Saturday, July 31, 2010

So i need advice on a girl(like everyone else appearently)?

so i got a gay friend of mine who is close to her to explore the ';does she like me'; question, he said no and that she seemed kindve annoyed i liked her, im not sure why she would be annoyed because i havent pressed the matter or anything, and i give her alot of space, she did get turned down by one of my friends awhile ago mainly because hes trying to get back with his ex, but she also said';why do all the weird guys like me?';


she also was referring to the guy that rejected her and ive never been called weird before, and my gay friend was also quick to say i wasnt weird but is she just stressed right now b/c of prom and the end of senior year and stuff? she also says she doesnt like anyone right now.she said to him that i was sweet but she didnt like me as more than a friend.i also couldve sworn she liked me because of her body language and stuff in class but i guess not, is this something that can be waited it out and in the meantime i just go';play the field';?or is it stuck this way?So i need advice on a girl(like everyone else appearently)?
look, give her some time. shes obviousily upset about something right now and i dont think that she'd apreciate it if you tried to make a move. give her time to recoperate and she'll come around. good luck!





-mkSo i need advice on a girl(like everyone else appearently)?
okay first please stop reffering to your friend as ';my gay friend';


second. you should ask her to prom. but say just as friends. do all the traditional stuff and maybe ask her if she wants to go to a movie or something. just to make things less awkward for prom night and stuff. give her time. who knows she might grow to like you.
Just wait, maybe if you get another girlfriend she might realise she has feelings for you. But it sounds as if she really only thinks of you as a friend, sorry.
Pay some attention to her. Why not ask her out yourself, maybe just as friends so you can get to know her more.
A girl almost never says whats on her mind, just what she thinks should be on her mind. I think her body is a better sign of what she thinks then what she says is. But I may be wrong, perhaps shes one of the few that us guys can actually understand.





Clearly what you need to do first is create an image of yourself. You need to look stable, confidant, and a little gutsy. But you have to be careful to never turn down the opportunity to help someone in need. Those are the qualities that leave the biggest impression.





Also, remember that begging never works, if you ask her out and she terns you down... then your done, there is not second chance.





Edit: Lilly (above) has the best idea in my opinion.
She is upsate right now, u can definately win her heart .
she could just be stressed, but dont read into it. if you look for body language that says she likes you just to get your hopes up, you will get yourself into lots more trouble. you cant always tell when people like you unless they say it! i have personal experience! my friend ';guessed'; that this guy who she likes liked her, well, she guessed wrong. the very next day, she told him, so i know that you like me, why dont we go out? you can only imagine what happened next!!! let her have her space, until she says anything further!!!
omg.





pleeeease read the book ';hard love'; by ellen wittlinger. or aleast look for an online summary of it. i know this sounds crazy but, wow. your situation is like...omg! its deja vu!
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