Ladies, I need your advice about a girl!! Please HELP!!?

Okay so here is the situation:





Lately I've become really interested in this girl. I have known her for a very long time but we have only just started to get to know one another better. Only recently have I started thinking about her differently.





I haven't actually shown my interest to her though, mainly because I've kept it bottled up inside of me. I am pretty sure she has no idea that I really like her but I definitely get the feeling that she likes me. I'm not sure about how much she likes me and whether she would even consider me more than a friend if I began to show my true interest in her.





She has seriously been on my mind for over a week now and I can't stop thinking about her!! I am 19 years old and I've never felt this way about a girl before and to be honest I never thought I would ever feel this way about anyone!! It sounds a little corny but it is true.





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My question is:


Should I just come out and tell her the way I feel and tell her how much I have been thinking about her...or will this come off as a little desperate?? What I really want to know is, would it freak her out if i told her how much she has been on my mind and how much I've been thinking about her?? I am scared that I might scare her off if I tell her the way I really feel but I don't want to hold it in any longer!! I just want to tell her every time I see her.


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I have had crushes on girls before but they have mainly been due to physical attractions. This is certainly different because I feel a much deeper connection, I mean initially I was attracted to her physically because she is gorgeous but since spending more time with her things have become way more deeper than that. Hard to put into words really...





Sorry for rambling on, I had to tell someone!!Ladies, I need your advice about a girl!! Please HELP!!?
i know exactly what your goin through...its difficult cause obviously u dont wanna damage a friendship. probs the best thing to do is to casually ask her out and u can gauge from her response as to whether theres any feelings her end. i would restrain from saying things like 'i'm obsessed with you'...it'll be too much of a shock for her (unless she feels the same of course)





it really depends on her personality as to how she'll react. if she's a genuine nice girl and you know how she'll react if she dont like u in that way then probs best to sit down with her and lay your feelings out there (just say something like 'i like you, i think your wonderful...would u go out with me')...but dont open up completely...at least not straight away.





when it comes down to it, you know her better than anyone on this forum so only you know how she'll react.





if she's a nice girl and a good friend theres no reason u cant continue to be friends if she dont feel the same..so really, what do you have to loose (i need to start taking my own advice lol)





good luck mate...hope u get her.Ladies, I need your advice about a girl!! Please HELP!!?
well, don't tell her exactly how much you have been thinking about her. it might freak her out a little.





try asking her out on a date and just talk and have a good time.





i understand what you feel. i feel the same about this guy i know.


anyways, just take it slow. if you move too fast, it might scare her a bit