
My gf still thinks about her ex too, she always used to talk about him and talk to him but said she didn't like him anymore, I've just accepted that if it happens then it happens and I've just had to trust her, its worked fine so far so just be a bit more relaxed about it.
Don't ever read a woman's journal first of all, maybe she just hasn't gotten over the clinging and possessiveness sometimes its hard to get past that
You definitely still have some ';clingy'; issues.
Relax. Enjoy time with her and find ways to be more self confident.
trust in yourself!
Hi, can anyone give me some advice with this girl??
Hey...Ok, well basically ive liked this girl for a while now and we get on really well at college and stuff. Nd i never got the chance to tell her that i liked her face to face so i did it over bebo. I reget this now and wish that id spoken to her. Well anyhow thats in the past now and i cant change that, but she replied sayin that she was very flattered and values our friendship loads and loads. what is your opinion on this...is it a definate no?, is there anychance?, and what do i do next?
Thanks xHi, can anyone give me some advice with this girl??
It sounds like she just wants to be your friend....sorry dude =/Hi, can anyone give me some advice with this girl??
I am sorry because you seem like a great guy, but she really isn't into you that way. But at least she was nice about it and didn't string you along, and now you can go find the girl that is right for you.
i'd say its probably a no.
I think that as of when she said she was flattered and valued your friendship she was thinking no. But as you get to know each other better that might change, you never know!
I think you need to move on. Anytime a woman tells you she's flattered AND values your friendship, then she just wants to be friends.
the words ';values our friendship'; seem discouraging. I would just act normal around her and see if she brings it up. If not, ask her ';what she thought about the conversation you had over the internet'; - see what she says.
if she said just that, its a no. I was in the same situation as you, but I did not ever tell her, I decided our friendship was too valuable to risk. Its a decision I do not regret. I expect she feels the same way about yours, I know you are disappointed, but if she means what she says, you have a friend for life.
she basically wants to wait a while and she mite not feel the same about you, mate. she could possibly be already with someone.
ok if she didnt say she liked u back its cus she dont like u that way...she likes u as a friend....
so if she said that she wont change her mind...
so look for another girl..sorry...
It appears to me that she adores her friendship with you and does not want that to end. If she wanted somthing to go on she would have told you then that she feels the same ,she is letting you know that she is flatterd and thinks it is a nice jesture, But hang in there she may want more later but right now she is content being friends
Well, she said FRIENDSHIP, so I think there's a chance that she might not be interested. But there IS a chance that she is, so just ask her again because girls aren't clear sometimes. OR better yet, wait until you see that she makes some moves on you to show that she is interested but was just misinterpreted. Good Luck.
Thanks xHi, can anyone give me some advice with this girl??
It sounds like she just wants to be your friend....sorry dude =/Hi, can anyone give me some advice with this girl??
I am sorry because you seem like a great guy, but she really isn't into you that way. But at least she was nice about it and didn't string you along, and now you can go find the girl that is right for you.
i'd say its probably a no.
I think that as of when she said she was flattered and valued your friendship she was thinking no. But as you get to know each other better that might change, you never know!
I think you need to move on. Anytime a woman tells you she's flattered AND values your friendship, then she just wants to be friends.
the words ';values our friendship'; seem discouraging. I would just act normal around her and see if she brings it up. If not, ask her ';what she thought about the conversation you had over the internet'; - see what she says.
if she said just that, its a no. I was in the same situation as you, but I did not ever tell her, I decided our friendship was too valuable to risk. Its a decision I do not regret. I expect she feels the same way about yours, I know you are disappointed, but if she means what she says, you have a friend for life.
she basically wants to wait a while and she mite not feel the same about you, mate. she could possibly be already with someone.
ok if she didnt say she liked u back its cus she dont like u that way...she likes u as a friend....
so if she said that she wont change her mind...
so look for another girl..sorry...
It appears to me that she adores her friendship with you and does not want that to end. If she wanted somthing to go on she would have told you then that she feels the same ,she is letting you know that she is flatterd and thinks it is a nice jesture, But hang in there she may want more later but right now she is content being friends
Well, she said FRIENDSHIP, so I think there's a chance that she might not be interested. But there IS a chance that she is, so just ask her again because girls aren't clear sometimes. OR better yet, wait until you see that she makes some moves on you to show that she is interested but was just misinterpreted. Good Luck.
Hey y'all i need some advice about this girl i like?
there is this girl i like tall, kinda cute, but i'm trying to talk to her but for some reason i cant, ive never had this problem before, im comfortable around girls so its not like i dont know how to talk to girls but this girl is different, i talk to her but i guess what im trying to say is i cant flirt with her. what do yall advice i should do( i only see her bout once a day in anatomy)Hey y'all i need some advice about this girl i like?
wow- she mus be the one! ahahah jk. just be flirty and upfront with her and just be yourself around her. girls hate guys who throw themselves at them or dont be themselves., trust me, im a girl and i would know. anyways, good luck! i hope this helps! PLEASE VOTE ME FOR BEST ANSWER! thanks.Hey y'all i need some advice about this girl i like?
if i was youi would write her a note or go up to her and say this (on the note or in person dont matter)
Hey i was worndeing if you had like me because to tell the truth i like you aot
that is wat i would put or say if i was you
mkay so I pretty much love it when people say ya'll hahah :)
idk i think thats cute you are shy around her. Just try to talk to her like you would any other friend
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TRY TO FIND OUT THINGS ABOUT HER. SMALL TALK. POLITICS... YOU KNOW... WHATEVER IS HOT TALK AT THE TIME...
wow- she mus be the one! ahahah jk. just be flirty and upfront with her and just be yourself around her. girls hate guys who throw themselves at them or dont be themselves., trust me, im a girl and i would know. anyways, good luck! i hope this helps! PLEASE VOTE ME FOR BEST ANSWER! thanks.Hey y'all i need some advice about this girl i like?
if i was youi would write her a note or go up to her and say this (on the note or in person dont matter)
Hey i was worndeing if you had like me because to tell the truth i like you aot
that is wat i would put or say if i was you
mkay so I pretty much love it when people say ya'll hahah :)
idk i think thats cute you are shy around her. Just try to talk to her like you would any other friend
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Need Help: I could use some advice about a girl I want to ask out (please answer)?
HELP!! Well, ok, maybe that was a little over dramatic. The truth is that I'm kinda inexperienced when it comes to dating. I'm in my early twenties, and while I've had girlfriends, they were always the ones who pursued me so I don't know how to successfully attract girls. Most of my friends have no problems with this (it's funny cause they make it seem so easy, and they're not that good looking). Anyway, this brings me to my question, I was thinking of asking this girl I know out to do something casual (I was thinking about just getting something to drink, mainly because I know she likes to drink). And while I have all the confidence to go ask her what I don't know how to do is create that attraction once I'm out with her. I get the impression that she likes me, she flirts a lot and when I asked for her number one time she seemed really excited. As well, my intention with her isn't to get into a serious relationship, I'm still young and really only want to have fun and keep it casual. Thanks for any advice.Need Help: I could use some advice about a girl I want to ask out (please answer)?
First of all, make sure she knows you're not looking for a serious relationship. You don't have to tell her directly but make sure you convey that to her somehow, so you don't lead her on. And I don't think you can really force attraction. Just make yourself look as nice as you can, be courteous, listen to what she has to say but also make sure you're contributing to the conversation. What else can you do?Need Help: I could use some advice about a girl I want to ask out (please answer)?
well if you've got no problem asking her out, thats good.
when you guys actually go out, just show interest in her.ask her about her life and family and intrests. and complient her. it'll make her feel nice. just dont lie to her haha. luck!holiday makeup
First of all, make sure she knows you're not looking for a serious relationship. You don't have to tell her directly but make sure you convey that to her somehow, so you don't lead her on. And I don't think you can really force attraction. Just make yourself look as nice as you can, be courteous, listen to what she has to say but also make sure you're contributing to the conversation. What else can you do?Need Help: I could use some advice about a girl I want to ask out (please answer)?
well if you've got no problem asking her out, thats good.
when you guys actually go out, just show interest in her.ask her about her life and family and intrests. and complient her. it'll make her feel nice. just dont lie to her haha. luck!
Ok i need some help or advice with this girl lol?
well me and my friend have been getting a lot closer for the past like 2 weeks staying up till like 4 in the morning on here just talking about anything and everything and i really really like this girl and when we talk it feels like she likes me also but during the day its completely different like we dont talk at all like i know shes busy and all and whats really gay is she doesnt have a cell phone so she has to use her moms when she can but i know her mom would let her call me basically anytime if she asked so i cant tell if this girl really likes me or i am just completely over reacting and have to realize shes busy during the day and thats why we stay up so late talking? help is appreciate :]Ok i need some help or advice with this girl lol?
Maybe she doesnt have that much to talk about in the day since you both stay up til 4a.m talking....
Maybe she doesnt have that much to talk about in the day since you both stay up til 4a.m talking....
I need some sound advice about this girl... PLEASE HELP?
Im a junior and im pretty popular (star on the football team) and im been talking with this really cute freshman girl for about a month now mainly through texts and im finding it hard to have a real conversation with her. also i had asked her to go to this party with me last friday and she was going to but her parents wouldnt let her go because of grades or something of that sort. now i think she is interested in me but would asking her to go to a movie or something this upcomiing weekend be too forward because i just asked her out the week prior. also wat should i do because it is getting difficult whenever i am talking to her ( which is rare because i dont see her often) to keep the conversation going? would just going to the movies be a sufficient date? what should i talk about so the conversation doenst get stale because i have talked to her for a while and i already know stuff about her? she is also very shy which makes it hard to talk. help please quick!!!!!!! thanks in advanceI need some sound advice about this girl... PLEASE HELP?
i say you ask her out again for the movie.
well talk to her about something that puts her at ease like if she does sports or anything. make sure you ask her questions that require some explaining. maybe you will see difference,
good luckI need some sound advice about this girl... PLEASE HELP?
