easy dude. here's what you do...you need to be smooth in your approach. so don't come right out and say you like her, just walk up and ask her for her phone number. then say you will call her sometime. wait two days, then call. you will get to know her better that way than you would talking to her in front of her friends.Advice needed for this girl I really really like?
try to sign it in her yearbook. I'd be carful on the creepyness level, just do something sweet and not to frward and then be like, 'if you ever need something to do this summer, give me a holler.'; or smething like that and give her you number and email and stuff. The other thing is yu should probably start making contact with her now cause it may be kind of wierd and random if you just randomlly sign her yearbook.
Good Luck
ok so i know you dont want to talk to her in person becuz u are afraid you'll panic. but if u practice what you're going to say to her for a few days i'm sure u wont be in as big of a panic. no think of this girl as just a friend and approach her as if you would any friend of yours. be calm and relaxed cuz girls dont want a guy to be shy and scared. they want to see confidence so they know u'll be there for them. notes sometimes work but girls like the direct approach a little better cuz it shows u are going out of your way to talk to her even when ur scared. once you let her know how you feel and if she gives you a good response back tell her how much of a relief it was for you to get this off ur chest and how you didnt think you could ever do it becuz u are shy. they will really like the fact that you broke out of ur shyness to talk to them
well good luck my man. and just have fun cuz even if she doesnt feel the same way about you, you can always move on and find the girl you like and who likes u. cya bud
first, relax (this is probably hardest step)
next, talk to her...bout what courses she's got, or how a teacher is
next, get those digits, just slip the question ';gimme ur number so i can call u later, i may need help with [insert hmk assignment or sumthing]'; Then once she gives it to you. DO NOT CALL THE SAME DAY.
next, start pushing her away for like a day, then she'll be wondering why u asked for her # and never called.
next, on that third day call her up and say ';I HAVE SOMETHING REALLY AMAZING TO TELL U, BUT I G2g!!! SRRY ILL CALL U BACK'; then hang up.
This is where you get her thinking about you for the whole night, do not call until next time you SEE her, if she asks, and u have nothing to say, just say you forgot,
finally, mission accomplished, tell her how u feel.
I know you don't want to say it in person, but that is what a girl likes. That or on the phone. Try talking to her more and get her phone number. Then, when you are ready and have become closer, tell her how you fell. Hope this helps you...
Write her a note....but make sure you put some personality in it! Try to make it sincere but funny....dont get tooooo serious by giving a Shakespeare quote....that's kinda cheesy and you dont want to be cheesy!
No matter the outcome...you know you DID it! :)
p.s. I was in High School when this one guy gave me a 3 page letter....to this day I still have it. And Yes, I did go out with him!
good luck!
Smile and ask her if she has seen Spiderman? Take her to the movies on Saturday afternoon. Share some popcorn and conversation. You can give her your phone number and ask if she would like to go to the movies or something else like that. Then leave it alone. Don't call her. Let her call you. Good luck.
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