Tuesday, July 27, 2010

I need some opinions/advice about this girl ive been seeing....?

alright, so im seeing this girl and we've been out a few times now and its been really fun! i like her, she likes me, we like eachother lol. but due to past experiences, i like to take things slow... so my question is should i let her know this? and also, she is a great girl, but her friends seem kind of trashy and all they care about is partying. she does not act that way when shes with me, but i would be lying if i say i havent thought about how she is with just them. it just seems like she acts one way with me, but a completely different way around her friends/other people... should i just see what happens? im alil confuses about this whole thing lol... if your reading this, let your wisdom flow about what you think lol... thanksI need some opinions/advice about this girl ive been seeing....?
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simple as thatI need some opinions/advice about this girl ive been seeing....?
Lol shes just trying to please you!!!!!!!! Take things slow. U dont need to tell her that right now. Girls get different when theyre around ';their'; girls lol or bffls. hope this helped!
I think you shouldn't worry about it. This is just like the beginning of a relationship, so you'll know soon enough if she's the right girl for you.
She may be fronting around her friends. I was with a guy who did the same thing and I felt more special and connected to him because he acted different around me. I think he liked because compared to his crazy partying friends I think I appeared a bit more down to earth.
ok on the slow part. dont take it to slow like if you want to go slow atleast make out or kiss her and then you can stop there. second you both like each other so what does it mater if her friends are trashy. and as for the partying thing it all comes down to if you trust her not to cheat on you. you may want to talk about that a bit but dont make her promise not to cheat on you cause then she will feel pressured and think your wierd
maybe you should tell her that you like to take things slow, does she not act nice when she's around other people? and if she doesn't then will it be like that all the time if you and her are with someone else?
I think you should give her a chance. Make sure you are not judging her by her friends, and remember, people are always gonna act differant around their friends. Maybe there is a whole crazy side to this girl that shes not comfortable enough to share with you yet. Just give it time, I would, and if things don't work out well then it just wasn't meant to be. I hope things do work out for you though and I wish you the best of luck!!
ok well first off girls always act different around there bf and their frnds, and yes you should tell her that you want to slow down a bit
well firstly i think you shud tell her that u wanna take it slow.. build a stronger base... past exp... wateva reason you give to her.. secondly i think love can change a person.. love makes them wanna change for the better.. maybe being around you makes her want to make herself a better person so just dont loose hope yet.. just give her a chance.. maybe she's wit those friends cuz she cant find the right ppl...maybe she doesnt even like them so much.. you obviously like this girl.. so dont let doubts and suspicion get into you mind cuz then you will never be able to give her and the relationship your complete... all in all.. dont worry...make your position clear and dont judge her cz of her friends.. she maybe different...

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