NO U SHOULD GO AHEAD AND ASK HER OUT..ASK HER WAT MOOVIES SHE LIKES..where she goes for fun..wat subject she having trouble with..since u said she gettin bad grades...maybe u can help her..the more u interact and spend time with her..the comfortable u will get with her..and u will get to know more about her..so ur conversation won't get stale..good luck..
if she doesn't even care enough about her grades then you shouldn't waste your time with her
thats honestly how I feel even though I am a freshman girl
i say you ask her out again for the movie.
well talk to her about something that puts her at ease like if she does sports or anything. make sure you ask her questions that require some explaining. maybe you will see difference,
good luckI need some sound advice about this girl... PLEASE HELP?
NO U SHOULD GO AHEAD AND ASK HER OUT..ASK HER WAT MOOVIES SHE LIKES..where she goes for fun..wat subject she having trouble with..since u said she gettin bad grades...maybe u can help her..the more u interact and spend time with her..the comfortable u will get with her..and u will get to know more about her..so ur conversation won't get stale..good luck..
if she doesn't even care enough about her grades then you shouldn't waste your time with her
thats honestly how I feel even though I am a freshman girl
Just looking for some advice with a girl?
ok well you know how every guy and im sure girls have that dream person in highschool that you want to be more than anyone, well 2 years after i graduated i have lived this dream, this girl has been like my world i would do anything for her, which includes waking up at 4 am and traveling an hour and 45mins on my motorcycle just to pick her up. and again at 3, what can i say im a nice guy who is probably in love, this girl really doesnt deserve it at all. but my judgement remains to be clouded probably from wanting her more than any other girl in the world and finally being able to get her
anyway, it all started in the summer took her for a few bike rides, and a few partys later and were making out and doing the dirty that night i went and got her at 4am, well since then we havnt actually dated, i found out the one night she made out with another dude at a party, and kind of stopped talking to her for a few weeks as she found another guy, then came back in it as that guy left, now she tears my feelings apart saying were dating then saying she doesnt know, shes said she doesnt want to get into a relationship cause shes moving in like march, but these past few days its been great and it feels like we would be dating anyway in the next few days, well i drove by her house before i went home just to see this dudes truck outside her house, i remember it cause i picked her up at 3am when he was to drunk to drive and she was scared to drive with him, after that night she told him they can just be friends nothing else, now im not worried about them doing anything cause its that time of the month but i mean she lied to me saying she was drunk and sleeping alone and has to get up early.
she like doesnt like sleeping by herself, anyway i know this is a really long story but for us people that are up this late maybe you enjoyed reading a story.
id like to hear any comments or thoughts on this, i realize i should just stop with her and move on, but idk what to do shes the type of girl who drinks a lot and partys, and could have like any guy she wants, i mean i feel like the luckest guy in my city cause this girl is like model gorgeous its ridiculousJust looking for some advice with a girl?
i think it sucks to be u dude
its hard when ur like that wioth a agirl and it is hard to move on but i think it would be best if you did
sorry that wasnt much help but i wanted to try anyway
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cumon ..u gotta b kiddin .........u juz told d answer urself ..u gotta stop...... neways just have a look at it .....shes makin merry wid any guy she fancies while u r left alone moping....so well she may b model material but seriously speaking wats d diff..get real and juz remember inner beauty is better dan appearence......
How can you possibly think you are the luckiest guy in the world. You are one of several guys chasing (and catching) a dirty girl. Let her go- and get tested for std
Well, it just seems like your committed and she isnt so i dont think that shes ready to date you because you really like her and shes just going to end up hurting you again
im sorry to say but that girl is using you. she uses her looks as an advantage because she knows she has you hooked. do you really want to be one of her little pupets???
its better you leave her .......
If that's you in your avatar than I'll say that you are a guy that can get any girl he wants, you sound like a nice person but a little naive. Just let go of this girl, she is definitely not interested in only you and I have a feeling she knows she can manipulate you.
There is a decent girl out there somewhere that will love you like you deserve to be loved, but you are not giving her a chance because you are still hung up on this naughty girl.
I just think u are not giving her enough time, sounds like shes not sure about you yet...and it sounds like to me ur giving her the 3rd degree over it and thats just going to push her away. I think you like her alot and if u are willing to back off a bit ... u guys are not married yet just b/c she made out with u, she may come around. I'm not here to judge anyone but u made her sound like a slut.
My advice to you is to leave her..
It seems to me that maybe she's thinking that she's better than you..n other words..Shes to good for you!..Please if she says she doesnt want to sleep by herself and all the stuff..DuDE! WAKE UP! She's ******* you and the other guy...I just hope you doont end up wit herpes or HIV! Sorry dude! Move on!
personally i think you deserve better, you put up with alot of her b.s and you just let her walk all over you. i understand shes pretty but whats the use of being with someone who doesn't appreciate you and your feelings. She really doesn't seem like the relationship type. Personally i would move on and stop leading myself into a troubled rocky road of heart ache.
Sorry if this was harsh,, i was just trying to get through to you because i know alot of girls that take advantage of guys like you, :) good luck, i hope your able to do whats best for yourself
You should ask yourself first, are you looking for a ';fun'; relationship or a serious one. If it's serious, she should be the last choice on your list. This kinda girl can't really change, don't hope for a miracle that she would turn into your dream girl someday. While there's no perfect girl in this world, I'm sure you would meet someone who has a very nice heart and deserve you more. Looks isn't everything...they decay...
anyway, it all started in the summer took her for a few bike rides, and a few partys later and were making out and doing the dirty that night i went and got her at 4am, well since then we havnt actually dated, i found out the one night she made out with another dude at a party, and kind of stopped talking to her for a few weeks as she found another guy, then came back in it as that guy left, now she tears my feelings apart saying were dating then saying she doesnt know, shes said she doesnt want to get into a relationship cause shes moving in like march, but these past few days its been great and it feels like we would be dating anyway in the next few days, well i drove by her house before i went home just to see this dudes truck outside her house, i remember it cause i picked her up at 3am when he was to drunk to drive and she was scared to drive with him, after that night she told him they can just be friends nothing else, now im not worried about them doing anything cause its that time of the month but i mean she lied to me saying she was drunk and sleeping alone and has to get up early.
she like doesnt like sleeping by herself, anyway i know this is a really long story but for us people that are up this late maybe you enjoyed reading a story.
id like to hear any comments or thoughts on this, i realize i should just stop with her and move on, but idk what to do shes the type of girl who drinks a lot and partys, and could have like any guy she wants, i mean i feel like the luckest guy in my city cause this girl is like model gorgeous its ridiculousJust looking for some advice with a girl?
i think it sucks to be u dude
its hard when ur like that wioth a agirl and it is hard to move on but i think it would be best if you did
sorry that wasnt much help but i wanted to try anyway
:)Just looking for some advice with a girl?
cumon ..u gotta b kiddin .........u juz told d answer urself ..u gotta stop...... neways just have a look at it .....shes makin merry wid any guy she fancies while u r left alone moping....so well she may b model material but seriously speaking wats d diff..get real and juz remember inner beauty is better dan appearence......
How can you possibly think you are the luckiest guy in the world. You are one of several guys chasing (and catching) a dirty girl. Let her go- and get tested for std
Well, it just seems like your committed and she isnt so i dont think that shes ready to date you because you really like her and shes just going to end up hurting you again
im sorry to say but that girl is using you. she uses her looks as an advantage because she knows she has you hooked. do you really want to be one of her little pupets???
its better you leave her .......
If that's you in your avatar than I'll say that you are a guy that can get any girl he wants, you sound like a nice person but a little naive. Just let go of this girl, she is definitely not interested in only you and I have a feeling she knows she can manipulate you.
There is a decent girl out there somewhere that will love you like you deserve to be loved, but you are not giving her a chance because you are still hung up on this naughty girl.
I just think u are not giving her enough time, sounds like shes not sure about you yet...and it sounds like to me ur giving her the 3rd degree over it and thats just going to push her away. I think you like her alot and if u are willing to back off a bit ... u guys are not married yet just b/c she made out with u, she may come around. I'm not here to judge anyone but u made her sound like a slut.
My advice to you is to leave her..
It seems to me that maybe she's thinking that she's better than you..n other words..Shes to good for you!..Please if she says she doesnt want to sleep by herself and all the stuff..DuDE! WAKE UP! She's ******* you and the other guy...I just hope you doont end up wit herpes or HIV! Sorry dude! Move on!
personally i think you deserve better, you put up with alot of her b.s and you just let her walk all over you. i understand shes pretty but whats the use of being with someone who doesn't appreciate you and your feelings. She really doesn't seem like the relationship type. Personally i would move on and stop leading myself into a troubled rocky road of heart ache.
Sorry if this was harsh,, i was just trying to get through to you because i know alot of girls that take advantage of guys like you, :) good luck, i hope your able to do whats best for yourself
You should ask yourself first, are you looking for a ';fun'; relationship or a serious one. If it's serious, she should be the last choice on your list. This kinda girl can't really change, don't hope for a miracle that she would turn into your dream girl someday. While there's no perfect girl in this world, I'm sure you would meet someone who has a very nice heart and deserve you more. Looks isn't everything...they decay...
I'm in College and need advice about this girl I've been exclusive with for 4 months...Help please!?
Ok, So we've been exclusive (hooking up with only each other) for 4 months. About 2 months ago she told me her ex boyfriend that she dated for almost 2 years is telling her how much he misses her and how he wants to make it work again...She had cheated on him when they were together and dating. She tried to make it work with him for a whole year and I guess he was just emotionally hurt by it he never really let her back in. But now he's knocking at her door again and its been over a year since they were officially dating.
