I am such a shy girl, can anyone give me advice to help get the guy I want without being someone else?

I dont want any drugs involved :)I am such a shy girl, can anyone give me advice to help get the guy I want without being someone else?
smile at him and lock eyes, its the best way to let someone know you're into them nonverbally. If he doesn't come to you after a few cute stare-downs (even though he should, men don't always get subtleties) then just say hi and ask him how hes doing. starting the conversation is half the battle.I am such a shy girl, can anyone give me advice to help get the guy I want without being someone else?
basically by taking your time to have him warm up to you if you are in some kind of function with him try to find away for you to work on a project together the more time you spend with him the more he will get to know you then you will be more relax around him enough that will be able to show him the real you
Shy? I'm your man! ...Just kidding.


The truth is we appreciate shy women as much as other women. You should be yourself. The person who truly loves you loves you as you are, so you don't have to do anthing extra - just be yourself.
Be yourself, shyness can be an endearing quality for a man, especially in this day and time, when women don't blush, are wide open for everything. I'm sure he sees you, give it time.
You will be the woman of his dreams when you like yourself. When you have a deep healthy respect for yourself they will beat a path to your door, and you get to pick and choose. When you get beyond the shell of your youth you will learn to live for the larger purpose.
Just say no to drugs! LOL





Competition is really tough for a shy girl. You really can't expect anybody to notice you if you don't talk to them.





Well if you wanna be the best YOU that you can be, ask yourself what's good about you, you can even ask your friends what they like about you most. That will give you a boost in your self confidence. Get to know yourself and then you'll know what your limits are.





Personally i haven't seen a girl blush in years. It's really cute.
if you can't get this guy without being yourself then you don't want him. a man should love you unconditionally. you have to get over the shyness bit or it'll never happen. and who knows he may not be interested in you, don't make a fool of yourself and don't put your heart out there.
be yourself and have more confidence in yourself...shyness is another form of fear, so dont worry about what others might think of you, just be happy with yourself, get rid of your fear and let the real you shine through
Pardon my being blunt, but if a shy girl wants a man's attention but is too shy to go and say ';hi'; herself, then she needs to be loud in her apparel and dress like a damn sl*t. I know you hate me for saying so, but a guy will almost ONLY notice a shy girl for how incredibly sexy she is, then he will probably see how shy and inexperienced she is with men, he'll think she's really cute as well as devastatingly sexy and not want to let her go.
i think what you might want to do is let your hair down alittle i am not trying to say go up to everyone you met but atleast try to say hi to someone esle that looks shy to maybe yal can hit it off or go for someone opposite then you are and see how it goes you never will now if you don't try the first step i know that you have a little wild side let it shine through and you never now it just might work out for you
i'm dating a girl whos quite shy and let me tell you, i enjoy being with her. there are lot of guys out there who like shy gals. so dont worry. just be yourself.