Could someone please give me advice? (about a girl)?

Ill try to keep this brief...





But there is this girl Ive been talkin to for some time....SHe is really nice to me, and we both have no problem being around each other...However, she asked me to go out to a bar with her...The problem with that is, I dont drink, and I really have a hard time socializing with other people. She knew about how I felt about drinking, and she said I didnt have to drink, she just wanted to hang out with me....





SO i went...ANd I had a miserable time...Im a very softspoken guy, and this place was far out of my comfort zone....I tried to look like I was having a good time, but she def knew I wasnt, and she seemed upset. I tried to apologize for me being such a drag...





Even though she told me its okay, I still feel shes upset, and probably never wants to hang out with me again...





Im too embarrassed to even text or call her...Im not sure what to do, or think....





Ill see her again in class Tuesday!





I asked this the other night, and got some really good advice, but I wanted to ask it one more time, to get some more advice.





ANy help would be great!


THanks!Could someone please give me advice? (about a girl)?
The two of you obviously have different ideas about how to have a good time. Tuesday, just act like the date never happened. You can be friends, but look for somebody more on your own wavelength to date. Good luck!Could someone please give me advice? (about a girl)?
you are who you are - dont apologize for it. this could actually be a selling point for you, you are different from most guys she knows, and she might respect you for it :) So stop saying sorry about it or act like you are a loser - be confident in who you are. You dont like bars, act like she can take it or leave it! she'll be all over you.





Kell xx
dude how about her inviting you to chill with her how about you take her to where your comfortable and see if she likes that


show her things you like maybe she will like them.


or just try and get into what she likes doing if you really like her.
i think the best thing is to tell her that u really really didnt feel comfertable there (even if u already did) and invite her to a place where u feeel comfertable and see if she likes it and if u guys both feel cool then go there fer now on. or go to her house or your house. take her out to dinner and a movie or somthing like that.,





girls love that. (:





well i do;;





if u really like her and and wanna take ur time on her, then i say go for it :D





if it doesnt work out, find another girl and make it great with her; and see what happens :P
Murder her dog.