Thursday, July 29, 2010

Ok women, i need your advice on this girl issue...?

ok... so there's this girl... her ex-bf last year kinda broke her heart... So we started out like friends, which turned to best friends, which turned into a little more... my fault.. so things are great, I think i'm falling in love with her... but there's one problem... when she's with me, it's great... we talk, laugh, make out, watch movies, etc... but when we're in public, we act as though nothing had ever happened... which disturbs me... why is she doing that? she's not actually denying it, because when she's asked, she never gives a straight answer, nor do I... so i really don't know what to think, and I'm a bit worried. help..Ok women, i need your advice on this girl issue...?
she doesn't approve of u, or u don't approve of herOk women, i need your advice on this girl issue...?
you to need to settle this, ok if you two aren't going out the you need to settle that. if you two are then you need to talk to her and say that you want ppl to no that you two are going out
It means something is up...





If she is a completely different person when you tow are alone and then distant in public maybe she is hiding something?





Maybe she has a boyfriend or a guy she hangs out with like she does with you.





I'm going to say there is something she is hiding for sure!!
be friends or be togeather
i hatee girllsss (not really)


theyre too hard to read sometimes





just let her know wassup man


tell her wats going thru ur mind ...


like '; where exactly do we stand relationship wise';





if ur too shy to do that or not comfortable enough... then have one of her friends ask her for you
It could be the fact that she doesn't want anyone to see or find dout about it. I mean by gossip etc.
she might just not like PDA (public displays of affection)
well, when you guys are in public then try doing things you guys do when its just you two. like you guys dont do anything so talk to her and make her laugh and all that. if she doesnt then maybe she's feeling insecure about everyone seeing you guys together like that or something.
no one knows whats in her head but her





sit her down and talk to her openly and sincerely let her know how you feel and ask her why she does what she does and tell her how it makes you feel if you are in love and want to be more than friends tell her at least you would have put it out there and its not a secret anymore





also you have to prepare for her to not feel the same way she may not be ready for that and tell you she doesn't feel the same you just have to accept it you have to learn to not be afraid of getting your heart broken if thats what happens take the pain and move on it will make you stronger





lastly she may feel the same about you and appreciate your honesty so just go for it ask her why she does what she does and then tell her how you feel about her actions and tell her how you feel about her
well if ur not givin a straight answer either maybe she doesnt know what to think... n shes obv gonna be cautious after what happened with her ex...





u need to tlk to her and ask her what she wants u guys to be like does she want to go out or what and reassure her ur not gonna treat her like he did!
i kinda have the same prob. but only with a guy...lol but yea...maybe its cuz she might b embaressed about being with u...i dont think it has to do with her friend...if u just kinda start talking to her more in public and then it would make her feel more comfterable around u in public.
Maybe she doesn't want certain people to find out about the two of u.

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