However, at the end of summer they hooked up and had sex. Then she met me and ever since we've been together she hasn't been with anyone else. We used to fight a lot and argue in the beginning and we never really figured it would go anywhere. Well now....here we are and i've fallen in love with this girl. I think about her all the time and she says she cares about me a lot.
It bothers me when she's with him but I figure if I want to be with her I need to fight for her. I don't mind getting hurt because she's worth it to me but at the same time I wish I could read her mind.
She says when she's with me she knows it is what she wants. but when she is with him she gets confused again. I would do anything for this girl and she knows that.
She doesn't kiss, sleep, or mess around with anyone but me But all i ever do is think that she is gonna get back with her Ex boyfriend.
Any advice or suggestions at all on this would be appreciated.
I'm crazy about her.
thank you!I'm in College and need advice about this girl I've been exclusive with for 4 months...Help please!?
Ok if u really love her and she really loves u no one could break yall apart, show her how much u luv her and want to be with her. Suprise her with flowers or take her out to a nice dinner, girls eat that crap up, i know i do. The more u let it bother u the more those thoughts might come true, stop focusing on the ex and just focus on u and her. If yall really love eachother then ts ment to be. Good Luck
However, at the end of summer they hooked up and had sex. Then she met me and ever since we've been together she hasn't been with anyone else. We used to fight a lot and argue in the beginning and we never really figured it would go anywhere. Well now....here we are and i've fallen in love with this girl. I think about her all the time and she says she cares about me a lot.
It bothers me when she's with him but I figure if I want to be with her I need to fight for her. I don't mind getting hurt because she's worth it to me but at the same time I wish I could read her mind.
She says when she's with me she knows it is what she wants. but when she is with him she gets confused again. I would do anything for this girl and she knows that.
She doesn't kiss, sleep, or mess around with anyone but me But all i ever do is think that she is gonna get back with her Ex boyfriend.
Any advice or suggestions at all on this would be appreciated.
I'm crazy about her.
thank you!I'm in College and need advice about this girl I've been exclusive with for 4 months...Help please!?
Ok if u really love her and she really loves u no one could break yall apart, show her how much u luv her and want to be with her. Suprise her with flowers or take her out to a nice dinner, girls eat that crap up, i know i do. The more u let it bother u the more those thoughts might come true, stop focusing on the ex and just focus on u and her. If yall really love eachother then ts ment to be. Good Luck
Any women or men give me advice on this girl problem?
Ok there was is this girl I know on my Myspace page who broke up with her man in January and ever since kept checking out my page many times a week. So I took your advice and asked her out, she said ok and she would call. She didn鈥檛. She then continued to keep checking my page and then for about month she stopped, and now is back to doing it again? What鈥檚 the deal I already asked her out. What more can I do? I mean its kind of creepy having someone constantly checking up on your page when I have virtually no traffic in comments on there. So why is she back to doing this again? She just playing with me or still interested or what? If not interested why wouldn鈥檛 she stay away or throw me off her profile? Just in case it matters I鈥檓 ripped strong and not ugly in any way so it not like I鈥檓 a troll also was in honors in college. So its not looks. And yes some friends you can tell when they are on your page. So any who can help with a good answer i always give a best one. Thank you all.Any women or men give me advice on this girl problem?
She's looking at your page because shes curious of what you're up too, if you're talking to other girls ect. Message her and call her out, be like: You've been looking at my page alot? hahah. Make her embaressed, and then she'll feel not as cocky about not calling you. (: Than as much as its hard to wait, give her game and ignore when she answers your message and three days later if she continues to view, message her and offer her to see a movie, nothing fancy.Any women or men give me advice on this girl problem?
She is just a window shopper. Ask yourself if you would want a relationship with someone like this........
Play her game,talk about this really hot girl you are dating on your page!!!! How well you get along,her parents are loaded and they love you!!!
I just had to commend your awesomeness for having G1 Megatron as your avatar.
She's looking at your page because shes curious of what you're up too, if you're talking to other girls ect. Message her and call her out, be like: You've been looking at my page alot? hahah. Make her embaressed, and then she'll feel not as cocky about not calling you. (: Than as much as its hard to wait, give her game and ignore when she answers your message and three days later if she continues to view, message her and offer her to see a movie, nothing fancy.Any women or men give me advice on this girl problem?
She is just a window shopper. Ask yourself if you would want a relationship with someone like this........
Play her game,talk about this really hot girl you are dating on your page!!!! How well you get along,her parents are loaded and they love you!!!
I just had to commend your awesomeness for having G1 Megatron as your avatar.
Ladies, could I please get your advice (concerning a girl spending the weekend with me)?
I know this is the Wedding section, but the advice here is much more helpful. So my situation is this… This girl (we’ll call her Amy) is coming from upstate NY to visit me in Massachusetts for a few days. We were great friends in college until she transferred to a school closer to home in Albany. I’m from Boston. I haven’t seen her since last November when she came to visit an old college roommate of hers (a friend of mine as well.. we have a lot of mutual friends). That night in November, I can remember driving home and getting into bed, asking myself why I missed this girl so much. We exchanged texts at around 3am saying that we missed each other and I believe that I even said I loved her. And I do.
Fast-forward almost 9 months later. Here we are in late August. Amy and I have talked everyday since her visit last in November. A lot of times she will wake me up with a good morning text and be the last person I talk to before going to sleep. In between all of this, we text each other every few hours having short little convos. It’s a nice feeling. I remember in March telling her about my feelings and she had just wanted to stay friends. Then two months later, she tells me that I am the only guy for her. I was driving at the time and actually had to pull over because I couldn’t believe what I was hearing. After she told me this, it was almost like she tried to protect herself because all I could get out of her was “idk” and “idk what I want or what I’m doing”. Having helped her get over her last relationship, I told her that I wasn’t going to pressure her. That I know she had been hurt a lot in the past and to remember that she can always talk to me. (I’m sorry for the novel. I just wanted to give you a good idea of what our friendship was like.)
We’ve said a lot of cute things to each other. Things that ordinary friends wouldn’t say to each other. About a month ago, she was called in to jury duty and had to attend from like 7am-10pm Monday thru Thursday, and toward the end of the week, she got sick. I did a little Google searching, found the closest (and nicest) florist, and had flowers delivered to her with the card reading, “Just wanted to brighten your day. Hope you feel better.” And it was of course signed by me. She loved them and started giving me more attention. Plenty of texts throughout the day that just had a smiley face in them. I was really, really happy that this was going somewhere, and I felt like I had finally gotten myself out of the friend zone if I was ever in it. I consider this girl one of my best friends and even though we’re 4 hours apart, I feel incredibly close to her. Now, I don’t know if this is with all girls, but she’s a little hard to read sometimes. The extra attention she has been giving me stopped the last week and a half. Probably because of her new job. She was out for her friends 21st birthday the other day and I woke up to a text from her at like 3:30 AM. It might be a little weird to you guys, but she does this once in a while. It makes me feel good because I know that she is thinking about me. So anyway.. the text read, “Getting pizza… I miss you.” Haha. She was probably drunk.
So she is coming to visit me on Friday. I’m picking her up at the train station and we’re going to hang out the rest of the day, all of Saturday, and a little of Sunday. I’m sure we’ll sleep in the same bed together. We’ve made little comments before such as, “wish you were here layin’ next to me.” So I think it’s a safe bet to assume that we’ll be sleeping together. As far as sex goes, I don’t think it will happen. I’m not upset about it really. If it happens, it happens. I’ll be prepared. But I just care about being close to her and spending time together. If you’ve read this far, I’m sure you can tell that I really care a lot about this girl. I hope to make her my girlfriend this weekend. Here’s my question:
Do I have a “relationship talk” with her? When do I do this? When we’re cuddling at night watching TV? I know that she’ll bring up the distance issue.. we’re only 4 hours apart. If it does get brought up, I’m going to say that I’ll visit her as much as I can. 2 weekends a month. Thatll be hard to do considering I go to college full time and I’m going into my senior year next Monday. Basically, what I want to know is, do I talk to her about a relationship? If so, what’s a good way to ask her without sounding high school-ish (i.e. “Will you go out with me?”) When should I tell her (when I’m driving her back to the train station on Sunday? In bed cuddling?)
I want to say a HUGE ‘thank you’ to anyone who took the time to read this. This weekend is going to be the most important weekend of my life and has been almost 10 months in the making for me. Haha. Thanks again.Ladies, could I please get your advice (concerning a girl spending the weekend with me)?
Holy crap! Having just finished reading War and Peace II, and still awake, here's some advice. You say you don't want to sound high-schoolish, so stop acting like a kid and step up. You don't need a formal talk with her, just open your mouth and start the first time you are alone with her. Just say that you like her and would like to start dating her seriously. Ask her if she is on board with that. If she says yes, then you can work out all the details later. Just do it and stop worrying about it. If she's as nice and sweet as you say she is, she'll probably be glad you finally opened the subject.Ladies, could I please get your advice (concerning a girl spending the weekend with me)?
You can ask her what do you think about me ?
Do you think we can be bf or gf ?
Ask yourself what do you want in relationship then ask her if she has the same goal. You will feel if there is any chemistry between you two while cuddling or kissing. As far as sex, if you don't think it's the time yet, you can wait.
Yes! You MUST have the ';relationship talk'; with her.
What's the point of being in a relationship if you're not relating?!
You should start minimizing the texting and do more phone conversations since you live far away from each other. Texting is the worst way to communicate something like this.
Communications is:
7% written
38% Verbal ( tone, inflection of voice, intonation )
55% Non verbal ( body language )
By texting you're missing a whopping 93% of the data!!!!
