Ok, first of all don't get back together with her. You will only end up hurting her in the long run, because you won't be happy. Second, be completely honest with her. She might be upset for a while, but she will eventually get over it and move on. Good Luck.Girl help!!!!! please!!! any advice?
Breakup's are always hard, and i really understand why you are afraid to go back into a relationship with this girl. It is wonderful that you could stay friends and leave the past behind you to continue life together as close friends. Maybe try explaining the reasons for not wanting to commit into another relationship with her, and hopefully she will understand. Its ok to not feel the same way, because you have moved on. When you do decide to explain it to her, make sure it is in a nice way, Straight forward but nice. Just whatever you do, make sure its what you want and whats best for you before you do it, dont feel pressured into another relationship with her if thats not what you want. Trust me if she cares about you like you explain she will understand.
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Candace and Kristina
You should tell her in a nice way (but not too nice, because girls will get this confused for ';other feelings';) that you enjoy being her friend, but as for dating, things have changed and that you don't feel the same way you used to. Tell her that you know it's hard after a break-up and that sometimes she might want to come back to you, but there is a reason you broke up in the first place. It's nothing personal, but some people match better as friends than as significant others. You understand the confusion she may feel but that you're telling her because you care and that you enjoy the friendship. I hope this helps.
Yikes! Just tell her no and say exactly what you said here: that you care about her a lot, but.... Bring up the point that you thought the friendship was going well, too. It looks to me like she's doing that thing that people sometimes do... breaking up with someone and then realizing how different their life is without someone else in it. She most likely is just a little scared to be alone. This could be it depending on how long you were together. OR she could have just broken up with you as a test to see whether or not really cares for you. A lot of girls do this thinking that the involved guy won't get over them and will be pining for them after they leave...they don't bank on the guy getting over them. It sounds to me like this might be the case. Just give her a firm no, and tell her that you'd love to be friends with her. I'd start dating again, too... it's a little harsh, but she'll either get over it or won't be friends with you anymore. It's a little bit of a sacrifice, but if your ex can't handle being friends with you, then you need to make it.
Well it depends on whether or not you want to get back together or you don't. If you do: you should go up to her and say something along the lines of ';ok lets try this but i gotta know that your gonna love me and not leave me like last time.';
If you don't: you should go up to her alone and calmly tell her something like you care about her as a good friend but you aren't ready for another let down and you'd love to just be friends with her. hope that helps
hmmm, from your side of the story (there's always 2), it sounds like you're a really nice guy, and when she moved on from the relationship she had with you, her next relationship didn't benefit in the way she wanted it too and then she came back to you. that always happens, especially with us girls. when we move from one relationship to another, and the following one dosen't work out the way we planned, our previous boyfriend is kind of like a security blanket. or maybe a saftey net to fall back on. i know, i know, it's wrong, but we can't help it, especially if the last relationship we were in was for a longer period of time, we grow more attached to that person.
hello
i think it may be bad for you if you try the relationship again, specially if your feeling unsure and are having doubts. It should be a mutual feeling.
Shes the one that broke up with you, its sounds to me that shes controlling everything. I think u should wait a bit longer just to get YOUR feelings in control.
Tell her the truth, trust me you'll feel much better.
You guys are still friends which is soo good if you ask me. And if its going good now why does it need to move into the raltionship stage again right now?
remember there are many more fish in the sea!
Goodluck watever you decide to do :)
Tell her straight away yourll make her more mad if your leaving her
hanging, no one can tel you what to say because we dont know
what happened just be ohnest %26amp; dont lie, tell her you dont feel
the same way %26amp; things didnt work out the first time whys this time
going to be any diffrent %26amp; you still care for her but not how you
used to or if you want to get back with her tell her it hurt you the
first time %26amp; you cant go through it again. :D GL X
I don't know why girls pull this crap, gets on my last nerve sometimes. All I can say is that you should if you have feelings for her but do it with more wisdom this time, and if there is to be another breakup do it yourself this time. If you don't think shes worth it anymore than tell her nicely and she should back off. If things get difficult don't be afraid to tell her to get out of your life.
I hope you feel peace about this soon...
I think you should be honest with her. When she broke up with you she knew she was taking a chance and now you have moved on and are happy. Just be honest with her and let her know you are happy as friends. Unless a part of you wants to get back together also. Well good luck.
Just tell her...she may be mad, but she will get over it. Letting her no now is better than getting back together with her just because you didnt want to tell her the truth, then her be mad when you break up again.
I would rather a guy tell me that he doesn't like me, than to force himself to date me just so I wasn't mad. That's a complete waste of time in my opinion.
Tell her its not that i dont care about u, i just dont think its not going to work, because we have already tried it, and i dont want to half to deal with the process of breaking up, but we can still be good friends. You shold just be very honest with her the worst thing you could do is get some one to tell her that or ignore her so just tell her the truth
well first off man if you still have feelings for her. you never moved on. but what you really need to do is figger out what your heart is telling you and what your head is telling you. you need to follow your heart. i cant tell you what you should do, and what you should not do. that you have to find out for yourself. if you really like her(or love)be with her, never pass up the chance for love.
Just be honest with her and tell her. It's no use playing ';room for rent';. You have already found someone else. Do you think it would be fair to drop your present girlfriend because your ex wants you back? Let her know that unfortunately you have found someone else that you love and you are happy. If she wants to remain friends then that's fine.
just explain to her that she was the one who broke up with you and that since she has done that you are afraid to get hurt again and that you do not think it's a good idea getting back with your ex.
Wow you're in a tough situation. Well i that is exactly what happened to me with my ex bf all you really need to do is tell her how you're feeling about getting back together. I'm sure if you were good enough of friends she would understand. Good Luck!!!
maybe you like her, maybe you don't...
i say you should give it a chance.
but if you don't want to do that, tell her nicely that you don't have those kind of feelings for her anymore...
a man keeps it real about everything he say and do.tell her straight out. it's about you today. you come first before anybody. if you're not happy no one else around you will be. think about it.
Just say you're really sorry, but you don't feel the same way anymore. Honesty is key -- you shouldn't go on a date because you feel bad.
Hope this helps, %26amp; good luck!
If you don't feel having that relationship with her than tell her that you think being friends with her is better and don't worry everything will be fine.
If you don't want relation any long then i think not to take another chance
Love is not a game to patch up and breakup again and again
Tell her this ';I like you too. But, I just don't want to have a relationship. I want to stay close friends.';
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You should bring your new girlfriend into the picture and start making out and let the OLD girl know without telling her that you don't want to be with her!
Man up
You're over her and she'll get over you
Then again you wouldn't be askin this if you dint have feelings for her
In which case
Man up
and ask her out
Dig deep
what do you really want
go to her
tell her
you'll feel as light as a butterfly
unless she slaps you
dont, she is just feeling neglected by what other boys she has been with since you. If you get back together then nothing will change and after a month or so you will just split up again.
I wouldnt recommend it mate
Say...
I like you and everything but you could rote in hell for all i cared
Pmsl Katherineee Heheeeeeee
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Just be honest with her and tell her you don't have feeling for her any more.
Tell her shes been Nexted.
If your over, then tell her what you wrote in the question. I mean, it HAS been 2 months.
leave dah hoe
~Rachella Bella;;;
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