Need advice on how do i approach this girl?

Hi, our company recently hired a new Russian lady. She is roughly the same age as me, and she is so god-damn pretty. Initially, she sits behind the wall that is just in front of my desk.


A few days ago, our company did some re-arrangement of the desk and now she sits less than 5 feet in front of me. These few days, I had the opportunity to drive her to/from work as my regular route to/from work is closed due to an oil spill so I've to drive past where she lives, so I offer her a ride to/from work. During our 1-hr commute each way, I found out that we share a lot of things in common, and we share so many good laughs duing our commute these few days.





However, there is a problem ... she lives with her boyfriend of four years. I don't know whether she knows I have a serious crush on her, but she knows that I don't have a girlfriend yet.





So I need some serious advice how do I approach this?Need advice on how do i approach this girl?
She has a live-in boyfriend. There is nothing you can do. (unless their relationship ends, then go for it!)Need advice on how do i approach this girl?
Wow your in a serious predicament... First of all does her boyfriend make her happy? Does he hit her or anything? If he makes her happy and she loves him then you have no chance. Also if he is a good boyfriend don't try to stand in between them, she was there first he deserves her.





If he is not a good boyfriend and you think you can make her happier, then more power to you. First don't show any feelings of attraction at all. Make sure she shows the first feeling of attraction then you can open up. Make everything as proffesional as possible. Even try going on double dates if you can handle her and her boyfriend doing their thing. Treat the girl you take with the utmost respect and love. The russian girl will see how you treat a date and start falling for you. Basically show the russian girl how you will make her happy without realling showing her. Good Luck and do good!
If i were you i wouldnt even go there... I see that you like her and she might think your cute but she has a bf of 4 years. Unless she has been saying that she is having problems with her bf then i would leave it alone. I have a bf of about 3 years and i hate it when men hit on me.
If she has a boyfriend that she lives with, you'd be better off not approaching her by confessing your crush to her. Just be friends.
first off, how serious is the relationship between her and her boyfriend, are they having problems? but truthfully in the long run it is always best to be honest(you know especially when it comes to women) Hinding your feelings isn't going to do nothing but tear you apart. But always remember she could say no, and if that's the case keep your head up, because there is someone else out there for you, just let her find you, you'd be suprised.
friendship all the way. if she is living with her boyfriend of four years then they are moving forward in their relationship. This basically means that she's committed to him and though you may like her she may just view you as a friend. It's okay to just be friends with a nice, pretty, intelligent girl, but how it sounds is that she's off the market and you should view her as such. You should never go after a girl that's taken, and if her boyfriend is russian as well...uh oh....but just take the friendship as it comes and learn to appreciate her traits as assets.
Well, obviously her relationship is serious if she's been living with him for four years!


Hold back, try your best to find someone else.


Or, you can find out more information about her relationship. If it's failing, proceed with caution. If they're thinking about getting married, get as far away as possible from her.


You don't want to risk ruining a friendship over this.


Plus it'll result in some pretty awkward times at work.
You don't, she's taken. If she decides to do anything with you, she's a whore.
She has a boyfriend and is not interested in you. Leave her alone, because if you don't, you're just going to make an uncomfortable situation.
This is a hard question to answer but i guess just be honest tell her u know she has a boyfriend but you think you may have feeling for her and you just thought she should know and see how she reacts. she may take time to think about what u have to say or she may stop talking to you and driving to work with you but at-least you let her no just in case there is any possibility she feels the same way
Just be yourself. If she finds out that you like her, by the way you act and treat her...and she likes you, then it will play out. Don't push it. If she is happy with her current boyfriend, and she loves him, you shouldn't try to break it up. If she were to end up liking you better, then let her work it out. Let her come to you.
DO NOT TAKE ACTION ON THIS!!! it will totally hurt your karma if she is involved with someone.. and it will bite you in the ***... just stay chill with her... be her friend... and someone she can confide in... be there for her... if she and her boyfriend ever break up she will probably come to you... or she will see what a great guy you are and break up with him and come to you anyway. just do not take it beyond friendship until their relationship is over.