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omg you are the cutest :$
m preety sure she likes you too...but she has stuff going on in her life..and when she is free from all the hectic stuuf that she has been doing ..she thinks about you..its like end of the day..you are the one she wants to talk to ..
long distance relationships can be hard sometimes ..dont pressure her into anything..just try figuring out how she feels about you..
oh..nd dont forget to welcome her wiith flowers..oor ccook her dinner and be the sweetest :D..not that you are not already
and GOOD LUCK ! :)
Okay, so I'm going to be totally honest with you. The longer you avoid ';having the conversation';, the longer you are going to feel dissatisfied with the situation. In other words, if my guess is correct, you've had some pretty rough times wondering where you stand with this girl. Why does she only text, but not call or visit more often? Why is she coming to visit, but not being totally open with you? Maybe she feels confused about or burned by prior relationships. Maybe she really does view you as a valuable friend and is afraid that being in a relationship will ruin it. It happens.
But for you, you have to know. You'll know when the right moment is. The important thing to remember is to be confident and be sure of yourself. Let her know how much she means to you, but that you can't stand the ambiguity. Everyone deserves to be with someone who is crazy about them. I know. I've been married to my guy for eight years and every day I marvel at the fact that he is my husband and I get to be his wife.
Good luck, though, I know it'll be tough. But you can do it.
Wow. You just made my day, now that I know that guys think about this too. I'm at a similar point... wondering if I should ask the same question even though there's some distance between the two of us.
Bring it up, but don't do it on the way to the station. I'd say do it either post-nookie (or w/e you're doing in bed) or when you're out during the day. Just make sure it comes up in a natural flow of conversation and doesn't seem to stiff/planned out.
Good luck!holiday makeup
Fast-forward almost 9 months later. Here we are in late August. Amy and I have talked everyday since her visit last in November. A lot of times she will wake me up with a good morning text and be the last person I talk to before going to sleep. In between all of this, we text each other every few hours having short little convos. It’s a nice feeling. I remember in March telling her about my feelings and she had just wanted to stay friends. Then two months later, she tells me that I am the only guy for her. I was driving at the time and actually had to pull over because I couldn’t believe what I was hearing. After she told me this, it was almost like she tried to protect herself because all I could get out of her was “idk” and “idk what I want or what I’m doing”. Having helped her get over her last relationship, I told her that I wasn’t going to pressure her. That I know she had been hurt a lot in the past and to remember that she can always talk to me. (I’m sorry for the novel. I just wanted to give you a good idea of what our friendship was like.)
We’ve said a lot of cute things to each other. Things that ordinary friends wouldn’t say to each other. About a month ago, she was called in to jury duty and had to attend from like 7am-10pm Monday thru Thursday, and toward the end of the week, she got sick. I did a little Google searching, found the closest (and nicest) florist, and had flowers delivered to her with the card reading, “Just wanted to brighten your day. Hope you feel better.” And it was of course signed by me. She loved them and started giving me more attention. Plenty of texts throughout the day that just had a smiley face in them. I was really, really happy that this was going somewhere, and I felt like I had finally gotten myself out of the friend zone if I was ever in it. I consider this girl one of my best friends and even though we’re 4 hours apart, I feel incredibly close to her. Now, I don’t know if this is with all girls, but she’s a little hard to read sometimes. The extra attention she has been giving me stopped the last week and a half. Probably because of her new job. She was out for her friends 21st birthday the other day and I woke up to a text from her at like 3:30 AM. It might be a little weird to you guys, but she does this once in a while. It makes me feel good because I know that she is thinking about me. So anyway.. the text read, “Getting pizza… I miss you.” Haha. She was probably drunk.
So she is coming to visit me on Friday. I’m picking her up at the train station and we’re going to hang out the rest of the day, all of Saturday, and a little of Sunday. I’m sure we’ll sleep in the same bed together. We’ve made little comments before such as, “wish you were here layin’ next to me.” So I think it’s a safe bet to assume that we’ll be sleeping together. As far as sex goes, I don’t think it will happen. I’m not upset about it really. If it happens, it happens. I’ll be prepared. But I just care about being close to her and spending time together. If you’ve read this far, I’m sure you can tell that I really care a lot about this girl. I hope to make her my girlfriend this weekend. Here’s my question:
Do I have a “relationship talk” with her? When do I do this? When we’re cuddling at night watching TV? I know that she’ll bring up the distance issue.. we’re only 4 hours apart. If it does get brought up, I’m going to say that I’ll visit her as much as I can. 2 weekends a month. Thatll be hard to do considering I go to college full time and I’m going into my senior year next Monday. Basically, what I want to know is, do I talk to her about a relationship? If so, what’s a good way to ask her without sounding high school-ish (i.e. “Will you go out with me?”) When should I tell her (when I’m driving her back to the train station on Sunday? In bed cuddling?)
I want to say a HUGE ‘thank you’ to anyone who took the time to read this. This weekend is going to be the most important weekend of my life and has been almost 10 months in the making for me. Haha. Thanks again.Ladies, could I please get your advice (concerning a girl spending the weekend with me)?
Holy crap! Having just finished reading War and Peace II, and still awake, here's some advice. You say you don't want to sound high-schoolish, so stop acting like a kid and step up. You don't need a formal talk with her, just open your mouth and start the first time you are alone with her. Just say that you like her and would like to start dating her seriously. Ask her if she is on board with that. If she says yes, then you can work out all the details later. Just do it and stop worrying about it. If she's as nice and sweet as you say she is, she'll probably be glad you finally opened the subject.Ladies, could I please get your advice (concerning a girl spending the weekend with me)?
You can ask her what do you think about me ?
Do you think we can be bf or gf ?
Ask yourself what do you want in relationship then ask her if she has the same goal. You will feel if there is any chemistry between you two while cuddling or kissing. As far as sex, if you don't think it's the time yet, you can wait.
Yes! You MUST have the ';relationship talk'; with her.
What's the point of being in a relationship if you're not relating?!
You should start minimizing the texting and do more phone conversations since you live far away from each other. Texting is the worst way to communicate something like this.
Communications is:
7% written
38% Verbal ( tone, inflection of voice, intonation )
55% Non verbal ( body language )
By texting you're missing a whopping 93% of the data!!!!
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*
*
omg you are the cutest :$
m preety sure she likes you too...but she has stuff going on in her life..and when she is free from all the hectic stuuf that she has been doing ..she thinks about you..its like end of the day..you are the one she wants to talk to ..
long distance relationships can be hard sometimes ..dont pressure her into anything..just try figuring out how she feels about you..
oh..nd dont forget to welcome her wiith flowers..oor ccook her dinner and be the sweetest :D..not that you are not already
and GOOD LUCK ! :)
Okay, so I'm going to be totally honest with you. The longer you avoid ';having the conversation';, the longer you are going to feel dissatisfied with the situation. In other words, if my guess is correct, you've had some pretty rough times wondering where you stand with this girl. Why does she only text, but not call or visit more often? Why is she coming to visit, but not being totally open with you? Maybe she feels confused about or burned by prior relationships. Maybe she really does view you as a valuable friend and is afraid that being in a relationship will ruin it. It happens.
But for you, you have to know. You'll know when the right moment is. The important thing to remember is to be confident and be sure of yourself. Let her know how much she means to you, but that you can't stand the ambiguity. Everyone deserves to be with someone who is crazy about them. I know. I've been married to my guy for eight years and every day I marvel at the fact that he is my husband and I get to be his wife.
Good luck, though, I know it'll be tough. But you can do it.
Wow. You just made my day, now that I know that guys think about this too. I'm at a similar point... wondering if I should ask the same question even though there's some distance between the two of us.
Bring it up, but don't do it on the way to the station. I'd say do it either post-nookie (or w/e you're doing in bed) or when you're out during the day. Just make sure it comes up in a natural flow of conversation and doesn't seem to stiff/planned out.
Good luck!
Okay should i let my girl out on this date with this strange kid she hardly knows do yall have any advice?
okay so my girl brought home this boy and he is really strange and i do not know about him he was eating with his fingers at the dinner table and getting red sauce all over my wife's brand new table let me know if yall should let me let her go out with him or should not, and if yall have any advice let me knowOkay should i let my girl out on this date with this strange kid she hardly knows do yall have any advice?
If she really likes this guy and you don't let her go she'll hate you forever. She has to figure out he own mistakes unfortunately. I wasn't at the dinner table but maybe he was just really nervous (re: the sauce).
Try to convince her to date in social settings like movie theater or restaurant - to get to know him better. Better safe than sorry if you have a gut feeling.
If she really likes this guy and you don't let her go she'll hate you forever. She has to figure out he own mistakes unfortunately. I wasn't at the dinner table but maybe he was just really nervous (re: the sauce).
Try to convince her to date in social settings like movie theater or restaurant - to get to know him better. Better safe than sorry if you have a gut feeling.
This is one weird girl problem.. i know.. advice on how to pull it off?
theres this girl i stumbled upon through the internet.. sounds crazy yes i admit it.. so anyway i slowly learnt of her name.. and the school that she's in.. i have a friend from her school (a girl) but she's not really close enough with this girl i want to go after.. and besides i just feel so damn bad asking for her help.. further more i know nothing about her and i just read her blog sometimes.. i've thought of different ways and means to pull of a first encounter but i really dont know how.. i know i dont want to come off as a desperate psycho stalker so i know i'm never going to tell her about how long i've known her.. thing is i've seen her at the malls a couple of times.. she's 18 and i'm 21.. we have absolutely no reason to know each other.. so how really do i pull of that first encounter.. i can't possibly just kick up a conversation with her when i see her.. i know it won't work cos its not even a club.. just a cafe.. and she's with friends too.. so any suggestions?This is one weird girl problem.. i know.. advice on how to pull it off?
