Thursday, July 29, 2010

Needs advice in social living: asking a girl out?

Okay this makes no sense in hell to me, to get a girl to be your girlfriend...what the hell do I do? I hang out with her and then one day simply say ';Hey, do you wanna go out?';





I mean...yeah, haha I'm socially inept, as simple as it sounds any serious answer will probably help me %26gt;.%26lt;Needs advice in social living: asking a girl out?
Ha well it goes a little deeper than just hanging out. You show the girl you are interested. Smile at her a lot, it will let her know you like being around her. Be flirty. If she is wearing any jewelry, use that as a reason to touch her. Show her more attention than you show other girls, it will let her know you are more interested. Look at how she reacts to each of these. If you often find her giving you more attention than she does other guys, or if you see her staring more often, it probably means she has feelings for you also. Hang out with her a lot and text her often, again it will show her you are interested. I know it sounds cliche, but eye contact is very important. Make sure you have eye contact when doing any of the above things, and smiling is just as important. Over time, girls will usually sense that the guy may have feelings for her, and when you feel its the right time (you will know) then tell her exactly how you feel about her, and if she would maybe wanna catch a movie sometime. You don't need to flat out ask her to be your girlfriend, just take it slow, and eventually you guys will just know that you are together.Needs advice in social living: asking a girl out?
Okay, so with girls, we just...wethink it's ADOREABLE when guys mes up, so don't worry about that. Just act like your attracted to her at first, but not too much or else she might think your a little weird. just enough so that she can wonder. And then at a nic emomment just ask her out and DO NOT WORRY ABOUT MESSING UP BECAUSE SHE WILL LOVE IT! Girls like that because that means that you REALLY do wanna go out with them and your not just asking so you wont be single. She will tell her friends all about it and when she tells them that you stutttered a little they will all go';Awwwwwwwwwwwwwwooooo!'; And tell her to say yes (if she hasn't already) ;) Good luck! I hope that you get your girl!!!!
pretty much ya


if you think you are ready then don't start the conversation with


hey do you wanna go out,


end it with that!


you know something cheezy like: We've been hanging out for a whilie and i really like you and was wondering if you would like to be my girlfriend
LOL. The best thing to do is to be their friend first. Show no interest, or minimal interest. When you DO ask, just ask. If you're nervous, she'll probably be nervous.





Plus, jumping straight into dating when you don't know much about the other person... Kinda odd. So, be friends first, it's usually more comfortable that way. ^__^





Good luck! I hope this and others help.
ask her to a movie or something that is one on one, and maybe ask to hold her hand after the movie or during. and make sure you buy the tickets.
just ask

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