I could use some advice about my girl bestfriend...?

ok i have this girl bestfriend we're both 15 and im a male


and we've been good friends since about the beginning of the year we hang out near each other at lunch and we have a class together(i sit right in front of her)


but lately i've been noticing that I'm always talking and listening to her about her problems or just things that happened to her that day and she never asks me about my day or anything and we never really talk about what i'm up to or w/e


and i'm a real outgoing happy-go-lucky guy so you can tell when im feeling blue but whenever i am, she doesnt even bother to ask whats wrong or something and one time i was down in the dumps, she tried to start talking about her and some guy(not drama but a guy shes interested in) and i was like wtf


and she has occasionally ditches me for other guys(that like her) or her girlfriends(which she usually does at lunch)


it makes me feel bad to know she ditches me and doesnt tend to show interest in my life ya know?


i've been kinda ignoring her the past couplse days but not like all jerk but enough to where she can obviously see something is up





what do you think of my situation?


should i just start talking to her and ignore any of this ever happened?


i could really use some advice on what to do..I could use some advice about my girl bestfriend...?
well that sucks but sometimes you need to tell her your problems like she does for you, it's not that she doesn't care it's that she doesn't even think about this happy guy might have a couple problems. as for the ditching part, she has lots of friends who she wants to talk to, anf the guys part that's only natural and she'll move on back to you in a snap. and the not seeing you're bummed, well maybe it isn't as obvious as you think.I could use some advice about my girl bestfriend...?
ummmm try explain it a lil better den i culd try to help u
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if she doesnt appreciate what youre doign for her, then shes not really a friend. you have been a very good friend to her and its very discouraging to have a friend that doestn return the favor. i dont think that it is fair that you put in all the owrk and she jsut blows you off in the end. i dont think you should ignore that any of that happened, because thats ignoring a huge part of her- if shes not going to treat you right then whats the point? just go with your instints, if she is not returning the favor then dont even give her the time of day. good luck,
Tell her how you feel. What is the worst that can happen? Tell her you really like her. Sure you could get the, ';I'm not interested in you that way'; but at least you would know. If she just wants to stay friends go along with that, she may change her mind someday. Don't wait for her to ask you about your problem, tell her you need some advice with a problem you have and that way you can start talking about you. If she continues to treat you badly don't stay around for the abuse, just avoid her but stay cordial. You will realize that some people are only interested in themselves and they won't change. Find a girl that appreciates they person you are, you seem to be a good guy.
Tell her exactly what you wrote here and if she is truly a good friend she will see her ways and make it better.
I think she justs wants a friend relationship. I would leave her if she only cares about herself. Also thats a really crappy girlfriend if shes gonna ditch you for other guys, thats not right in any relationship. I would totally break up with her.
i think that in a sense you are a pushover. i think that the girl knows what she is doing to you, but because you don't say anything or don't speak up for yourself and what you think, she must think that whatever she is doing is okay. try talking to her and telling her how you feel. you can't expect everyone to be a mind reader. so unless you say something or oppose something, she just might keep thinking that everything is okay.





if you do talk to her and she ends up either not listening to what you have to say or not taking you seriously, then i think you should assess your relationship with this girl. don't ever just suppress the situation like it never happened. because usually, if you both get through this obstacle, it will make your friendship stronger.
telll her how u fell please be if u dont u will regert it the rest of ur life
Well....If your not getting as much as your giving then it's not really a good relationship. But still, try talking about it with her first, if she does'nt make an effort after that...Get better friends. Just know that she's not the type of person that you want in a friend.