First of all, no offense, but the first and foremost thing you need to work on is improving your English and grammar. Your post is almost one large running sentance, with NO punctuation, and if that is actually how you talk in real life....chances are most likely she will not speak back to you for fear of you being brain dead. If you are of another ethnicity, and are still learning English, cross your fingers and hope that your unique good looks will charm her into your pants.
If you want to talk to this girl, regardless of the situation (friends around or not) do NOT be afraid. Do not show that you are intimidated by her at all. Actually the 'friends around' thing might actually be the key to your success. With other people around their is less akwardness and pressure on your OWN conversation, there are other people there to help it along. Secondly dont focus on HER. Talk to someone else and let HER decide to spark the conversation with you, just make yourself visible and approachable. .....but in my honest opinion, to get things started off well and quickly.....if you know of her blog...just simply leave her a comment on one of her entries. Say nice things about how enjoyable it was to read etc etc. and just leave the option open for her to respond.This is one weird girl problem.. i know.. advice on how to pull it off?
tell her that you noticed her from across the cafe and wondered if you can take her and her friends out for a group thing and you will bring someof your boys. no pressure and that way she doesn't know that you know her.
sounds kinda creepy to me
First of all, no offense, but the first and foremost thing you need to work on is improving your English and grammar. Your post is almost one large running sentance, with NO punctuation, and if that is actually how you talk in real life....chances are most likely she will not speak back to you for fear of you being brain dead. If you are of another ethnicity, and are still learning English, cross your fingers and hope that your unique good looks will charm her into your pants.
If you want to talk to this girl, regardless of the situation (friends around or not) do NOT be afraid. Do not show that you are intimidated by her at all. Actually the 'friends around' thing might actually be the key to your success. With other people around their is less akwardness and pressure on your OWN conversation, there are other people there to help it along. Secondly dont focus on HER. Talk to someone else and let HER decide to spark the conversation with you, just make yourself visible and approachable. .....but in my honest opinion, to get things started off well and quickly.....if you know of her blog...just simply leave her a comment on one of her entries. Say nice things about how enjoyable it was to read etc etc. and just leave the option open for her to respond.This is one weird girl problem.. i know.. advice on how to pull it off?
tell her that you noticed her from across the cafe and wondered if you can take her and her friends out for a group thing and you will bring someof your boys. no pressure and that way she doesn't know that you know her.
sounds kinda creepy to me
I need a woman advice on this or just anybody advice about this girl who's giving me head aces ?
There this girl I like ( and she knows it) and last friday we went to the mall had alright time. I got her a gift and she got me one too, and she wanted to drive my car I told her she can drive it when Jan comes then she put on a little pout, in a cute way, and said she wasn't going to talk to me. So the next day I saw her and she still playing that game so im like whatever let her play her game then from Sunday to today shes really not talking to me like she use too, asked her but still not getting a answer. But when i say something to her she just have this smirk on her face then passes by. Now I don't know if she is still playing games with me, which is really starting to piss me off now, or she really doesn't want to have nothing to do with me any more. I have this funny feeling shes not playing hard to get but i maybe wrong, I just don't know anymore.I need a woman advice on this or just anybody advice about this girl who's giving me head aces ?
to me it sounds like she is playing hard to get and like she might really like you and just wants your attention. its hard to say what to do to get her to talk to you again since i don't really know what kind of girl she is but just try to give her some attention and see how that works but if she keeps playing really hard to get you might want to move on to someone who doesn't do that kind of stuff and tries to get her way all the time
hope i helpedI need a woman advice on this or just anybody advice about this girl who's giving me head aces ?
don't you get it ... she wants your attention. She likes the fact that she can ignore you and you will keep coming back to her and try to get her to talk.
... this is a situation where you can say ';2 can play at that game'; Don't try to get her to talk anymore try to not even look her direction then she will talk to you.
Sounds like she is playing games to me. But show her that you really like her, and if she still isn't talking to you, try to ask her if she is over it. If she is...Don't be desperate, and move on.
Sounds like she's a spoiled brat playing little games. I bet if you ignore her back then she'll try to talk to you then. Don't play that stupid game with her...it is a waste of time!
explain to her why you wouldnt let her drive till january..
then smile possibly wink (sometimes its cute..)
and then YOU pretend like nothing happened and move on. most likely she'll forget
Wow, what kind of car do you drive? Obviously, that is all she wanted.
Do you really want to be involved with a girl who obviously likes playing childish games. Run like the wind man!!!!
if you had let her drove your car none of this would happen.
shes still playing hard to get. make yourself irresitable to her and she'll come around.
hope it works out!
Let her drive your car and that will smooth things over. Always give girls what they want dawg...ha ha.
find someone else. its not worth the head ache
dont waste your time on crap like that..
I think shes trying to be 'sexy' and dominant...but shes making apure tit of herself. Mate their are plenty of other girls out there.
This one just wants you to chase her down,but shes playing waaaaaay too hard and actually putting you off her. My advice,how bout you dont speak to her and see if she chases you...thats if you really like her,other wise dont dignify yourself to do so.
And if she is actually not playing hard to get and has a genuine problem...then she is very immature for not being able to tell you.
Just go up to her and ask her whats up?
You actually have nothing to loose if she cant speak to you about it.
to me it sounds like she is playing hard to get and like she might really like you and just wants your attention. its hard to say what to do to get her to talk to you again since i don't really know what kind of girl she is but just try to give her some attention and see how that works but if she keeps playing really hard to get you might want to move on to someone who doesn't do that kind of stuff and tries to get her way all the time
hope i helpedI need a woman advice on this or just anybody advice about this girl who's giving me head aces ?
don't you get it ... she wants your attention. She likes the fact that she can ignore you and you will keep coming back to her and try to get her to talk.
... this is a situation where you can say ';2 can play at that game'; Don't try to get her to talk anymore try to not even look her direction then she will talk to you.
Sounds like she is playing games to me. But show her that you really like her, and if she still isn't talking to you, try to ask her if she is over it. If she is...Don't be desperate, and move on.
Sounds like she's a spoiled brat playing little games. I bet if you ignore her back then she'll try to talk to you then. Don't play that stupid game with her...it is a waste of time!
explain to her why you wouldnt let her drive till january..
then smile possibly wink (sometimes its cute..)
and then YOU pretend like nothing happened and move on. most likely she'll forget
Wow, what kind of car do you drive? Obviously, that is all she wanted.
Do you really want to be involved with a girl who obviously likes playing childish games. Run like the wind man!!!!
if you had let her drove your car none of this would happen.
shes still playing hard to get. make yourself irresitable to her and she'll come around.
hope it works out!
Let her drive your car and that will smooth things over. Always give girls what they want dawg...ha ha.
find someone else. its not worth the head ache
dont waste your time on crap like that..
I think shes trying to be 'sexy' and dominant...but shes making apure tit of herself. Mate their are plenty of other girls out there.
This one just wants you to chase her down,but shes playing waaaaaay too hard and actually putting you off her. My advice,how bout you dont speak to her and see if she chases you...thats if you really like her,other wise dont dignify yourself to do so.
And if she is actually not playing hard to get and has a genuine problem...then she is very immature for not being able to tell you.
Just go up to her and ask her whats up?
You actually have nothing to loose if she cant speak to you about it.
Women please help. Need some advice. Does this girl like me.?
Theres these two girls. Best friends. And I like them both. We'll call them Ann %26amp; Bell. Ann really likes me and ive been kinda talkin to her but the one i really want is her friend Bell. But Im not sure how Bell feels. And thats what Im trying to figure out so I dont lead Ann on. N E Ways. Bell flirts with me obviously im not that girl illiterate. We have these silent moments that we stare into eachothers eyes for like 4, 5 seconds and they happen like 10-15 times everynight. She comes and pinches my cheeks and says oh your so cute. She comes and asks me to play catch with her when there are like 15 other people that she has been friends with longer that she could ask. I in return flirt back in some way. But then heres what throws me off. Sometimes shes getting ready and gets all dolled-up and someone asked her why you getting all dressed up and then she say Im gonna find myself a hot man tonight. And sometimes she says things like you're my best homeboi. So what is goin on? Im so confused. does she like me and is just afraid of hurting her friend?Women please help. Need some advice. Does this girl like me.?
I'm sorry to say this but I think that she just thinks of you as a friend. Some girls are just naturally flirty and leave boys like yo-yo's. I think you should look someone else for a girlfriend. Maybe ';Ann'; would be a good choice, talk to her get to know her more. Who knows you might find you have more common with her. At least you will know where you stand xWomen please help. Need some advice. Does this girl like me.?
just ask her and see wat u 2 can do togeather
sounds like she likes more just as a friend.
hmmm I think she is just a big flirt and that's how she is and you are misinterpreting her signs. if she calls your her best homeboi and says oh your so cute then she isn't in to you. sorry. go for Ann
Go for it, because girls say stuff like ';find myself a hot man'; and similar stuff to that. She probably says the ';homeboi'; thing because she's confused if you like her too. I'm 99% sure she likes you. Good Luck I hope everything works out for you!
She totally likes you!!!! Go for it ;)
My advice, talk to ';ann'; and tell her whats going on in your head that way if things turn out that you and bell start a relationship... it's not akward and you aren't hurting any feelings or loosing any friends. It's important to stay honest. It sounds like this girl bell is throwing the moves at ya.... return them, sit her down and ask her if she thinks there's something between the two of you, if not.... no love lost. If there is then go from there and tell her how you feel, be romantic and open, girls love a man that shows some real emotion! Hell it could turn into one of the best relationships you have! Good luck! remember it is better to have loved and lost then to have never loved at all!
