Tuesday, July 27, 2010

What is your best advice about this girl i have a crush on?

Background:





1- i met her 2 months ago


2- she has been single for 6 months, she got dumped after a 5 year relationship


3- i sent her a secret crush message on myspace, and she started falling for me before i released my identity





Her quotes:





before she knew it was me on myspace ....





';why don't you come over to my house if you know where i live and come sweep me off my feet, take me out or sit with me, i want to meet you so bad and i can see myself with someone with your personality';








After i revealed my self....





';well i don't feel like i know you enough to decide whether or not i want you as a boyfriend right now. im still leaving my options open because i don't wanna get into another relationship and have it not work out if we arn't meant to be. i want a relationship like my parents to last forever. if you are wondering if i am disappointed that it is you, and i wouldn't say that. On myspace you seem a little different then your rep.. so i don't know. i thing that once i get to know the real you in person and amoung friends then we shall see. i honestly don't know you well enough to decide whether or not we are going to be such a great match';





WHAT DO I DO NOW, WHATS MY NEXT MOVE?What is your best advice about this girl i have a crush on?
If you have msn or something you should talk to her over that, its more personal than myspace.


Play 20 questions with her, it's amazing what you can find out about a person when playing.


Don't forget anything she's told you, even if you have to write it down somewhere, remembering it will make her feel important.


Be there for her, I know it sounds cheesy but she'll realize how much you care if you are there for her.


Go out with her with some of your friends, let her see the real you, it will help her to trust you. If she likes you from hanging around with you and friends then ask her on a date, like a ';trial'; to see if you two would work out.


I know this may seem like a long way to go about it but if she means that much to you then it'll be worth it and it will help her trust you and get to know you better.What is your best advice about this girl i have a crush on?
well obvioulsy she is a HOE!!! she loved how you talked to her and you were a mystery to her.but then you told her and now she doesnt want to have anything to do with you. she isnt worth it. find someone worth ur time!
do soemthing sweet like go to her house when she's home alone and do what she said sweep her off her feet. get her some flowers and maybe a box of chocoleates aswell:)
get her number. talk to her in person and on the phone but don't call her everyday, you may appear to clingy.
just say ok, and tell her how u feel about her but dont get caught in this lovey dovey crap
hang out with her
sleep with her
get an answer?
show her that what she saw on myspace was the real you and that eventhough your reputation isn't one she would enjoy its only because you have been misunderstood by the other people. she is scared to be with someone she doesnt know and you were scared to be you with people you didn't know. show her through friendship that everything is different with her because there is a Mutual understanding. good luck
I think you should work at her. show her the myspace side of you, instead of your normal rep. if you really like her i think you should try to do something romantic. like send her flowers or chocolate or put notes in her locker! the ideas are endless, but you need to find the right one for you and what you are comfortable with. Please, don't push her, because girls never like that. you need to give her time to see if that if she really wants to be with you.


good luck!!

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