I'm a girl scared of Dating...... Womens and guys advice help!!!?

I have a question I'm a girl and almost 16, should I start dating I'm actually nervous to. I m still a virgin and have not got my first kiss. I want to wait for my husband. What do you think I should doI'm a girl scared of Dating...... Womens and guys advice help!!!?
I think when you are ready to date, you should. There are plenty of guys who would want to date you, and make you feel special. It's okay if you are still a virgin, there is nothing wrong with that. Same with your first kiss, it will happen when it is supposed to happen. And, if that means waiting for your husband, that is perfectly fine. If you start to date someone who doesn't respect those beliefs you have, they aren't the one. If they truely want you forever, and love you with all their heart, they will wait for you. I hope everything works out.I'm a girl scared of Dating...... Womens and guys advice help!!!?
Its kinda cool to hear that you are still a virgin at 16. I mean most girls are not by this age. I was a virgin until I was 20, now I'm 21. My bf was my first everything.. and honestly its ok if you're nervous, about dating because sex %26amp; boys are serious business. Relationships require a lot of emotional investment, and energy.. so I think you're right on track... honestly no one is perfect, so you might meet someone (before marriage) who you'll trust enough to have sex with and that's ok. just don't rush yourself, if your nervous it means you might not be ready just yet.. but you will be soon and you'll know when its right for you... if you wait for marriage that's great as well, take your time and don't compromise you'll be proud of yourself at the end of the day... Hope this helps!!! :)
I think no matter what age you are dating makes you nervous. I'm 28 and have a 7 yr old son and still get just as nervous about dating as I did in High School. Good for you for wanting to wait till your married to have sex. You need to not put your self in a situation were it could happen. Maybe meet for a movie or to get a bite to eat with friends. Group dates are a good idea. Stick to what you believe and don't let anyone pressure you. You can't hide from dating because you need to date and meet people to see what you eventually want. Put up the rules with any one you go out with and stick to them.
you should start dating around your age. otherwise you won't know what kind of guy you would want to be with for the rest of your life. keep your virginity for your future husband but a first kiss should be achieved by the end of your teen years. definitely save your virginity for your future husband. and i understand why you would be scared. i mean why go through all the hurt that comes along with a relationship then be traumatized? but honestly, you don't learn unless you make mistakes. get out there and have fun, but be safe. being in a relationship can be quite comforting actually. you'll have someone to cuddle you during movies, eat lunch or dinner with, and celebrate valentine's day with (or any holidays).
I was scared of dating when I was a little younger than you, but you warm up to dating pretty quickly. I find it's actually good to date, because then you'll know what qualities you want and don't want for that husband you want to wait for. If you marry the first guy you date, chances are you saved yourself for a guy who will take advantage of your lack of experience.


You can still date without putting out. Good luck :)
i think you should date guys who feel the same as you do about life. if a guy has respect for you he will wait for you. if you cant find a guy then its god will that you stay single. dont be scared of dating.(i was for the longest time.) it is what you do when yu find someone you like not what you do because everyoneelse is if you dont want to date no one will make. but its best if your ok with the idea of dating ask you get older.


hope that i helped =D


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Take this advice from a guy...if it means that much to you to stay a virgin thats cool you dont see much of that anymore. You can date all you want just dont give it up because a man who is truly in love with you will wait for you whatever it takes. Trust me girl it will take time to find the right man because most of us are always thinking about one thing and as far as kissing goes...go for it, plant one on that boy your thinking about right now hes not going to mind. Remember nobody was born a good kisser its all about the practice and everybody has been scared on a first date. Be yourself stand up for what you believe and always follow your heart.
OMG i'm older and still the same, im 17


but when your ready you'll know, dont rush anything, wait and see if you find someone you want to date and take it easy, but plese dont give in to peer presure, about dating, and sex,





have faith in yourself and you'll know when your ready





i dont know if this will help, but hope everying works out =]
honey- your 16, and never had a boyfriend? u need to get dating. when u date, u find someoneyou love who could potentially turn into your boyfriend, i mean yes, you are still in highschool, but you shoudl at least start, get use to it. i mean i doubt u will marry your highschool sweetheart, but like really, you should date, and get to know how to be around guys, and kiss, and in college everyone has sex, so unless you have a purity ring or somethinn, idk what to tell ya
you are going to get kissed you are going to fall in love and if you want to wait for sex until you are older than wait


if the guy your with puts pressure for you to put out DON'T stick to your guns and wait...if a guy really loves you he will wait until it is the right time for you not him.