I'm sorry to say this but I think that she just thinks of you as a friend. Some girls are just naturally flirty and leave boys like yo-yo's. I think you should look someone else for a girlfriend. Maybe ';Ann'; would be a good choice, talk to her get to know her more. Who knows you might find you have more common with her. At least you will know where you stand xWomen please help. Need some advice. Does this girl like me.?
just ask her and see wat u 2 can do togeather
sounds like she likes more just as a friend.
hmmm I think she is just a big flirt and that's how she is and you are misinterpreting her signs. if she calls your her best homeboi and says oh your so cute then she isn't in to you. sorry. go for Ann
Go for it, because girls say stuff like ';find myself a hot man'; and similar stuff to that. She probably says the ';homeboi'; thing because she's confused if you like her too. I'm 99% sure she likes you. Good Luck I hope everything works out for you!
She totally likes you!!!! Go for it ;)
My advice, talk to ';ann'; and tell her whats going on in your head that way if things turn out that you and bell start a relationship... it's not akward and you aren't hurting any feelings or loosing any friends. It's important to stay honest. It sounds like this girl bell is throwing the moves at ya.... return them, sit her down and ask her if she thinks there's something between the two of you, if not.... no love lost. If there is then go from there and tell her how you feel, be romantic and open, girls love a man that shows some real emotion! Hell it could turn into one of the best relationships you have! Good luck! remember it is better to have loved and lost then to have never loved at all!
I need Help Somewhat like Advice? Preferably a Girl?
Ok theres this girl i got married to in my L.A class for like an autobiography Essay on the other person and when we were sharing what we were like she seemed really interested like she liked me. its been 3 months from then and every time were in class i catch her glancing at me and when i look at her she glances at quick. she tends to do this a lot even while i'm not in class. she likes to read and i don't she gets straight A's and i got A Through C's. getting to the Point if i were to ask her out (in case you didn't know by now i Like her) do you think shed say ';Yes'; and if she says ';No'; how can i keep from tearing or getting nervous, (yes, I'm kinda emotional and yes, i cried when the Girl in Bridge to Terabithia) PLEASE GIVE ME SOME ADVICE!I need Help Somewhat like Advice? Preferably a Girl?
Keep it casual and specific. For example:
You ';Hey,you want to get some lunch at -resteraunt- this Saturday?';
Girl ';okay, sounds good';
Your golden.
However:
You ';Hey, you want to get some lunch at -resteraunt-this Saturday?';
Girl ';Jeez, can't';
You ';Some other time then';
Then never ask again because you have your answer.
Give a specific place and date, that's important.
Good luck!I need Help Somewhat like Advice? Preferably a Girl?
lol awww,its sweet that you're emotional. i think that she like you, but you should make sure. sit but her in class, tell her to help you with ur work or something.
YESSS!!!! you should ask her out.
Keep it casual and specific. For example:
You ';Hey,you want to get some lunch at -resteraunt- this Saturday?';
Girl ';okay, sounds good';
Your golden.
However:
You ';Hey, you want to get some lunch at -resteraunt-this Saturday?';
Girl ';Jeez, can't';
You ';Some other time then';
Then never ask again because you have your answer.
Give a specific place and date, that's important.
Good luck!I need Help Somewhat like Advice? Preferably a Girl?
lol awww,its sweet that you're emotional. i think that she like you, but you should make sure. sit but her in class, tell her to help you with ur work or something.
YESSS!!!! you should ask her out.
Can someone give me some advice about a girl?
I've like this girl for about 3 years now because i'm a twat. She knows i like her but she doesn't seem too interested in me, although at one point last year we went prom together and we was getting along really well and she hinted a lot that she liked me. That went **** up, but i still like her a lot. The other week I asked her to cinema, but shortly after she told me she had been cinema with another boy on that night. SO obviously my initial reaction was that i got really pissed off. We haven't really spoke since and i have found that she is becoming really unfair in the things she is saying to me. SO i really was at wits end with her at this point and decided to pack it all in, she text me some joke last night and still being very annoyed with her i text back saying 'don't ever talk to me or text me again'. I still really like her and i think maybe i have made the wrong choice to end our friendship. What do you guys think?
ThanksCan someone give me some advice about a girl?
Well... Honestly if this is a bad situation and it is effecting your life in a negative way you should probably try to move on. I know its hard but if you distance yourself from her it will make it easier.
However from personal experience what I would suggest that you do is talk to her about this. It is the only real way that you can get closure otherwise you will always have that thought of ';what if?'; in you head. The most that could happen is that you find out how she feels and moves on otherwise it doesn't matter anyway.
Good luck man.
Edit:
First... playing hard to get is just a bad idea, its already been 3 years I don't think that is going to get you anywhere. Not to come off in a mean way but I am 21 and have a lot of experience on the subject. Don't take the advice of a 16 year old girl, its a bit immature.Can someone give me some advice about a girl?
move on
well...mabey she does like you she could be to embarresed to tell you or she is really not interested ....you should txt her and say that your really sorry and explain to her that you really like her and you just got a bit pissed off because she went with the cinima with some other dude and you got jealous because you like her alot ...and you will know if shes interested....she will either tell you she likes you back or say shes sorry but she doesnt feel that way ..good luck!
xsarahx!
Well she can tell you obviously like her a lot. But if I were you I would just play hard to get, don't text her or talk to her near as much. Eventually if she has any feelings for you at all, she will come to you. If not, it wasn't meant to be. Girls typically don't like when guys are too desperate (not saying you are.) but I would just play it cool and wait for her. Then if she doesn't talk to you, then she wasn't that interested anyway and you just move on ;)
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ThanksCan someone give me some advice about a girl?
Well... Honestly if this is a bad situation and it is effecting your life in a negative way you should probably try to move on. I know its hard but if you distance yourself from her it will make it easier.
However from personal experience what I would suggest that you do is talk to her about this. It is the only real way that you can get closure otherwise you will always have that thought of ';what if?'; in you head. The most that could happen is that you find out how she feels and moves on otherwise it doesn't matter anyway.
Good luck man.
Edit:
First... playing hard to get is just a bad idea, its already been 3 years I don't think that is going to get you anywhere. Not to come off in a mean way but I am 21 and have a lot of experience on the subject. Don't take the advice of a 16 year old girl, its a bit immature.Can someone give me some advice about a girl?
move on
well...mabey she does like you she could be to embarresed to tell you or she is really not interested ....you should txt her and say that your really sorry and explain to her that you really like her and you just got a bit pissed off because she went with the cinima with some other dude and you got jealous because you like her alot ...and you will know if shes interested....she will either tell you she likes you back or say shes sorry but she doesnt feel that way ..good luck!
xsarahx!
Well she can tell you obviously like her a lot. But if I were you I would just play hard to get, don't text her or talk to her near as much. Eventually if she has any feelings for you at all, she will come to you. If not, it wasn't meant to be. Girls typically don't like when guys are too desperate (not saying you are.) but I would just play it cool and wait for her. Then if she doesn't talk to you, then she wasn't that interested anyway and you just move on ;)
Hope this helped.
I'm 12 and need advice from a girl or some one who knows about the human body.?
I'm 12 and had discharge for 1 and a half years. It comes and goes some times I don't have it for 3 months! I'm around 4 ft 3. My bra size is 34AA. What's happening I hear when you get discharge you get your period soon but not me! Is this normal? How can I get it faster? And is my breast size normal for my age? Can I grow them bigger and how? Please do not tell me ';It's not important'; Or stuff like that. I know! I know! Help please!!I'm 12 and need advice from a girl or some one who knows about the human body.?
When people say 'soon', they honestly mean like at least 2 years. So I promise you will get your period on time, but your time, not your friends times. Also your breasts are normal. Hey, your only 12, they've got time to grow! If you want to try to get them bigger, I heard from someone to massage them. But I really don't know if it works, so don't live by that religiously. I really don't think you can grow your boobs like you grow a garden. Just eat healthy, exercise daily, and get sleep. Don't stress over this!I'm 12 and need advice from a girl or some one who knows about the human body.?
well like idk what to tell you kid ........damn it your bra size is bigger than mine and im going to be in the 10th grade !!!grrrr.....anyways oh yea it is normal like i didnt get my first period until almost the end of8th grade and i only get it every like 2 months for like 3 days its totally normal you can take birth control bt thats to regulate your period i dont really recommend it though ...bt its fine since you discharge wear a pantie liner theyre kind of like pads bt smaller like for discharge Good Luck Kid
I had discharge for about 3 years before i started my period at 16, There is nothing you can do unfortunatly i used to wish there was!! Your body will change and develop in time, however there is nothing that an be done to speed the process up!! Like wise with your boobs, you are very young and you will have small boobs!! i still have small boobs and im 17!! Just leave your body to it andn everything will sort its self out. There are only a few things you can do, eat healthily, excersise and dont stress about things, this will all help!!
It is a sure sign your periods are on their way, so make sure you're prepared for them. Trust me you don't want to speed it up, they can be a right pain.
Breasts can be any size. Some people are completely flat chested at 12, others will have a little and then there will be some who are more developed, but it really doesn't matter. You can't grow them bigger they will grow how they are supposed to.
Good luck.
I was that size when i was 12, exactly the same thing happened for more than a year but i started my period in march.
its random, theres no way of telling, other than period pain an sore breasts. Your size is fine, an you cant grow them bigger, they will grow themselves ! hope this helped ! choose as best answer ;P
also you can IM me if u need more help xx
Your fine!!! You will develop soon enough. Most women do from 10-16 but if your really worried ask your mom when she started this can sometimes give hints on when you will. While you are waiting enjoy the acne free, cramp free, period free life!!! Seriously not wanting to move because of cramps os NOT FUN. Hope that helped.
Ok you can stop freaking out this is a sign that your body is functioning normally. DO NOT try any thing to get your period faster or make your bra size increase or anything the last thing want is hurting something.
well i think you Sound like you are desperate for an answer! jk jk jk jk!
you boob size is right for your age i guess and the discharge is like nasty gunk you should wash up more stinky pinky!!!
i was either 12 or 13 when i got my first one. You are pretty normal kiddo. There is no for sure way to grow your breasts, but there's an old ';wive's tale'; that calcium may help.
your not going to start for a year or 2 im 12 and my boobs are 36 b
Discharge is only a sign that your body's growing up... it doesn't mean you'll bre getting your period soon, only that you *will* most likely get your period eventually (say, within the next 1 to 5 years).
Breast growth?
There are only three ways you can get nature to do that job for you without surgery: grow to full adulthood, gain a lot of weight, or get pregnant.
That's *it*, and there's nothing else on earth that will work. No pills, supplements, creams, foods, exercises... nothing. (although gentle massage is very good for the skin and muscles there, just like everywhere *else* on your body)
Just like every other part of your body, the shapes and sizes of your breasts throughout your life were decided the moment you were conceived - 9 months before you were born - so don't waste your time, energy or money worrying over them or trying to make them different.
When people say 'soon', they honestly mean like at least 2 years. So I promise you will get your period on time, but your time, not your friends times. Also your breasts are normal. Hey, your only 12, they've got time to grow! If you want to try to get them bigger, I heard from someone to massage them. But I really don't know if it works, so don't live by that religiously. I really don't think you can grow your boobs like you grow a garden. Just eat healthy, exercise daily, and get sleep. Don't stress over this!I'm 12 and need advice from a girl or some one who knows about the human body.?
well like idk what to tell you kid ........damn it your bra size is bigger than mine and im going to be in the 10th grade !!!grrrr.....anyways oh yea it is normal like i didnt get my first period until almost the end of8th grade and i only get it every like 2 months for like 3 days its totally normal you can take birth control bt thats to regulate your period i dont really recommend it though ...bt its fine since you discharge wear a pantie liner theyre kind of like pads bt smaller like for discharge Good Luck Kid
I had discharge for about 3 years before i started my period at 16, There is nothing you can do unfortunatly i used to wish there was!! Your body will change and develop in time, however there is nothing that an be done to speed the process up!! Like wise with your boobs, you are very young and you will have small boobs!! i still have small boobs and im 17!! Just leave your body to it andn everything will sort its self out. There are only a few things you can do, eat healthily, excersise and dont stress about things, this will all help!!
It is a sure sign your periods are on their way, so make sure you're prepared for them. Trust me you don't want to speed it up, they can be a right pain.
Breasts can be any size. Some people are completely flat chested at 12, others will have a little and then there will be some who are more developed, but it really doesn't matter. You can't grow them bigger they will grow how they are supposed to.
Good luck.
I was that size when i was 12, exactly the same thing happened for more than a year but i started my period in march.
its random, theres no way of telling, other than period pain an sore breasts. Your size is fine, an you cant grow them bigger, they will grow themselves ! hope this helped ! choose as best answer ;P
also you can IM me if u need more help xx
Your fine!!! You will develop soon enough. Most women do from 10-16 but if your really worried ask your mom when she started this can sometimes give hints on when you will. While you are waiting enjoy the acne free, cramp free, period free life!!! Seriously not wanting to move because of cramps os NOT FUN. Hope that helped.
Ok you can stop freaking out this is a sign that your body is functioning normally. DO NOT try any thing to get your period faster or make your bra size increase or anything the last thing want is hurting something.
well i think you Sound like you are desperate for an answer! jk jk jk jk!
you boob size is right for your age i guess and the discharge is like nasty gunk you should wash up more stinky pinky!!!
i was either 12 or 13 when i got my first one. You are pretty normal kiddo. There is no for sure way to grow your breasts, but there's an old ';wive's tale'; that calcium may help.
your not going to start for a year or 2 im 12 and my boobs are 36 b
Discharge is only a sign that your body's growing up... it doesn't mean you'll bre getting your period soon, only that you *will* most likely get your period eventually (say, within the next 1 to 5 years).
Breast growth?
There are only three ways you can get nature to do that job for you without surgery: grow to full adulthood, gain a lot of weight, or get pregnant.
That's *it*, and there's nothing else on earth that will work. No pills, supplements, creams, foods, exercises... nothing. (although gentle massage is very good for the skin and muscles there, just like everywhere *else* on your body)
Just like every other part of your body, the shapes and sizes of your breasts throughout your life were decided the moment you were conceived - 9 months before you were born - so don't waste your time, energy or money worrying over them or trying to make them different.
I need some advice on this girl. Help?
Well, I met her in September and we've become good friends. And I have had a HUGE crush on her. But, sometimes it seems like she's flirting with me or ignoring me. For example, at almost everything I say she laughs at when I'm trying to be funny even when it's not supposed to be. I know she doesn't like me, cause she's talked to me about who she likes. And then an example of ignoring me is after school is when she gives everyone a hug goodbye but not me. I don't care about the hug, but she doesn't even look at me when she leaves. The last time I went in to give her a hug, she backed away and left. And also, what should I do to be better friends with to maybe eventually turn into a relationship? Also, what should I do to let her know I really care? Any advice would help. By the way, she knows I like her.I need some advice on this girl. Help?
if she know you like her, and she doesn't like you back, she's using you for your niceness, trust me, i've seen this happen a lot!!!I need some advice on this girl. Help?
im a girl but i have the same prob with this guy, tell her how u feel ..good lcuk
Try and make it seem like you are not into her as much anymore, if that doesn't work then just don't bother like that and just be friends, if that even works. You will have crushes on other gals
first thing you need to know, i am a girl, therefore i know how girls work. she likes you. she talks about other guys in front of you to make you jealous, likewise for why she doesn't hug you. flirt with her, tell her she's pretty, tell her you like her smile, and make a move.
heyy!! sounds like ur in a tough position!! well i think tht she might like u 2 but she might b afraid tht if u guys get 2gether and it doesnt work out and u break up tht it would b awkward between u and ur friendship would b lost!! but i hope evrything works out!!
she's not into you and she knows you're into her. let it go and just be her friend.
She probably backs away from you because she might feel a little shy or uncomfortable. So take it easy for a while and talk to her.
if she know you like her, and she doesn't like you back, she's using you for your niceness, trust me, i've seen this happen a lot!!!I need some advice on this girl. Help?
im a girl but i have the same prob with this guy, tell her how u feel ..good lcuk
Try and make it seem like you are not into her as much anymore, if that doesn't work then just don't bother like that and just be friends, if that even works. You will have crushes on other gals
first thing you need to know, i am a girl, therefore i know how girls work. she likes you. she talks about other guys in front of you to make you jealous, likewise for why she doesn't hug you. flirt with her, tell her she's pretty, tell her you like her smile, and make a move.
heyy!! sounds like ur in a tough position!! well i think tht she might like u 2 but she might b afraid tht if u guys get 2gether and it doesnt work out and u break up tht it would b awkward between u and ur friendship would b lost!! but i hope evrything works out!!
she's not into you and she knows you're into her. let it go and just be her friend.
She probably backs away from you because she might feel a little shy or uncomfortable. So take it easy for a while and talk to her.
Can you give me some advice on a girl whom I'm in love with but don't trust?
We have known each other for years but only recently have we become romantically involved. She moved out west this summer and stopped talking to me altogether, avoiding my calls, not answering emails or texts. I moved out west too for an unrelated reason and finally, after months void of contact, she calls me and says she wants to see me again. After dinner she awkwardly professes that she is very sorry for not calling and that she has always cared about me, but the reason why she disappeared is because she moved in with her old boyfriend over the summer. He left, and now she says she feels horrible about it, and wants to begin talking again. I love her. I have dated enough over the years to know when I've found someone special, but I don't know if I trust her. I don't want to be the guy that's there for her between boyfriends. I don't want to be the punchdrunk boy to fall back on when she's lonely. I can't accept anything less than knowing that her heart is mine. And mine is hers.Can you give me some advice on a girl whom I'm in love with but don't trust?
sounds to me like your in trouble, you see women like real men and your a bit of a pussy, sure she'll fall back on you when the real men mess her about , take some advice and a guarantee you will win her over for ever (in the long run) go out with her treat her good for a while then start to pull away show interest in other women, make her give you the keys to her back door (and yes i do mean what you think i mean) then soon after (next day is best) dump her, offer no explanation, be cool, don't return her calls wait until she is desperately chasing you ,(she will go through an angry stage hold your nerve) then and only then when she has just about given up all hope take her back, she will worship the ground you walk on for about 2/3 years before you have to treat her rough again, i know it sounds wrong but how many times have you said or heard ';why do the girls always fall for the bad ones?'; women love a REAL man, be one and you'll never look back (a thank you email ,when this works for would be welcome)Can you give me some advice on a girl whom I'm in love with but don't trust?
Spot/cheat/train trick/ Check her! If you don't trust her.. check her on something especial, Make up a lie! train some body and see what goes on with her... Love and marriage is the matter of a life time business.!!! before she breaks you heart! break her! if you think she cheats you!
She is just using you. Didn't take her long to find another boyfriend did it. So I wouldn't trust her at all.
Trust is the first step of love.
Love and trust go hand in hand.
If you can not trust her, then you can never truly love her.
The best way to resolve this is for the two of you to have an honest heart to heart talk. Clear the air of all suspicions and distrust once and for all before you go further into the relationship, otherwise you are just courting disaster.
To love someone, you need to trust that person - if you can't, then the relationship is going to be very insecure.