I made that mistake when I was 18 and my girlfriend was 16 she wanted to wait and I put so much pressure on her to have sex with me that I ended up breaking up with her, I was really in love with her and have always regretted it.2 years latter we went out again even got engaged but it was never the same because I was such an idiot that after I left the first time she slept with her next boyfriend afraid that he may leave as well. and when we got back together it just wasn;t the same I really wished I waited for her I think we may still be together if I had. hope I helped a little
16 is a good age to start dating. GAHH!! i cant believe there are like 10 year olds dating!! haha. im 14, and im also scared of dating. because im scared that ill end up really liking them, and then just get my heart broken..... and yes i do think its a very very good idea to save your virginity until marriage, you will have no regrets. umm... i dont really have any experience with dating....just wait until a guy asks you out, ooorrr you can do something to make you stand out so that more guys will know you..and admire you.. haha i dont know..
If you don't feel ready...don't force it. There is no rush. I was always told don't look for someone else...let them find you. Well I never listened...I constanly had a boyfriend. Finally after the last one broke up I just spent time alone and with my friends. I'll have you know I randomly met a nice boy and we eventually married about 2 years after dating. Point is we just met...neither of us was looking to date. Dating is akward though. Theres no real rush. Why don't you just have fun and if some nice boy wants to spend 1 on 1 time with you, if you feel comfortable go on a date with him. I admire you for wanting to wait for marriage. Don't let anyone discourage you from that or try and change your morals. Its well worth the wait.
Honestly it is hard to FIND a husband if you don't date a little bit. Im not saying you should do anything with them but if you don't get to know different people it's hard to figure out what you do and dont like. Even if you think you want something you may find you do not.





For example Im very independant and I thought I wanted a guy who leaves me alone, then I found one, we'd go a week at a time without talking, and it upset me. So I realized I want someone who lets me have my space but still shows he wants to talk to me etc
Just do what you want to do. I do think that there is anything really scary about dating, it's just gaining more knowledge and developing a deeper connection with a person you like. If there are opportunities for you to date people that you like you should take them before you end up having regret later on. You can keep your virginity while dating too if you want.
Its ok! If you want to start dating you can. But if not it doesnt matter. Just dont date any guy though, make sure its the person who you can get along with or can see yourself with. Dont rush into relationships....bad idea! And make sure your first kiss is with someone you wanna kiss cause if a guy kisses you and u kiss him back but dont care for him, it sucks! So wait for the special guy to come along :)
if you're scared of dating then don't do it. so what if you're still a virgin and haven't kissed anybody. what matters is your feelings. there are a lot of great guys out there. you're not gonna marry your first boyfriend or w/e when you're 16 so wait until you're ready. and if you wanna wait for your husband, then do it!
put yourself out there.don't be scared to show who you really are and don't be somebody that somebody else wants to see.don't be nervous about dating just cause of those things.whatever is meant to be will always find a way,don't rush nothing just give it time %26amp; if a guy wants to come into your life don't be scared to let him in.just see how things work out for ya!
holy crap woman u don't have to have sex on your first date! i hav the same situation, u will go on several dates before u hav to worry about staying a virgin. After a while if he starts to get physical just talk to him about it and a guy who is worth worrying about will understand and repsect u for that :) good luck, go for it!
This depends, are you really the most successful filmmaker? If you are, you should do whatever you want. You're very successful. If you're not a very successful (specifically, the most successful) filmmaker, I just don't know what to tell you.
Your young, you dint have to date right now. You can a have a BF and not have sex with him. Just tell (when you get) your bf that your waiting until marriage and if he makes a fuss dump him. Waiting is good i wish i didn't give my ex (B!tch) my V-card =P





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honey ull never find ur ';husband'; if you dont start lookin





it might make u nervous at first but dating is hella fun and a great experience. ur young, and only young once so LIVE IT UP HON!!!!!





if ur not comfterble tho then just wait





u can read a book while ur waitin
if you start dating now, ur gonna be caught up in a lot of drama, and pain.


you should wait until you find someone who you know treats you right and wont only use you for sex.





take your time, dont look for someone let them come to you
wow reading this kinda makes me regret some of the decisions i have made in life. i think u should keep that perspective (the waiting part)





try doing little things like socializing with guys more often.it should warm u up a bit =)
i am in your EXACT same situation. for me i just keep remembering that i am my biggest ally and will always be there for myself. no matter what happens you have yourself. it lets me feel secure.
It's perfectly normal to be nervous to date. I suggest you seek out shy guys, they help with your confidence and self-esteem.
Wait a few years or maybe start dating guys that you know you don't want, that'll warm you up
do what your gut tells you. you sound like a very intelligent girl.


Don't rush into something you aren't sure of
whenever your ready


its time will come you don't have to rush it so for right now just enjoy the young life
a guy will never actually like u if you dont give him sex on the 1st date