Can't help you other than to advise you to talk it out with her and find out if she is willing to commit herself fully to the relationship. If she cannot or is not ready for such a commitment, then you need to either wait till she is ready or find someone else.
tough man...but id say...**** it man...i love my girl too...and she has cheated...but i would never be second...**** that...i made her decide...me or him...she chose me...but man she just ****** with u...she went out there and got drilled everynight...and now that shes bored of that she realizes wat a jackass she has been and wants u back...dude...if u are going to take her back...because believe me i know what ur going through...so i also know...ur heart makes u do things that normally u wouldnt...so if ur going to take her back...at least let her feel the pain...say i need to think...then dont talk to her for a month...if she wants u let her show it...dont be second man...be number one...its the only way u will have respect for urself
good luck man...
I GUESS ALL I CAN SAY IS THAT I DON'T THINK YOU CANT B IN LOVE IF YOU DON'T TRUST. KNOW WHAT I MEAN? YOU HAVE TO HAVE TRUST IN ORDER TO B IN LOVE. OR @ LEAST IN MY EXPERIENCE. LET HER KNOW HOW YOU FEEL, THAT YOU DON'T WANT TO BE HER BACKUP PLAN. IF THATS HOW SHE FEELS THEN YOU SHOULDN'T BE WITH HER. OR PROBABLY SHE REALLY LIKES YOU, AND SHE CAN HELP YOU TRUST HER. SHE NEEDS TO KNOW HOW YOU FEEL. HOPE I HELPED
-JEN
You say you don't want to be a number of things to this girl if she only wants you to stop her being lonely .... well don't!.... because as far as I can see that's exactly what she's doing ..... it's unfair on you that you're in love with her ..... she isn't worth it .... how sure are you that you're in love with her .... after all if you really were then you'd find reasons/excuses to make to yourself to defend her actions ..... I believe you're in love with a past notion of this girl and your heart is trading on this ...... if you had found someone you felt the same/similar about this girl - would you be questioning her actions - or would you just forget about her? .... otherwise set yourself up for a big fall and accept the consequences when they happen .....
i ddidnt read what you wrote but if you dont trust in the first place ask your self you think you got future with that chick
if this girl is going to leave without telling you and then come back when she has no one else, i wouldn't come rushing back so soon. lay off for a while and agree to date other people. Then, you can see her true colors if she still sticks by you. :)
she's a jerk! today, she said she cares about you, the next day, she suddenly disappear again, the next day later, she makes you feel guilty, then, she disappear again, then sweet talk to make you melt, making you more falling in love with her even tough you're very piss at first, and then all of this kept going every single day if you kept sticking with her.. until one day, you felt like a puppet in one of her games, and suddenly regret all that happened.. my advice, act fast and there's other fishes in the sea..
(no hard feelings tough, i had experiences) :P
you got her by the balls, dont let go! you got to blow her off every now and then! dont let her know that you reeeaaaallly like her, make her come to you! and dont return her calls but maybe once a week.
unless she only wants sex, and thats very possible. pay attention for the signs and be ready.
You have to trust someone entirely to love them entirely.
Think about it.
Normally I would say what everyone above me has said. But since you sound like you really love this chick I will not make you feel bad by flat out telling you to forget about her.
This situation is going to be really difficult for you to get through. Since you love her, you can give her a chance to get back to ONLY you and her, BUT you WILL HAVE to lay down your 'cards' on the table. Lay out your conditions, because if you take her back not telling her how you really feel, it will hurt pretty bad later. Tell her that the trust isn't there for you right now, tell her that you really love her though and that she is willing to be with you and ONLY YOU, then you guys can give it a try. Tell her, also, that if there ever comes a time where she messes around with another guy, that you will be done. You have to make her know that you won't be the fall back guy.
It better be, you and her AGAINST the world. Not, you and her along with some of her guy friends on the sidelines AGAINST the world. It's either you and her alone, or nothing. Do and SAY whatever you need to say to make yourself feel like you can trust her again. Tell her everything and do not hold back for any reason! Just don't cover yourself in bloody meat and jump into the shark tank!
Good luck!
Hey forget about her and just start you own campaign of hate against women bang as many as you can and take pleasure in that fact that you are returning the pain back to women that they have dished out to you . After all it never pays to have a heart the more you give the more people take. So f**k it right
sounds to me like your in trouble, you see women like real men and your a bit of a pussy, sure she'll fall back on you when the real men mess her about , take some advice and a guarantee you will win her over for ever (in the long run) go out with her treat her good for a while then start to pull away show interest in other women, make her give you the keys to her back door (and yes i do mean what you think i mean) then soon after (next day is best) dump her, offer no explanation, be cool, don't return her calls wait until she is desperately chasing you ,(she will go through an angry stage hold your nerve) then and only then when she has just about given up all hope take her back, she will worship the ground you walk on for about 2/3 years before you have to treat her rough again, i know it sounds wrong but how many times have you said or heard ';why do the girls always fall for the bad ones?'; women love a REAL man, be one and you'll never look back (a thank you email ,when this works for would be welcome)Can you give me some advice on a girl whom I'm in love with but don't trust?
Spot/cheat/train trick/ Check her! If you don't trust her.. check her on something especial, Make up a lie! train some body and see what goes on with her... Love and marriage is the matter of a life time business.!!! before she breaks you heart! break her! if you think she cheats you!
She is just using you. Didn't take her long to find another boyfriend did it. So I wouldn't trust her at all.
Trust is the first step of love.
Love and trust go hand in hand.
If you can not trust her, then you can never truly love her.
The best way to resolve this is for the two of you to have an honest heart to heart talk. Clear the air of all suspicions and distrust once and for all before you go further into the relationship, otherwise you are just courting disaster.
To love someone, you need to trust that person - if you can't, then the relationship is going to be very insecure.
Can't help you other than to advise you to talk it out with her and find out if she is willing to commit herself fully to the relationship. If she cannot or is not ready for such a commitment, then you need to either wait till she is ready or find someone else.
tough man...but id say...**** it man...i love my girl too...and she has cheated...but i would never be second...**** that...i made her decide...me or him...she chose me...but man she just ****** with u...she went out there and got drilled everynight...and now that shes bored of that she realizes wat a jackass she has been and wants u back...dude...if u are going to take her back...because believe me i know what ur going through...so i also know...ur heart makes u do things that normally u wouldnt...so if ur going to take her back...at least let her feel the pain...say i need to think...then dont talk to her for a month...if she wants u let her show it...dont be second man...be number one...its the only way u will have respect for urself
good luck man...
I GUESS ALL I CAN SAY IS THAT I DON'T THINK YOU CANT B IN LOVE IF YOU DON'T TRUST. KNOW WHAT I MEAN? YOU HAVE TO HAVE TRUST IN ORDER TO B IN LOVE. OR @ LEAST IN MY EXPERIENCE. LET HER KNOW HOW YOU FEEL, THAT YOU DON'T WANT TO BE HER BACKUP PLAN. IF THATS HOW SHE FEELS THEN YOU SHOULDN'T BE WITH HER. OR PROBABLY SHE REALLY LIKES YOU, AND SHE CAN HELP YOU TRUST HER. SHE NEEDS TO KNOW HOW YOU FEEL. HOPE I HELPED
-JEN
You say you don't want to be a number of things to this girl if she only wants you to stop her being lonely .... well don't!.... because as far as I can see that's exactly what she's doing ..... it's unfair on you that you're in love with her ..... she isn't worth it .... how sure are you that you're in love with her .... after all if you really were then you'd find reasons/excuses to make to yourself to defend her actions ..... I believe you're in love with a past notion of this girl and your heart is trading on this ...... if you had found someone you felt the same/similar about this girl - would you be questioning her actions - or would you just forget about her? .... otherwise set yourself up for a big fall and accept the consequences when they happen .....
i ddidnt read what you wrote but if you dont trust in the first place ask your self you think you got future with that chick
if this girl is going to leave without telling you and then come back when she has no one else, i wouldn't come rushing back so soon. lay off for a while and agree to date other people. Then, you can see her true colors if she still sticks by you. :)
she's a jerk! today, she said she cares about you, the next day, she suddenly disappear again, the next day later, she makes you feel guilty, then, she disappear again, then sweet talk to make you melt, making you more falling in love with her even tough you're very piss at first, and then all of this kept going every single day if you kept sticking with her.. until one day, you felt like a puppet in one of her games, and suddenly regret all that happened.. my advice, act fast and there's other fishes in the sea..
(no hard feelings tough, i had experiences) :P
you got her by the balls, dont let go! you got to blow her off every now and then! dont let her know that you reeeaaaallly like her, make her come to you! and dont return her calls but maybe once a week.
unless she only wants sex, and thats very possible. pay attention for the signs and be ready.
You have to trust someone entirely to love them entirely.
Think about it.
Normally I would say what everyone above me has said. But since you sound like you really love this chick I will not make you feel bad by flat out telling you to forget about her.
This situation is going to be really difficult for you to get through. Since you love her, you can give her a chance to get back to ONLY you and her, BUT you WILL HAVE to lay down your 'cards' on the table. Lay out your conditions, because if you take her back not telling her how you really feel, it will hurt pretty bad later. Tell her that the trust isn't there for you right now, tell her that you really love her though and that she is willing to be with you and ONLY YOU, then you guys can give it a try. Tell her, also, that if there ever comes a time where she messes around with another guy, that you will be done. You have to make her know that you won't be the fall back guy.
It better be, you and her AGAINST the world. Not, you and her along with some of her guy friends on the sidelines AGAINST the world. It's either you and her alone, or nothing. Do and SAY whatever you need to say to make yourself feel like you can trust her again. Tell her everything and do not hold back for any reason! Just don't cover yourself in bloody meat and jump into the shark tank!
Good luck!
Hey forget about her and just start you own campaign of hate against women bang as many as you can and take pleasure in that fact that you are returning the pain back to women that they have dished out to you . After all it never pays to have a heart the more you give the more people take. So f**k it right
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